AS A MOTHER IS KAMLA RIGHT TO TAKE THE SINDOOR OF

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Posted: 11 years ago
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so here comes the question was she right to do what she did...putting the love story aside...well here is my view..i am a mother as well as a daughter obviously I would not have wanted my daughter to be in kalpi's position...but in this case it is different and I will tell u why...
what mother is unaware of the man her daughter is in love with.
what mother takes somebody else would as to who her daughter is dating
what mother forsakes a drowning child check back that episode vithal lied to kalpi
what mother claims to have two daughters and treat them equally because paki aint strong
what mother forces a child to stay in a loveless marriage hoping it would work out for the best
what mother did not slap the other daughter when she came home and said I am married.
what mother upon hearing the grief of the other so call child ran to her aid
what mother deprives her daughter of maternal love and falling in love
what mother sees her dreams and not her child's dreams
what mother abuses her daughter and then says it all about good upbringing
today kamla is at fault she is a BAD MOTHER she knew kalpi loved raghav and yet she encourage paki but u see the speech she give about the daughters being the pride of a home is a load of bull crap.she herself manipulated kalpi for her own beliefs...because she has to be true to herself raghav kept on saying he loved kalpi and will divorce paki cause he made a mistake but all kamla wanted was paki happiness not kalpi's..kamla never trusted kalpi in anything when kalpi was accuse of stealing she did nothing she never allowed kalpi to explain the exam fiasco and now she is doing the drama again..kamla is and will never be my inspiration as a mother in the 21st century...she is everything a mother should not be...she does not even believe in god so for me she can NERVER BE AND INSPIRATION IN HER STRUGGLES...I AM A WORKING MOTHER AND I STILL FIND TIME TO SPEAK TO MY 9YR OLD DAUGHTER...AND I WORK IN THE COPORATE WOLRD WERE TIME IS DEMANDING...there is no excuse for not spending time to speak to ur kids...so KAMLA U DONT HAVE THAT RIGHT TO REMOVE THAT SINDOOR...U ARE THE CAUSE OF HOW THAT WAS DONE...AND NO AGAIN U LIED WHEN U SAID U TREATED BOTH EQUALLY U NEVER FED KALPI...GO BACK TO THE EPISODES...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said! If Kamla was any other normal mother, then they would completely have the right to do so and pretty much it's the right thing to do, but I am pretty sure Hamla didn't do so thinking about Kalpi, but about Paakhi and her izzat
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent analysis of Dumbla 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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same to same...nothing want to say about kamla...whenever i take her name i felt irritate...she never care about kalpi...are yaar when kalpi was small only of few month & that baby kalpi whenever cried kamla was not there to console her yaar bcz that time she was with pakhi and still she saying that she love them equally..which mother do this???
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So true , i' m glad someone made a post about this. I have never hated a fictional character as much as Kamla . In fact she makes Cinderella 's step mom look good. She 's the most selfish manipulative and controlling mother i have ever seen . And eveytime she says Mein teri Aai hoon , i feel like slapping her and saying please don't call urself a mother coz its an insult to the other mothers in this world. And the best part is she is not a real mother to any of her children. She absolutely doesn't care about her son, till ate haven't seen her have a meaningful conversation with him. With kalpi she 's always been manipulative , giving attention for selfish reasons and then ignoring her when it suits her . But even witn paakhi , she 's been equally selfish. She has never let Paakhi develop a healthy relationship with her own mother but always encouraged her to give herself more importance. In fact hse's always prided over the fact that Paakhi gives her the most importance . But when the time of need came she actively encouraged Paakhi to continue in a loveless and revenge based relationship very well knowing that Raaghav only married her for revenge and loves Kalpi and almost married her . She cunningly is now manipulating Paakhi to maintain this relationship just so that raghav is kept away from Kalpi who will then have no choice but to focus on her career. She never wanted Kalpi to marry Raghav as if Kalpi did so she would never achieve Kamla's dream of making her daughter a badi memsaab. She would just be known as Raghav singhania's love and wife , NOT as the successful daughter who made it due to her mother's efforts and struggles. Even today during her ranting , it was more about the loss of her dreams and ambitions rather than Kalpi's life and dignity. And the best part is Kalpi is also slowly realizing her mother's true nature . All i can say is bhagwaan kissi ko Kamla jaisi Aai na de usse accha toh woh anath paida ho
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kamla Ma expects everyone to be goodie good and listen to her. But not me...it's clear how fair Kamla is. It's always about Paakhi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent, excellent post
I totally agree with what you said. What type of a mother does not see what is in her child's heart
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post... A mother who is still talking abt her own ambitions for her daughter, overlooking her happiness and where her heart lies... Yes raghav ditched kalpi at alter but he did it for mother's happiness, is still stuck in a loveless marriage, going thru such pain of living without the only person or blessing he ever wanted in life. I don't think if he is trying to balance out things now, uncomplicating things in his life, sorting out mess life has created for him, he is not at fault..!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Had she been sensible she wd have known a situation in which that two people staying together happily is much better than three people crying!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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WELL SAID, KAMLA IS NOT INSPIRATION FOR ANY WOMEN,NO MOTHER TREAT THEIR CHILDREN IN THIS WAY SHE NEVER CARES FOR KALPI ONLY PAKHI MATTERS TO HER PLEASE CVS SHOW US SOME GUD STUFF

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