DB is too smart for anandi

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Posted: 11 years ago
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DB is way too smart. and though good hearted, anandi is dumb.

Did anandi think that DB is amol who will listen to her bhashans without protest?

DB said that anandi is trying to insult her intelligence by trying to preach her. Which elderly person would like to be preached by a younger person so easily?
And anandi asked DB to ask a doctor as if DB is stupid and needs to go to a doctor for enlightenment.

anandi was successful in shutting up amol asking him to respect elders as he is too young and dependent on her.

Whenever anandi opens her mouth, I start wondering how dumb my good hearted anandi is.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is it a battle between goodhearted dumbness versus evilhearted smartness?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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anandi lacks tact and thats why she ends up looking crestfallen and disappointed.

CVs should write better tracks for her instead of making her look like clueless.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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daddu peacefully trying to feed apple to his ladli sister and then anandi came like that Delhi storm.

She just let out her speech as if she by hearted them and wanted to gurgle out.

She came, she saw, she tried to conquer.

It was such a cringeworthy scene.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think it is just good hearted dumbness and evil minded smartness
It is just that evil minds have a habit of thinking that they are smart and can get away with their nonsense.If they are able to get away with their nonsense they wouldn't be hated so much.

One question - What is Anandi going to achieve by being nasty to DB???

Did DB's taunts make any difference to Anandi's life other than having to cover her head with pallu and eating in pittal plates???

She just continues with her life except that she has to bear with ths nuisance

DB's opinions are not going to change Anandi's outlook towards life nor the way she lives her life.
Covering her head with pallu and pittal plates are small things for Anandi but they are big thing for DB.

DB can't make a difference to Anandi's life whether she is good or whether she is a pain in the @$$ it is just the same and she is teaching Amol also to look at her in the same way.

But Anandi can make a lot of difference to DB's life

The evilminded smart person doesn't realise how insignificant she is the largehearted dumb person but a big person is just being nice to her to make her feel important and make her feel that she matters

It is as simple as that

Big person being nice to someone out of kindness😛


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree She is not that smart its bitterness its pure jealous its her own negative nature.
If Anandi giving her back ...I am sure she will create more drama.
Its Dadi bua who need shelter family support not Anandi. Dadi bua realize this that's why all this anger towards her.
Anandi is secure in her own space. She has extremely good husband like Shiv who respect her & love her can not live without her. She had son to look for who love her. Family who is supporting her love her too.
Dadi bua has many things to loose not Anandi.
Anandi did not stop her work. She did not disconnect her equation with Singh family. Anandi did not allow her interference in her personal life. Whatever Dadi bua told is for every one in family.
So its Dadi bua is in isolation Anandi is happily living with her husband son and family. Its Dadi Bua call whether she wanted to join them or remains regressive forever
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Posted: 11 years ago
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DB is stupid. She is like Sanchi - being bad for no reason at all. She is not getting anything out of all the drama - others are being cordial towards her now, but slowly, they will stop caring for her. A smart person will look after his/her own interest.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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All said and done, the effectiveness of a message gets lost if it is delivered in haste.

Everything has a right time, right place and the right ambience.

DB has a belief and this belief is too strong.
Just like that so many of us believe in worship and prayer justifying them though rationalists point out the lack of scientific basis for such things. We get offended at rationalists.
Rituals are an offshoot of our respective religions.

anandi could have said you maybe right in your own way and I maybe right in my own way. Or daddu should have said this as whatever anandi says will be twisted.

Instead of apples daddu should have given her a plate of hot green chillies.😆

I expected CVs to show some change , some sharpness in anandi while retaining her goodness.
They are making her more obtuse.

A little diplomacy is not bad.

One should not take crap continuously.

amol is also watching his mother being abused . What effect it will have on his little mind?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

All said and done, the effectiveness of a message gets lost if it is delivered in haste.

Everything has a right time, right place and the right ambience.

DB has a belief and this belief is too strong.
Just like that so many of us believe in worship and prayer justifying them though rationalists point out the lack of scientific basis of such things. We get offended at rationalists.
Rituals are an offshoot of our respective religions.

anandi could have said you maybe right in your own way and I maybe right in my own way. Or daddu should have said this as whatever anandi says will be twisted.

Instead of apples daddu should have given her a plate of hot green chillies.😆

I expected CVs to show some change , some sharpness in anandi while retaining her goodness.
They are making her more obtuse.

A little diplomacy is not bad.

One should not take crap continuously.

amol is also watching his mother being abused . What effect it will have on his little mind?


@ bold - I think that's what Anandi is trying to say to her.She was just trying to say that she understands her beliefs and trying to explain to her the beliefs behind her actions.
Anandi is saying sorry not because she is wrong in her beliefs but saying sorry because she had unknowingly and unintentionally hurt her sentiments.
But the old lady is not going to change anytime.
Probably by showing Anandi crestfallen and disappointed they are trying to show the long road ahead of her.
Helping someone who needs help and know that they need help and are willing to accept your help is easy but helping someone who needs help but don't know that they are in need of help is not easy.

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I liked the way Daddu walked off after trying to convince her to eat.😆
There was a definite message there. They don't care whether she eats or not and what she thinks anymore
They will go ahead with their lives it is upto her whether she joins them or not.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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db is folowing ritual since 50 years but anandi think giving few line of speeches to db db will stop following rituals .

another thing anandi want to change db thinking but cannot firmly say to db i am not going to follow ur thinking but anandi obeying db words like when db say dont come inside it is puja ghar anandi did not come inside


anandi should decide which is more important changing ds thinking or obeying db words .

anandi is doing two things at same time like she want to change ds thinking but at that same time she is obeying ds orders .how both things at same time possible .if anandi want to obey db words then she should stop thinking about changing db mindset and if anandi really want to change db mindset then she should stop obeying db orders



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