Agreeing blindly is not love

I don't know why people always feel agreeing to someone blindly or with confrontation is love or correct thing to do.

this is where I think is the difference, as you mentioned making things better, would to support him and be there for him, not doing the thing that scares him the most, abandonment, when i say support him not by agreeing to him but being his pillar when he is broken down and shattered...when she went to spend the night with Mala, it was rubbing the salt...for R it was abandonment... Mala is in pain too...but she did not hear the taunts, did she? or go thru the pain R went thru, and how long did it take R to even open up to P...can't she see that?

What Paro is doing now is tough love and what Rudra and some people want is baby wala love.
Paro is doing the right thing!
Rudra needs to DEAL with it and MOVE ON, so we all can move on too😆

Well said...Paro is his wife, not his fan. Loved ones tell you what you ought to hear not what you want to hear.

Originally posted by: showviewer

Well said...Paro is his wife, not his fan. Loved ones tell you what you ought to hear not what you want to hear.

wife not fan😆

well said baisa .sometimes we have to do things that may cause pain to people we love but is very important for their future happiness. that is what paro is doing.

Great post! If you love someone then your job is to show them the right way not to agree to whatever they are saying. People in turmoil often can't see the whole picture and it's up to loved ones to show it to them and guide them and support them - all of which Paro is doing.

Rudra hardly ever agrees with Paro...it causes her pain,makes her cry yet all support him. Why? Bcz as viewers v already get to know who the villains are and unfairly expect Paro to recognize the same by blindly trusting Rudra. And today when Paro is justifiably aiding the person responsible for Rudra's trauma,many here have simply discarded logic! Paro never left rudra for Mala,she made sure that he was ok and sleeping comfortably,took permission from his own father who too was affected by Mala and then only went to her. Rudra had his entire family with him but who did Mala have in the BSD HQ?! Since when has taking care of ur mother become a sin? Sometimes I feel viewers want Paro to sit before Rudra and fan him all night. Paro has made it clear time and again that she's on Rudra's side and simply wants to show him that Mala too is on the same side now...regretful of her actions,in love with her son and against tejawat! But who understands! She brought her back on Dilsher's request and not by herself. If someone thinks that keeping Mala in HQ will give rudra enough time to overcome his hatred then he's wrong. Keeping mala in his view,letting her present her case is probably the best possible way for rudra to get used to her comeback...something that dilsher has understood and many here are yet to understand!

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

What Paro is doing now is tough love and what Rudra and some people want is baby wala love.
Paro is doing the right thing!
Rudra needs to DEAL with it and MOVE ON, so we all can move on too😆