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PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE ,
AT THE TIME OF CRISIS , WE FIRST NEED TO GATHER OURSELVES FROM CONFUSION , FEAR ,ANGER ,AND NEGATIVITY THAT ARISES WITH IT , AS THESE ARE THE ONES THAT ARE MORE DANGEROUS THAN ANY OUTER ENEMY WE HAVE , AS THIS IS THE TIME WE BECOME IMPATIENT ,CARELESS AND TAKE RASH DECISIONS , AND DEFEAT OUR OWNSELVES , AND FAIL IN OUR MISSION , THUS GIVING THE ENEMY THE BENIFIT ALL BY OUR SELVES, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, SO FIRST WE NEED TO BECOME CALM , THINK THE SITUATION RATIONALLY,, WEIGH THE PRO AND CONS , AND THAN TAKE A DECISION ACCORDINGLY , AND FOLLOW IT TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM AND COME OUT OF IT POSITIVELY AS MUCH AS WE CAN ,, WITHOUT GIVING IN TO THE PROBLEM OR BENEFIT TO THE ENEMIES .
Yesterday astha after knowing the truth about jyoti and her situation and her parents involvement in it got very angry at her parents for telling lies to her and for not trusting her and hiding the truth from her ,(just as she did all the time giving them heart attacks by not trusting them , and telling lies for a good purpose according to her, and hiding so many truths from them , and getting involved in matters that she had no understanding about , and getting into trouble and creating problems for others too as her mother kalindi also said to her when questioned,astha being the pampered one of the family, who was always forgiven, even though she made many mistakes and problems for others) and also got angry on jyoti for not trusting her , as before astha had helped her, without caring for anybody,(and unknowingly created more problems for jyoti and anjali, but giving hope to jyoti that atleast someone was there for her in crisis ,,,,,, and in the process made her take the brave step of getting away from abhay to save her child)and scolding her that everybody was worried for her and anjali was being blamed all around for her disappearance,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Astha was now in the same boat as shlok was ,that now she could understand his anger and his angst against his mother and why shlok and jyoti was not trusting anybody especially their parents who always kept rules and customs above them , and why shlok became a hard and detached person even though he was caring inside,,,as adtha herself got angry with her parents and jyoti for sometime atleast as she was kept in the dark about the situation and was not trusted with it even by her own parents ,,, and it must have hurt astha that her parents gave importance to saving jyoti, ,,,,not for jyoti,,,, but for not telling her the truth and not trusting her ,,,,,,,,,, which was what shlok also was going through but from childhood that his mother was not giving importance to her children above all else and was not helping them in need and so felt like orphans ,as he didn't know the truth about his parents so the effect was strong and lasting,, but which astha couldn't understand ,,,,,,,,,,, and now again the situation of astha and jyoti might make him feel the same as does with anjali as shlok is already feeling insecure with astha for her inattention and now the situation of her not revealing jyoti's, may be like ghee on fire ,not about jyoti, but about astha not taking him into confidence, and so lets see how shlok will react on this matter , as he himself was telling varad that there must have been something missing from their love and care that jyoti didn't trust them in this crisis and in the process may also understand why astha took this step as he himself knows that adtha lies only when she has to save others,,,,,,,,,,,,,,or again may think astha didn't trust him enough to tell the truth,,,,,,
Now astha after knowing the truth of jyoti and abhay , instead of dealing it with patiently , calmly and cleverly and going about it properly with a plan and trying to find clues and exposing abhay first , (as she now knew the situation in the house and the trouble anjali will face , that abhay was being given more importance than jyoti,),,,,,, went directly for abhays and sulabha's throat by questioning them rashly,, that now they became suspicious of her as even before it was astha who exposed them and now will become alert and may find that jyoti is hiding in her house and use that information against astha , even though the brothers might support jyoti but what NA will do remains to be seen,,,,,,,,, as well as shlok's reaction in all this and the effect it will have on ASHLOK...Astha , by her own rashness and impulsiveness (as kalindi fears )might give the game away again to the rats , and even sojal , her enemies, that again she might get stuck in problems, ,,,, but hope she won't pull jyoti into it and give away the secret before hand ,,,,, as her mother herself said to adtha, ,BUT ASTHA TOOK THE CORRECT DECISION TO MAKE JYOTI CALL HER PARENTS AS NOW THEY WON'T BE SO WORRIED IF THEY KNOW THAT SHE IS SAFE SOMEWHERE ,even though it would have been more better if jyoti talked to shlok and varad ,,,,,, because atleast now they will give their full support to her as is evident by their words and actions. ,but astha now needs to take more care and be cautious than before if she wants her plan to work,,,,,,,,,,,,
A REQUEST TO MY DEAR EPBIANS AND FORUM FRIENDS WHO HAVE BECOME VERY DEAR TO ME AS WE ALL ARE IN THE SAME BOAT WITH ASHLOK AND EK BAAR PHIR , AS WE ALL LOVE ASHLOK AND EBP TO ETERNITY AND ARE WORRIED ABOUT THE PRESENT TRACK , TO PLEASE BE CALM NOW IN THIS CRISIS AS I AM ALSO IN THE SAME BOAT WITH YOU ALL , BUT NOW WE NEED TO WAIT AND WATCH , TO SEE HOW IT WILL TURN OUT TO BE IN FUTURE TRACK , AND THEN TAKE A DECISION INDIVIDUALLY AS PER YOUR LIKES,,,,,,,,,,,,
BUT OF NOW IT IS OUR OWN NEGATIVITY THAT COULD AFFECT THE STANDING OF THE SERIAL AND THE WHOLE CAST AND CREW , THAT IS WORKING HARD AGAINST ALL ODDS AND BASHING FROM OUTSIDE , TO ENTERTAIN US , MORE THAN ANY ENEMIES FROM OUTSIDE IF ANY, AND SO PLEASE MAKE MORE POSITIVE POSTS , STATING WHAT YOU LIKE BEST , WHAT YOU WANT SO THAT THE CVS AND CHANNEL IS HAPPY WITH THE RESPONSE AND WILL GIVE OUR SERIAL ITS DUE ...AND MAYBE YOUR WISH TOO ,,,,,,,,,,AND MINE TOO...A CHANCE.AS IT IS ONE AND THE SAME ,,,,,,,
BUT FOR THE STORY TO GO FORWARD MAYBE NOW THIS TRACK IS IMPORTANT , AND EBP AS ALWAYS GIVEN SURPRISES TO US WHEN LEAST EXPECTED , SO MAYBE NOW TOO IT WILL , HATKELY , WITH MORE ASHLOK . SO LETS BE PATIENT AS OF NOW .
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH. ITS OUR LOVE OF, EBP AND ASHLOK , THAT'S BINDING US TOGETHER AND I HOPE IT WILL BE FOR A LONGER TIME .
Thanks to AVINASH , SHRENU,, MANISH, GEETANJALI, WASEEM SIR , AND THE WHOLE CAST AND CREW FOR YOUR SUPERB PERFORMANCES AND HARD WORK,,,, LOVING YOU ALL
Arjun
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