Please spare us Nazia's moralizing

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nazia was really annoying yesterday with her moralizing and lecturing to Shazia. And that too she is doing it in the most annoying way possible. Shazia's wrong actions and the consequence on Nazia should've made me more sympathetic to Nazia, but it didn't. I didn't really care.

Who is Nazia to go on about ghalat and all to Shazia? Does Aahil come home every night? Does she give moralizing lectures to Aahil? Why only to Shazia? Granted, I do agree on one thing. Aahil is the breadwinner (though...if Shazia is also the Nawab's daughter, that means she should be entitled to some of the initial inheritance as well). And being that provides for them, Shazia should be accountable on informing the family if she's not going to be home at night. That part I do agree.

However, that really not how yesterday's episode came off. It came off as a blatant double standard, and one which Nazia the good-two-shoes sister has no problem in perpetuating, by lecturing, moralizing and then threatening to snitch. But okay, even that is fine. What bothers me even more is that along with Nazia's words and actions, the way the story goes it seems as though the narrative is also upholding Nazia's viewpoint--making Shazia the irresponsible, selfish sister and Nazia the victim. Yes, Shazia's actions with the pills were wrong, even if accidental, she's still the one at fault and she was wrong in trying to even put an extra pill in the water. But by making her the wrong character, it upholds the stereotype and double standards.

Do not validate the double standards and stereotypes through the narrative, please. Next thing will be that something bad will happen at the party, and so once again the goody-two-shoes, mousey Nazia was right, and so was Aahil's double standards; and Shazia the one who once called out the double standards is wrong.

Till yesterday, I was impressed at the lack of such annoying moralizing on the show. Sanam as a character does and did have issues with Aahil. She has talked about it and has had dialogues. But it never came off in such an unsettling way. Whereas yesterday, I really felt like the narrative itself was on its way to start moralizing as well having double standards.
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-RohitMaxwell- thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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something is fishy about Nazia... she isnt like what she is! May be she is trying to get sympathy from Ahil
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have this strange feeling that it is in fact Nazia who is the negative one.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have the same feeling about Nazia. I wondered two weeks ago if Nazia is the mole, and after today I had this feeling that she's the one talking to Billi in the precap.
Also I wrote this post before today's episode. In a way I wanted to get it out of the way before today could shed new light or what not.

Shazia though she is trying to sabotage Sanam, does come off as somewhat more real and understandable.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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^ Shazia is straightforward! what she told Ahil about the tops was spot on! Ahil cant see her sister wearing tops while he likes girls wearing tops n calls them hot n sexy.. i think she isnt negative but she cant bear anyone who comes in her modern lifestyles way..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ialso feel Nazia is faking😉
its not her real face😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I doubt that she even is asthmatic. She is just playing the part of Tanveer. Shazia is out and crystal clear. She says whatever she feels like and doesn't fear anyone not even his bro-jaan. Yesterday only she had this nervousness or you can say guilt because she never wanted to hurt Nazia. And she accepted it also w/o coming up with any other excuse. She is just a spoilt kid who isn't getting any parents love and care and is freaked out about this fact. On the other hand, Nazia is too naive to be true. So there are high chances of her to be billi's puppet. Let's see how wrong I am.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nazia is too weak 😆. She always seems so sick! Thin, skinny and the typical behenji. Period.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you, I also felt a little annoyed with her moralizing. Nazia a very unflattering combination of needy, dependence and moralizing preachy-ness. Shazia has some understandable parental angst- though not abuse as Aahil has, but of abandonement by Tanveer. Do they not know she is in Jail??
ANd how is it that everyone thinks that bumbling fool Azhar is actually a doctor?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well noted. Again the writers have done a poor job in developing the characters of the sisters as they did with other female siblings...I wish they would develop these characters as well.

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