Agreeing blindly is not love

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know why people always feel agreeing to someone blindly or with confrontation is love or correct thing to do.
Why are people bashing Paro? isn't she doing the right thing. How much longer Rudra is going to live in past and fight his demons. He need to get over it, fight out with Mala and then move on. Maybe Paro is not doing (thou its dilsher who asked her to do) what Rudra wants but at the end of the day, its for Rudra's better. He has a bad past and humilation that cannot be changed but atleast she is making effort to make things better for him in future. Rudra does need his mom and is affected by her. She is doing for him and always reassures him that she is with him.
Always agreeing blindly is not the right thing to do. Afterall your spouse or family should tell you and make you do what is good for you.
Didnt Rudra not throw Laila out of haveli much against Paro's wish which she quietly agreed when he forced and he had to show doctor has advised etc. But he did what was best for their relation/marriage and Paro. Laila was playing with her emotions.
So its very important that we act what is in best interest for each other. On the contrary She is doing all this and putting her relationship at stake for him when she feels Rudra doesnot love her, only is bound by marriage.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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this is where I think is the difference, as you mentioned making things better, would to support him and be there for him, not doing the thing that scares him the most, abandonment, when i say support him not by agreeing to him but being his pillar when he is broken down and shattered...when she went to spend the night with Mala, it was rubbing the salt...for R it was abandonment... Mala is in pain too...but she did not hear the taunts, did she? or go thru the pain R went thru, and how long did it take R to even open up to P...can't she see that?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Snoowfall,
I think she attended Rudra and came home with him, fed him, make him sleep and then went to mala. She took care of Rudra but had to even attend Mala same night. Most importanly she told Dilsher and wanted to inform Rudra too. Its always a tight rope. Rudra is at his home but She is at BSD, bruised and tortured. Paro knows how bad Tejawat can be. When She took in Laila in her house knowing that she was threatened by Tejawat although she loved Rudra.
Mala has also run from tejwat and she is Rudra's mother and her mother figure too. And at the end of the day Rudra's pain will go after he reconciles with his mom.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What Paro is doing now is tough love and what Rudra and some people want is baby wala love.
Paro is doing the right thing!
Rudra needs to DEAL with it and MOVE ON, so we all can move on too😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said...Paro is his wife, not his fan. Loved ones tell you what you ought to hear not what you want to hear.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer

Well said...Paro is his wife, not his fan. Loved ones tell you what you ought to hear not what you want to hear.

wife not fan😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said baisa .sometimes we have to do things that may cause pain to people we love but is very important for their future happiness. that is what paro is doing.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post! If you love someone then your job is to show them the right way not to agree to whatever they are saying. People in turmoil often can't see the whole picture and it's up to loved ones to show it to them and guide them and support them - all of which Paro is doing.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rudra hardly ever agrees with Paro...it causes her pain,makes her cry yet all support him. Why? Bcz as viewers v already get to know who the villains are and unfairly expect Paro to recognize the same by blindly trusting Rudra. And today when Paro is justifiably aiding the person responsible for Rudra's trauma,many here have simply discarded logic! Paro never left rudra for Mala,she made sure that he was ok and sleeping comfortably,took permission from his own father who too was affected by Mala and then only went to her. Rudra had his entire family with him but who did Mala have in the BSD HQ?! Since when has taking care of ur mother become a sin? Sometimes I feel viewers want Paro to sit before Rudra and fan him all night. Paro has made it clear time and again that she's on Rudra's side and simply wants to show him that Mala too is on the same side now...regretful of her actions,in love with her son and against tejawat! But who understands! She brought her back on Dilsher's request and not by herself. If someone thinks that keeping Mala in HQ will give rudra enough time to overcome his hatred then he's wrong. Keeping mala in his view,letting her present her case is probably the best possible way for rudra to get used to her comeback...something that dilsher has understood and many here are yet to understand!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

What Paro is doing now is tough love and what Rudra and some people want is baby wala love.
Paro is doing the right thing!
Rudra needs to DEAL with it and MOVE ON, so we all can move on too😆

No no dear paro is only giving rudra a baby walla love and she has nothing to do with his pain.

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