Wanted to share my thoughts on the hot topic of the Forum, the AB tie-up.
Let me begin by admitting that I am a good deal biased against Adbhoot and believe him to be the mastermind behind all the scams that have been affecting the Walia khandaan including the framing of Bani. But of course, that is only my personal prejudice and for all we know Adbhoot may be a good human being. Of course he may have committed a few indiscretions like:
- Brainwashing a woman into hating relatives who are innocent (to some extent at least).
- Kidnapping children.
- Burning the homes of poor slumdwellers
- Inciting people into burning a home where innocent kids are staying.
But I presume that these are minor follies and should not be held against him.
Why should Adbhoot marry again at all?
A suggestion has been made that Adbhoot shud marry Bani. Some others like Swati want him to "marry Pia as they are one of a kind". Others like Klue who have seen the adverse consequences of marrying Dixit girls want him to marry a non-Dixit. But the point is should a man (or a woman for that matter) marry just because he or she is single and his/her mother want him/her to get settled?
We believe that he was married and madly in luv with his first wife who died. So can't he remain loyal/faithful to her memory. Take for eg JW lets say Bani had died in that accident and also that she had left behind no kids. Would JW have married again? Very unlikely, I should say. And if he had decided to remain single in loyalty to her memory, would we have luved him more or less? Luved him more, I guess. So why not the same for Adbhoot. Why can't he remain faithful to her memory?
Why Bani of all people?
Now if Adbhoot does decide to marry again it wud not necessarily be wrong, after all 20 years of loyalty to her memory cannot be underestimated. But if he has to marry, why marry Bani of all people? Quite apart from the fact that some mischievous elements on the Forum who believe that she is a very unsuitable wife material, there r other reasons. Why marry a woman who was already married, has two kids, yearns for them. A woman who he has strong reason to believe is still very much in luv with her hubby. And who in his opinion (very correctly) wud rush to her hubby's arms if she knew the truth.
What purpose will be served by marrying such a person? Would Adbhoot and his well-wishers want him to marry a person who may never give him the kind of love, loyalty and trust that he once had from his first wife. Wud it fair to Adbhoot after what he has suffered for the last 20 years?
And finally what happens when Bani finds out the truth after she has destroyed JW and married Adbhoot. That JW and the rest of the WM gang even if not exactly doodh ke dhooley had been blackmailed and coerced into incarcerating her. And that for five years Adbhoot had known the truth and kept it from her for selfish reason and had instead fuelled her hatred and vengeance for selfish reasons. Wud she not hate him for keeping the truth from her?
Should Bani marry Adbhoot?
Now many of us believe that either JW is innocent or that his guilt is not something that deserves punishment by a lifelong separation. And that Bani still is in love with JW. But of course both are only assumptions on our part.
Maybe even after knowing the whole facts of the case, Bani may not pardon JW. She may feel that JW ought to have conveyed the truth to her thru some way and may also feel (like many of us) that JW did not do enuff to save her. And for all we know, maybe five years of living in hatred of JW has erased whatever luv she may have felt for JW at one point of time. And that at this point of time, she may feel Adbhoot to be the person who she wud like to be with. Of course, the converse may be the case too. Or of course she may want to be married to someone else (Pooch,Tarun, Nattu, some third person) or she may have decided that she has had enuff of men, matrimony and love and that she had better be alone.
Ultimately it has to be Bani's decision and we have to respect it. But it wud only be fair on Adbhoot' s part (assuming he wants to marry her either for his own sake or for his moti mom's) that he tell the unvarnished truth to her. Else that wud be a far worse betrayal of Bani than anything JW ever did to her. I am sure even Adbhoot's fans wud not want that.
Why I would still want J-B together?
Is it just because of the RK-PD chemistry. Nope, I should not think so after all just becuase two actors are comfy with each other is no reason why Bani shud stay with JW (I am just presuming them to be real people).
There are other factors too- Krishna and Atharva for one, they deserve to have both parents with them. But then again kids is not a reason to force two unwilling adults to live with each other. There is of course the genuine love that JW and Bani (with all their flaws) feel for each other and which can still be the basis for a happy relationship provided they learn to communicate and acquire some brains. Finally, the romantic notion that love not only ought to be lifelong but also true across saat janams.
But I guess, finally it has to be Bani's call and we have to go with her.
What AB marriage wud mean to me?
I wud be willing to live with it if they remain forever separate but wedded to none but each other ala Ram and Sita. But if either JW or Bani were to marry anyone but each other, that wud be the end of KS for me. But if AB marriage does happen, I hope the kreatives wud at least reward me for my loyalty to KS by keeping my Munna single and loyal to the one true luv of his life. I wud be happy to quit KS on the note that my Munna stayed loyal to the Jodi which had has us hooked to it, even though his partner chose another to be her mate.
Rgds,
Priyanka
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