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Posted: 11 years ago
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anandi faced many situations from her childhood and we know almost all of them.

But the way she handled them is somewhat unique.

She used iron fist against some offenders and soft gloves against some others. This dichotomy disturbs many. sometimes me too.
But the fact is there is no uniform medicine for cancer and for common cold.
You cannot give crocin to a cancer patient and you cannot give chemotherapy to a common cold patient.
anandi is using this discretion.

and religion and traditional rituals are interlinked. Sometimes you cannot separate them.

There are so many subtexts and one has to adjust, compromise to some extent and deal with them.

One cannot take a revolutionary flag and start attacking indiscriminately

If we isolate everyone due to their weaknesses, one day we will be isolated.

We have to live with some contradictions and find a solution by tact than open confrontation.

Though annoyed at anandi, I can understand anandi's dilemma and appreciate her efforts.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree though it look unreal but believe me it works. 😛


DB type person loves to create drama...what we call Tamasha...

Anandi keep saying sorry makes us all 😡 agree...but that does not mean she is weak.

Like Shiv said when two person arguing one has step back then then solution comes.

Arguing with DB or giving her time to time is not solution. KB gang is not going to throw her out...so each day if u arguing with her...she doing tamasha is waste of time.

Anandi slowly taking step...I am sure slowly she will show DB that all progressive thoughts are not bad... how old tradition customs are irrelevant these days its impractical too.


Like what if Ira Meenu Anandi all had their cycle around same time...DB has to do all cooking😆
So sometimes one has to think practically...I hope A will said something similar
Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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it is anandi only who always n try to find solution remain cool and calm whoever insult her .but what she get in result more and more insult from her enemies .if anandi cant disrespect db then she should stop giving uncessary respect to db .being daughter in law of house that does not anandi has to tolerate every wrong thing in sasural

but lets c as anandi asking sorry from db again and again whether db heart melt for anandi or not
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

it is anandi only who always n try to find solution remain cool and calm whoever insult her .but what she get in result more and more insult from her enemies .if anandi cant disrespect db then she should stop giving uncessary respect to db .being daughter in law of house that does not anandi has to tolerate every wrong thing in sasural

but lets c as anandi asking sorry from db again and again whether db heart melt for anandi or not


ab kya kare A is lead 😆

only lead suffer most ended up being Mahaan 😎
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: blushing


ab kya kare A is lead 😆

only lead suffer most ended up being Mahaan 😎


and also quite practical
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Posted: 11 years ago
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lets see how A try put her point regarding entire issue...like spoilers wrote DB reprimands A ...

I think even if A obey DB this order its good for A...she need break too from cooking for all these people..😃

A can have chill pill with Amol and with Shiv too 😉 then She can spend more time to Bhaili...last she can rest in her room...😎

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: blushing

lets see how A try put her point regarding entire issue...like spoilers wrote DB reprimands A ...

I think even A obey DB this order its good for A...she need break too form cooking for all these people..

A can have chill pill with Amol and with Shiv too 😉 then She can spend more time to Bhaili...last she can rest in her room...😎



These are some obvious benefits.

She can listen to some music. Watch TV. Read some book.
Have long conversations over phone. Sleep.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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is it really necessary to ask for forgiveness again & again when anandi is not at fault?...i appreciate that anandi is trying to change DB's mindset...she has done it before too with others...but i really can't accept it anymore!...

one more thing...when DB was accusing anandi she replyed that in this house no one follow this ritual, so she didn't follow & she cooked...does that mean if she would have got one sasra where everyone is following it then she wouldn't enter the kitchen during her periods & she would allow herself to be insulted by such ridiculous rituals!? 😲...if so then i am very much fine that DB insulted her like this...she actually deserves it!!...😡 she deserves to be the victim of the discrimination in our society towards women...what elese i can say!...God knows when she will learn to say that it is SHE & only SHE who find such rituals meaningless...so she cooked!...when anandi was young she used to did what everyone is asking her to do...she used to follow others...but now she is a grown up woman...why can't she take her own decision? why she does not have a voice for herself?...i am disapointed with anandi & her way to resolve things!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well just like DB A also can't change over night 😆 slowly she will learn ...😛

well in real life too...many does not believe in such tradition sometime we do obey our mom or mom in law for name of respect.

Like in my home no restrict I can cook roam around...but Mom does not allow me touch in pooja ghar...I respect that or with her I did not go to temple.


if KB ladies ask stay away form kitchen...A agree...its not unrealistic. Many women does in real life too.

sometime these religious are sensitive one can't go against of it just like that.
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ya mona tired of anandi too much greatness toward her enemies .duniya mein agar 1000 anandi ki dushman honge to anandi sabse sorry bolti rahegi aur subko khush karne ki sochti rahegi bus .yahi anandi ki life hai ki apne dushmano se sorry bolte raho aur unhe khush karte raho ?.instead of wasting time in pleasing her enemy anandi should concentrate more on her bhaile organisation
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