When expectations go downhill and reality hits you hard .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Am i the only one who is loving the show right now ? I think the way things are progressing is good, just if the pace could be slowed down a bit.
Well what can i say. I liked the episode, it was well executed and the dragging is not there, every character's intentions and thought processes are shown and shown very well, no confusion there.
Today for once i could see Mala realizing that how much Rudra suffered, how no matter what was the situation she had left him to face this big world on his own, to face the mockery and survive, his outburst had done the trick. But the very next moment i could see tears of self pity in her eyes, and even relief that Paro is with her. I just dont understand Mala that how has she agreed to come back to haveli ? even after Rudra's rant , she agreed to come back ? thats ridiculous , plane ridiculous.

When expectations go downhill and someone faces the reality from which they wanted to get rid off, they wanted to forget, the condition becomes similar to hat off Rudra's. At his place anybody could lose their mental balance, things are going over his head, happening in front of his eyes, nobody is considering his position , everyone is busy doing their own regretful acts or their own dutyful acts, and in the veil of being his supporter , how saddistic is that ?
I do not understand why was Dilsher angry at Rudra when he understood that he blasted off Mala ? Did dilsher expect Rudra to behave all calmly and behave like a good son to her ? why would he ? because its Dilsher himself who have poisoned Rudra's mind and now he expect Rudra to behave the way he wants? what kind of joke was that ?
And Paro, i understand that for her its not easy to get over her and Mala's bond, but again I will not lie, i found her act equally wrong, she wanted to go and take care of Mala, and yeah leave Rudra to sleep alone. Still i was like ok, do it, its ok, but what i disliked the most was when she told Dilsher that Rudra and his words have torn Mala apart, Mala is so vulnerable, bechari and Mala does not deserve this . it came off as complaining about Rudra's deed ? i swear it was getting on my last nerve. I did not bother to rethink about her advice to Mala and hope that Mala will get her son back, it was too much for me to absorb by then.

Rudra, well, he cannot even sleep peacefully when Paro is not around, he needs her, his peace of mind lies within her, and how beautiful was that short moment of him holding the mangalsutra and remembering the desires to be with her and how that one moment got shattered due to his unforgettable and unforgivable past.
I just dont know how he will fight with both Dilsher and Paro and still stand by his opinion, i do know there will be a time when he will forgive Mala, but it will be awesome to see him being all isolated once again and his last hope and faith in his baapusa will soon vanish off, a new and a bigger blow to his already broken heart . And yes i dont expect anything from Paro now, she is good at feeding him and playing with his mooch, but mending his heart, its not just her forte i guess.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A sensible post on todayz episodsle.
We seriouy have to look at pther aspects rather then only asking for parud romance only..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro does seem to be going all out and supporting Mala...the timing is the issue...too much force on Rudra too soon...for Dilsher he is ready to forgive and forget and maybe even feels guilty so he wants to be good and probably asked Paro to bring Mala...
For Paro maasa is paramount...h actions seriously contradict her claims of being on Rudra's side! I think she fails to realise the seriousness of what Mala did...irrespective of h reasons...Rudra doesn't know and has suffered for so long..how can she be so dismissive and speak in favor of Mala??

Yes Mala was a mother like figure to her...but to Rudra whom she claims to love so much...Mala is the mother who caused him so much grief...for Paro to so blatantly disregard Rudra's feelings is very insensitive!

Just patting his forehead and covering him with a blanket are simply not indicative of support when she goes ahead and does what she wants against h wishes anyway!

How dos it matter even if Dilsher asked her to bring Mala? Who should she think about more here?? Mala is not with strangers...she is safe and being taken care of!

Oh well I can't relate to Paro once again and doesn't seem like I will be able to any time soon!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not understand why was Dilsher angry at Rudra when he understood that he blasted off Mala ? Did dilsher expect Rudra to behave all calmly and behave like a good son to her ? why would he ? because its Dilsher himself who have poisoned Rudra's mind and now he expect Rudra to behave the way he want



I think Dilsher wants Mala in the haveli and shutting the son up is not because of goodness of heart, it could be because of guilt ( Rudra does not know that his mum tried to take him with her but his dad didn;t allow it), actually Mala only wanted to leave Dilsher not her son, it makes a lot of difference that Mala did not abandon her son but the father made it seem like that. Perhaps Dilsher is trying to show penance and perhaps also dreading his son's reaction when he realise his mum did not abandon him.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tiangka

I do not understand why was Dilsher angry at Rudra when he understood that he blasted off Mala ? Did dilsher expect Rudra to behave all calmly and behave like a good son to her ? why would he ? because its Dilsher himself who have poisoned Rudra's mind and now he expect Rudra to behave the way he want




I think Dilsher wants Mala in the haveli and shutting the son up is not because of goodness of heart, it could be because of guilt ( Rudra does not know that his mum tried to take him with her but his dad didn;t allow it), actually Mala only wanted to leave Dilsher not her son, it makes a lot of difference that Mala did not abandon her son but the father made it seem like that. Perhaps Dilsher is trying to show penance and perhaps also dreading his son's reaction when he realise his mum did not abandon him.



I think it still counts as abandonment...she wrote a letter and said she would take her son and then went to wake up her sleeping son..the father said no...so she went ahead and lef anyway!!!! That's not Very far from abandonment!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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one more thing, yes Mala's departure still counts as an abandoment, it doesn't wash away her sin even if Dilsher had a role.
Moreover its true that she has lead a luxurious life with tejawat and that makes her more shallow that she is regretting only after tejawat betrayed her.
paro is behind my thinking capacity now, her words of loving Rudra now comes off as very superficial and annoying because we don't see her actions supporting her words. Its aweful that she wanted to heal Mala and left Rudra alone, even he needed her, even he deserves the affection and feeling of being secured in his life. His worst fears of losing Paro is just being fueled by paro herself as she always chooses to support the other person in the game.
And no matter if Dilsher has requested her to bring Mala, could not she still ask Rudra once ?. Neglecting his position and feelings and still claiming to be on his side makes her look very shallow.
She is behaving selfish this time, she chose HER mother over her husband and she herself some how admitted that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank God! One sensible post finally! Thanks!
I truly liked today's episode and the speed with which the story is unfolding.
Slowly, we are getting the back-story bit by bit yet its a mystery. I feel everyone played a role in Mala's leaving except for Rudra.
I feel for Paro. She is caught in b/w Mala and Rudra like child b/w divorced parents. If she hadn't known Mala, she would have been by her man nd not taking care of Mala. Didn't she try to feed Rudra and took care of him before going to Mala?
She cannot leave Mala, as she said she has been a mother to her for 15 yrs. How can one not go and take care of her. She too is suffering because both are dear to her. If she abandons Mala now, what is the difference betwn her and Mala.
Paro ia a nurturer, thats her first nature.
As for Mala, can she be more selfish. She only left Tejawat, when she came to know the truth, where was her mamta bhari feelings before that. Why didn't she insisted Paro to go back and take care of Rudra instead of staying wth her for the night. How did she bring herself to come back into the haveli after Rudra asked her to go away and never come back. Cant she see his pain. A mother will move the earth to keep her child wth her, she just tried a couple of times to get Rudra, what after that.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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simply ..they are RUSHING 😡
i mean seriously yaar how on earth is it possible for a man like rudra to forgive his maasa that easily ??his MOTHER whom he thinks has just left him when he was a little boy craving for his mother's love NO ITS JUST NOT THAT EASY FOR HIM TO FORGET EVERYTHING 😡 what are they trying to show?👎🏼
BUT we cannot blame paro for that 😳
becoz she being herself is doing the thing which she thinks is right at the time😳 she just wants everything to be fine becoz that is what paro is ..a innocent and sensitive person who cannot hurt anyone😊
she loves her husband too much😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Completely agree... I just want to see Rudra standing by his opinion and not forgiving Mala to please Paro... Forgiving her and accepting her or not should be Rudra's own decision and not a forced or influenced one...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree,, it was so strange when Paro left Rudra alone and wanted to tend to Mala instead. I found that so selfish n insensitive,, her reasoning was that because Mala was like a mother figure to her so she cant disown her just like that,,, It feels so annoying when she says that she is on Rudra's side because clearly she is not,,
Rudra doesnt want Mala back in his life anyway,, he doesnt want to listen to her side of the story,, paro is just trying to shove down Mala down his throat,, for what,, for Mala's and for her sake,, Amidst all this, Rudra is all alone,,🤔
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