Is Shivani is a Dejected person?

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Agnes

@agbabe

Explorer

Posted: 11 years ago

hi all, i thought i wanted to share this feelings about shi which always lured in my mind. but being a first timer do please excuse me if unintentionally i may hv hurt or offend any character. pls correct me if i am wrong too. love to have you sharing with me your thought too. i know we need to have at least 5 active topics so my small contribution.

i always felt that Shi is really a sad dejected person. loosing her parents at a tender age and growing without maternal parents love will be different even though daaju was there showing all his love. but in any human nature a child to grow or being brought up without parents will act differently (possible to be a little adamant or attention seekers) no doubt daaju was the substitute. but sadly that love too was ripped off when he died. - shi left alone.

Abi i guess was always an infatuation, puppy love kinda off thing and that's why she could get rid of him from her mind that soon without any major breakdown.

coming to jazz, m and aunt we know that was not genuine and it was all fake. but when jazz turned a new leaf shi was in her own circle of world that she built and that was with rag. - again never had a sibling bonding/love etc.

all her life the people she knew was her own family and her jaadugar. when all left her the only person was in her life was rag. the man who stood for her in good and bad times. opened her eyes to see good and evil and above all showing her meaning of true selfless love.

that's why shi being a loner took this caring of Rag as abiding love and blend it in her heart, mind and soul. her fear of letting is go is natural and sad cause all she want is someone to LOVE her and she found that true love only in him. it hurts down to my spine of the rejections she faces just to have that love; where else she is one girl who has so much of love in her heart so pure just like her smile. never once Shi thought of hurting anyone except rag maybe but that too out of frustration as she knows well enough that this person who thought her love, loves her more than anything else in this world.

having said this, i feel bad for her even now when her life is at stake (fingers crossed nothing happens) she cannot have that love in her life despite it being right in front of her eyes. poor shi

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@-Sheena-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Welcome to the forum dear..

You have made some valid points that Shivani's life has been full of tragedies that she has lost all those that were close to her... She lost her parents at an early age and her daaju became her lifeline till his untimely death..

Raghu has been her rock and during all the time when she misunderstood him, he never wavered his respect for her... She realised that Raghu really has a big heart and was able to forgive her or blame her for anything...

How ironic is it that Shivani who was born into luxuries is poorest when it comes to relationships as Raghu is her only family and Raghu who was born in poverty is actually the richest guy to have Shivani as a life partner who gives unconditional love to him..

With Raghu with her, Shivani has nothing to fear as he will make sure his babyji gets the best treatment and gets her wishes fulfilled...

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dhakarn

@dhakarn

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

welcome to the forum dear n good post

yes ...all she wants is love n she knows he loves her but 'can't' accept her due to society n prejudices ... indeed its heartbreaking for any girl to have ur love consider u above anything else in the world n still not ready to accept her as his wife or admit his love bec of his insecurities n strive for her better life

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Uma

@Uma-Arhaanfan

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

Wow agnes you made an entry in the forum with a wonderful post.
Agree wit you that shivani is one such gal who lost her parents at an early age.and even daaju pampered her that she dint get to see the real bad world.
She loves raghu and she is trying hard to reach him but i think her way of reaching to him is wrong.he feels that he is her naukar so first let him come out of that mode and see how shivani will spend her life so happily with raghu

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awida

@awida

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

Very beautiful post Agbabe.

I loved how you described Shivani's character with this understanding way. She is a loner. And this made her want to be friends with each one around her, bad or good. For this she found her self with someone like Abhi. Then she fell in trio evil trap .

Shivani is very unlucky girl. Coz the one she loves can't love her back, or atleast can't accept her as a life partner , coz he is tied to his promise to Daaju. Which made him feel like a naukar, and not worth to be his malkin's husband.

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

Beautiful post 👏👏

I agree , I do see Shivani as loner and last friday ka episode sort of confirmed it too when she herself tells those kids about how she never got her parent's love as they died in her childhood and only Daaju was there for her but he too is nomore and so now she has nonoe other than Raghu in her life 😭 .. so yes in a way she is longing for true love and genuine affection which she feels she will get from a selfless man like Raghu only who might not b carrying the luxuries but has a heart of a gold 😳