Originally posted by: Katy_AZ
Really u feel so?
Cmmon.. zain asked hr so mny times abt her bf...n she admitted she had one...
Jb koi apne aap room de to usme dusra kya kre...
He hs always admitted the mistakes he made..
Usme uski kya glti
N abt walima thot...He WAS DRUNK N PISSED OFF
Cz she promised she will mk things same again..
Fr her zain was d last option on her fone..she dint trusted him...he dint trusted her..
U missed the kapda jalaao part...
Bt evn thn he neva played with her..
Us din on date he was much more caring thn rude
The thot was ki wo use koi jhuti tassali nahi dena chahtatha...wo ni chahta tha ki wo usse ummeed rkkhe on a long term..kyunki shayad baad me bohot dard hota..
He ws frced to do tht..so he admitted i dnt mean
there r ppl who dnt even hv courage to do this..trust me...rsn i love him was his truth..he wasnt sure abt his flngs...
Mujhe aise log dil se psnd hain...
Lekin he neva misjudged her..
Wo usse nahee janta tha..
Pr aayat ke case tk aliya ko pata tha...he tld her he savedd grl..n d whole case..he just neva named d grl..
He hs neva hurted her..cz usne apni trf se koi xpectations paida nahee ki...
U cn only blame d prsn when he establishes d xpectations..jo abki baar usne kiya tha...
He neva cm bck n mocked aliya abt saying her those wrds which she dnt even mean...evn if it hs hurted him to d core..even wrds which r said at life stake moments mean so much to u...much mre than artificialy made moments lyk date..
He neva played with her..inspite of bng a jerk...
Wo to kitna samjhdaar bnti firti h...he neva shows it..
U r wrong..he neva shws wat hurts him...she does...
She cries n melts him..he dsnt
I strtd loving him mre..
main aise logon ko dil se izzat aur pyaar krti hun jo jhuthi ummedein nahee dete..galti aliya ki ni uske potrait ki hai..she hs been potrayed so perfect all the tym...mujhe ghutan hoti hai...aur fir nasamjhi wali batein krti h kabhi kabhi to gussa b ata h..i m not biased..hd i been..i hv nt made this post
Abt the bf thing, whether aaliya had ever said that she had a bf or not, Zain wud have still blamed her for stealing the jwellery, the bf thing was just another thing that zain used to yell at aaliya.
N the walima, zain was aware of the things he said n the proof for that is, the next day, when he got up from bad n saw Aaliya there, he asked her something like not caring abt the insult he'd given her the day b4.
Abt the kapda jalao part, I think u know, I only started watching the show recently n I don't think I've watched the scene ur talking abt so I can't really say anything abt it.
..she dint trusted him...he dint trusted her..
Exactly. How cud she have trusted that Zain hadn't purposefully ripped her blouse when she didn't trust him? Just the way that he didn't trust her that she actually hadn't stolen the jwellery, she didn't trust him that he hadn't ripped her blouse. As simple as that. N neither apologized to each other for hurting n blaming each other so I think its quite equal there. Like I said earlier, both aaliya n zain have had mistakes n I'm not trying to prove that aaliya is better, I already said I can't really choose a fav btwn the 2, the only thing I'm trying to say is, both zain n aaliya have made mistakes of the same scale, it wasn't just aaliya.
Zain has hurt Aaliya n I don't think that having expectations plays a big part here. For eg. u walk out of a shop n the security beep machine goes off indicating u mi8 have stolen something from the shop even though u havent, but still the shop staff believe that u have n yell at u or something of the sort, won't u feel hurt n angry? But at the same time, u wudnt have set any expectations on the security guards, wud u?
Now coming to zain not bringing up past incidents even if it has hurt him, zain is a grown man with ego. As far as I know, a man woth ego wud never display his feelings, especially in front of a woman, that wud be making himself look weak n vulnerable. Whereas women r more open abt their feelings, I'm not saying that they don't have ego, in fact they mi8 have quite a lot of ot but still women r like that, they're much mlre expressive when it comes to emotions. So there again both Zain n Aaliya r ri8 in their own ways.
N coming to me being wrong abt what I said, whatever I said was just my own opinion, I don't think there cud be a ri8 or wrong in opinions. I only said that I disagree with u, I didn't say that u were wrong. I dunno if I'm making any sense but yeah.
Now coming to aaliya being perfect all the time, what can we do abt that? That's the way the makers have decided to mould Aaliya's character n there's pretty much no ise in discussing that. N if aaliya was so perfect, she wud have never been wrong at any part of the show, but she too does mistakes, its just that her other gud qualities compress the bad things she does.
N I'm not saying ur biased, sometimes ppl just stand up for characters they like more. I know we're not supposed to talk abt other shows on this forum but I'm just using for a lil example. I've seen u talking abt QH on his forum so i'm assuming u watch/used to watch the show. Do u mist know that they showed the male lead to be very arrogant n the female lead to be much more lovable n practical. N as a matter of fact, I luvd Zoya much mlre than the other lead n whenever there were debate kinda posts in the qh forum, I wud stick up for Zoya ven if I know she's wrong, it doesn't mean I'm biased, its just that I love the character more. U know what I mean?
Anyways, I think u mi8 have tho8 that I was getting into an argument, that was totally not my intention dude, I was just trying to say that both ZaYa have done mistakes, nothing else. So peace! :)