Sushpective: Rudy the Rudder?

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi there, I have been thinking...what are the qualities I like to see in a man...a romantic lead on a show...

Do I want them to be screaming?

Do I want the anger?

Do I like abusive behavior and some how find it sexy?

Do I need to answer that? Really?

So, what is it that I don't like to see? Or...what is it that I want to see...that when it goes missing...I start losing it...

I want the man to be firm

I want the man to not be manipulated and be kicked around using emotions as a stick...

I want the man to have the capability to listen...but not lose faith in his own judgement...

I want the man to not completely change behavior because somehow that is what it means to be in love...

And in case you are wondering ...the list is very much the same for a woman ...as well...just replace the word emotion in the second point by anger or domination or what have you...

Now...do I expect a fictional character to have all the characteristics of a real life one...Of course not...Real people dont make good drama...no nautanki ...but somethings are fundamental and the list above is that...

There are character flaws ...that one can not change...but may be can learn to manage a bit better...anger is one of them...(and trust me that has nothing to do with falling in love) screaming goes with that...there is more chance to control that...but there are many people who are angry in very passive way...no screaming involved...the anger is no less damaging...and the abusive behavior? If any one even suggests that I condone that...it makes me feel like I have wasted my time writing on this forum...

So now that we have established that...

There were glimpses of things that I have liked about Rudy's character that made their way back to the episode today...

Like when he was firm in telling Laila off...without confusion...when he asked Paro to come inside to the room...

When he put a stop (and I really hope the CVs don't disappoint tomorrow) to be pushed around by Paros emotional stick to keep Laila in the house...

When he trusted his own judgement about Laila and her intentions and was firm in it...

When he told Paro that if Paro decides to not talk...it's her prerogative but he needs to do what he needs to do...

This beautiful collage by UltimateRudra!

On top of that...I liked that he put the story straight ...which was going in the wrong direction...as I had pointed out in my post yesterday...about the prince getting the heart back from the fairy...

The heart was NEVER given in the first place...Thats his story...and I am glad he stuck to it...!!

I also liked he used his keen observation and his ability to see through people who are cunning to get the truth out from the kathputli man...

So...Kudos to Rudy to bring the ship back to where it should be heading...Rudy The Rudder of this ship! 👍🏼

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

A post about Paro...

Today Paro didn't have many dialogues...and her confused state of mind, and her emotions came across better...at least for me...

The scene I loved ...this is again going to be controversial is when she takes a walk out with Laila ...and Laila starts to tell her about her childhood...the loss of her mom...how she slept in the courtyard with mom...and how she likes imli...with namak...

And Paro...connected with her story with an open heart...! At that moment Laila was not a Sautan...a manipulator or a person who once wanted to harm her...at that moment she was just a woman just like Paro...Thats how Paro sees her...and I can totally understand Paros ability to see things with compassion like no one else can...Thats what makes her special...

That scene totally connected with me...👍🏼

I also liked how she wanted to just coil back and go to the Major after Laila finished her manipulation attempt by telling that story...The transition from a sympethetic humane Paro to the one who is apprehensive and suspicious was GREAT!

UltimateRudra has once again captured the emotions in this collage better that my words! GREAT JOB Girl!

Where I see signs of MU is...when Rudy said ...whatever is or isn't between Laila and I is of no consequence...well that leaves room for imagination and doubt...Not that when he categorically denied it ...there was no doubt...in Paros mind...but somehow I think this works better...for the story...and for explaining Paros reaction...

Overall...sometimes emotions without dialogues can talk and convey more than the ones with dialogues...

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

And Laila...

I am going to make an exception and update the post on Laila first...perhaps because I have to say something that is contrary to the popular opinion...

I know many have said...that Ankita Sharma... Is not acting well...does not know how to act etc...Now you have to trust me when I say this...The entire cast of Rangrasia is new to me...except Sanaya Irani whose only show I had seen before was IPK...But it is my opinion that Ankita is doing a great job as Laila!

It is very understandable to hate Laila's character...I truly get that.....but lets separate out the character from the actor ...I think she is believable as Laila...makes you see exactly what Laila is feeling at any moment, is able to do cunning, scheming, assertive, and hurt ...has the nakharas and mannerism of a dancer woman...and is actually quite interesting ..with Sumer...😉 And with Mohini too...😆

I know this post will probably get less than 10 likes...but that is my honest opinion...

Shweta urf UltimateRudra YOU ROCK! Beautiful collage Girlie! Makes the point I was trying to make with words!

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Tennessean

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Sush- It is a thoughtful post.

Hi Shweta- beautiful collage.

These are some of my thoughts about today's episode.

1) Major started off by saying that the story might be wrong and Rani may have misunderstood. Then he also said that there are two ways of looking at things sharing Paro Bai sa 's view. The Queen should also understand that the king has told her everything and there is nothing to be afraid of. Also, he doesn't have a dil to begin with? However, the line which impressed me the most was "If the Queen can trust him to guard her life why can't she trust him with words?" Don't worry, Major she will, she just needs time.😛

2) Can I say how much I appreciated him drinking the whole katori of Daal. Seeti moment.🥳

3) Can I say how much I am thankful to him for telling Paro Bai Sa to bring tea to the room?👏 Only that KCM has good ears.😕

4) Can I give him a big Taali for saying that Laila has to get out of the house.👏

5) Can I also say "Dhanyavaad" for telling Bai Sa that I am not doing this because I will fall for Laila, but she can harm you, us and our relationship.⭐️

6) Can I say Gracias to Major for finding out who twisted the story in the puppet dance.😊

But but Major- You have to be more careful in what you say to Paro Bai Sa. "Hamare Bich kuch ho na ho, or even if you don't talk to me in a lifetime, she has to leave." She is vulnerable and insecure so puhleaze be careful in how you deliver your statements to her. Loved how you touched her lips.😉

Paro Bai Sa- I loved how you shred the Roti in pieces and made it convenient for him to eat it.😛 That look from the kitchen was a special moment. We can understand what and why you are feeling like this but I want the woman to come out in you. Please don't let Laila or KCM play mind games with you.

I just want to remind you who you are.

1) You are the same person who single-handedly knocked the goons out and saved Maithili.👏

2) You are the same person who put Mirchi powder in Thakur's eyes and beat him black and blue.👏

3) You are the same girl who knocked out Major when you thought he was in the wrong.

4) You are the same person who proposed to Major in front of hundreds of people.😛

Paro Bai Sa- Please show us that same spirit and put everybody in their places.😛

Laila - Stop playing Best Friends Forever with Bai Sa and Major can see through that actually.😛

Maithili- Thanks for stopping Aman Sa for dinner and for applying ghee on the roti and sending Paro to deliver the daal since she cooked it. Way to go Maithili.⭐️

Aman and Sunehri- Either Aman is going to put on weight because Sunehri is stuffing him or she will lose weight because of jump roping.😆

Dilsher- Thanks for smiling at the right time. 👏 That one smile was enough today.

I didn't know what to choose for today's acrostic, so I just chose "Fear".

F- Far-Reaching (Major said that he didn't have a Dil to begin with)
E- Effective (he drank the whole katori of dal to remove any doubts in Bai Sa's mind)
A- Asking (Why is the Queen giving the heart to the Pari?)
R- Realization (He is ready to kick Laila out of the house realizing how much she has damaged Parud relationship )👏

Hoping for the situation to improve and also hoping to see some Parud moments before Friday.😊

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Hope

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sush, Wonderfully said. Happy that you decided to make a post. 😃

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Very nicely said Sush. You shortlisted the traits very nicely. Who wouldn't want such a guy.😳

Today was Rudra's day to shine and he did shine very brightly.😛

I Loved the continuation of yesterday's conversation. "Mai aisa kuch nahi chahatha.", ☺️ was his genuine answer to Paro's, "shayad Raja chahate ki Rani unse door chali jai." Which clearly states Rudra wants Paro in his life 😉. The way Rudra explained about not having a heart, about Paro doing exactly what Laila wants, that Paro was letting her come between them was just awesome. Rudra dialogues were perfect. 👏👏 to the dialogue writers.

Then comes the Dal scene. Rudra's drinking the whole dal with out uttering a single word was funny and at the same time bang on response to the evil witches . Laila said he will leave the dal, Mohini seconded her taunting Paro in the process but now that he drank the whole dal... there is nothing else for them to say but shut up.

And finally the last scene. The way he asks Paro to get him Chai and also orders her to get in was fabulous. And to my surprise he informs Paro about his decision before he actually does it... Now that was a great improvement from our Bana Sa's side. "Main Pooch nahi raha hu, Bata raha hu." 👏. Loved how he stops her from saying anything and completes what he wanted to say without being interrupted. Now that is Rudy Boy we like 😃.

Rudra was trying his best to guard Paro today. Which was a treat to watch. I enjoyed this protective and in control Rudra .

Today, we got to see an impulsive Paro and a sensible Rudra. Role reversal 😆

I am sure Laila is up to something but I know Rudra can handle her 👍🏼. No tension there. All I want is for Paro to support Rudra or at least stay quiet and let Rudra handle the fevicol lady😳.

Need to say this, I loved, loved and loved Maithili today 🤗. She was the only one who saw through Laila's act. Even before knowing about Laila and Rudra. Today the dal scene was beautiful. Her love and concern for her sister and devarjisa is truly beautiful❤️. If only Paro could see what Rudra and Maithili see in the fevicol lady. Then the track will be over I know. But a girl can dream... can't she?

I am sick of Laila in haveli, in PaRud bed room, in their lives, in their dreams, in their nightmares, in every scene, in precaps... you get my point. She is god damn every where. Why? I don't understand. There are other cast CV's. Please use them. I am sick of her. I really wish CV's do something about that lady soon. I can't take another overdose of Laila after today. 🤢

Rudra please, please kick her out tomorrow... come what may, don't change your decision. You will be doing all RRians a huge favor👍🏼.

Sorry, excuse any typos. Typed in a rush...😳 I will be free soon. Will catch you all then.

Updated Again :- Sush, just saw your post on Paro. You explained her very nicely. I am happy you connected with her today 😛. Ya, The transition of Paro from sympathetic one to apprehensive one was done very well. She just rushes to Rudra when she sees him. He is indeed her safe haven. Just expressions said a lot about Paro's state of mind. I am happy CV's showed her calmness today. That brought out her confused state well.

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SingaporeFan

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yes! Totally agree...that scene was the only redeeming one In a rather lackluster episode...hope he stays firm and does not give in to Paro's emotional blackmail again...Really want the strong hard hitting Rudy boy back...enough of his soft side...does not seem to be working on Paro too...Please shake some sense into your wife...

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Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

Great post Sush! I agree with your list...that's how I would want my own man to be as well.

About Laila...Rudra wants to kick her out...but Laila is confident that Paro will somehow get her to stay...and I heard there is a new promo out for the 26th of May (God that's on Monday...so Laila is here all of next week too??)...in which Paro-Rudra scenes are shown and then Laila is shown...thinking/plotting something again...probably another way to stay in the haveli...another way to scare Paro away...another way to get Rudra back...so I don't know if Laila is going to be leaving any time soon...and frankly I'm fed up of seeing her everywhere, I can no longer tolerate Laila overdoses. I would definitely take a break from the show but I like partaking in great discussions on threads like yours so I may watch if anything watchable happens.

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo
Great post Sush! I agree with your list...that's how I would want my own man to be as well.
About Laila...Rudra wants to kick her out...but Laila is confident that Paro will somehow get her to stay...and I heard there is a new promo out for the 26th of May (God that's on Monday...so Laila is here all of next week too??)...in which Paro-Rudra scenes are shown and then Laila is shown...thinking/plotting something again...probably another way to stay in the haveli...another way to scare Paro away...another way to get Rudra back...so I don't know if Laila is going to be leaving any time soon...and frankly I'm fed up of seeing her everywhere, I can no longer tolerate Laila overdoses. I would definitely take a break from the show but I like partaking in great discussions on threads like yours so I may watch if anything watchable happens.

Really? He is not able to throw her out?

Perhaps I should have waited till tomorrow before making this post...??

The precap suggests that Rudy will definitely break her bubble...The whole reason for the precap seems to lower expectations ...lets see!

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Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sush-

Really? He is not able to throw her out?

Perhaps I should have waited till tomorrow before making this post...

I don't know what will happen but going by the promo it looks like Laila is here to stay 😔 And in today's episode she was confident that Paro will ultimately let her stay...so I don't know what will happen...if Paro gets into an argument with Rudra for Laila...I am sooo done.

Either Rudra won't be able to kick Laila out for some reason (more emotional blackmail by Paro?) or he will kick her out but she will find another way to get in again. In any case, going by the promo it looks Laila is not going anywhere. And it's not surprising...the CVs managed to get Ankita Sharma back on the show so I doubt they'll let her go so quickly...this Laila track is going to drag.

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-Shwets-

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Sush-

Really? He is not able to throw her out?

Perhaps I should have waited till tomorrow before making this post...??.

Laila will be using Sumer to stay back ...She will convince Sumer to support her to get entry back at the Haveli ...Sumer is smitten by her will follow her as a puppy . Laila / Sumer marriage pretense probably

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