Originally posted by: squivi
Let's play devil's advocate for a change: Thakurainsa was/is Paro's mother-figure. Let's remember, Paro is an orphan. Who raised her like a daughter? Thakurainsa. Not Mamisa. Thakurainsa. Paro loves her dearly, like a mother. Thakurainsa.
You get my repetition? Paro wasn't being insensitive. In the heat of the moment, she recalled all her memories with her 'mother'. The one show shaped her entire adult life. Now tell me, how can we judge Paro for getting carried away in remembering the wonderful Thakurainsa? I don't. SHE IS LIKE HER MOTHER. So, naturally Paro defended her without thinking. Also, how can anyone expect Paro to do a 180 and suddenly hate Thakurainsa? Is that the Paro we know and have seen thus far? NO. So, if anything, Paro is being extremely consistent in her good and trusting nature. Yes, Rudra is her husband whom she loves, but does that mean blindly hating someone, especially if that person is LIKE HER MOTHER?
We can all go blue in the face and say "oh Paro is wrong" or "Paro is insensitive and selfish", but I can't. Even if Thakurainsa isn't Paro's real mother, a mother's love is irreplaceable. I know if someone cursed my mom, no matter the circumstances, I'd defend her too. Who wouldn't defend their mom?
That's not to say Rudra was wrong in getting mad. He's totally and undeniably justified. However, this crucification of Paro in this forum is ridiculous.
That's your opinion and it's fine. Nobody is crucifying Paro because she defended Thakurainsaa, we are upset because it wasn't the right moment to become Mala's lawyer. Nobody expects Paro to do a 180 and suddenly hate Thakurain, but many expected her to show some shock, show some processing that omg the woman I see as a mother is the same woman responsible for Rudra's pain! And all we wanted was for Paro to just hug or support Rudra in that moment...explanations and excuses and defences can come later...Rudra opened up to Paro, laid his heart out, and all he wanted in return in that moment was her acceptance and understanding. It came, but a little late.
Surprising that Thakurainsaa holds such a huge place in Paro's heart but Paro is never shown to be thinking of her nor does she worry about her and her condition (since she is, after all, with Tejawat). I guess we can blame the CVs for this?
Why didn't Mamisa raise Paro? She did, Paro has said multiple times that it is her mamisa who took her in and raised her. Yes Paro loved and shared a motherly relationship with Thakurain sa but let's not completely disregard Paro's mamisa here now.
Again, it's not about defending your motherlike figure, it's about being there for your soul mate right in that moment...you can defend your motherlike figure all you want later...
My personal problem was not Paro's defence of her mother as much as it was her relieving her memories with her out loud. Ok for argument's sake yes Paro in the heat of the moment remembered the good times she shared with Mala...why did she go on describing the memories and her relationship with Mala to Rudra as if Rudra wanted to hear it all...as if he would smile and say "oh tell me more!"...She should have realized right away that oh crap...this woman that I'm thinking of...the one that I think so fondly of...this is the same woman Rudra is hating on. Wth?! What's going on?? How is this possible?? But nooo...instead she continued her trip down memory lane.
This is my opinion and I'm sure you will disagree with it. But you commented so I'm responding. Let's just agree to disagree from here on out though, because I don't have the energy to argue about this.
Edited by Zeeliciousxo - 11 years ago
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