Mamta has no ’mamta’..............

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Friends,

This show is named 'mamta'......................and the protagonist Mamta is supposed to be a woman full of 'mamta'

We been watching this show for more than a year now..........

So what is 'mamta'?......sacrificing everything for the happiness of ur child............understanding what is best for ur child..............try to give ur child every good thing he/she deserves................give ur child protection...........try not to make him/her suffer.............

Our protagonist Mamta is gone out to some unknown land taking her 3yr old son along with her.............it's not destiny....it's her decision....she thinks her kid needs only one thing.....his mother....and she is making her little kid suffer .......every now & then the kid is asking for his papa.....a 'papa' who is heartbroken.....who is wandering here & there in search of his son & wife....getting mad on everyone.................😭😭😭

Everybody including Sid gave Mamta permission to go to Akku....everybody wanted it for the sake of Krishu...........Mamta has this option.....but she didn't do it...........

Mamta it's high time that u do an introspection.......Mamta,u r also guilty of many things.....u also suspected ur husband.......u went against ur belief & accepted Akku as dead without seeing his dead body....u didn't wait for him........u succumbed to silly prsr & got remarried in no time.........u couldn't recognize ur husband.....now tell me ,if u were so strong ,if ur love was so strong,would all these bad things hv happened?...Mamta,u r also responsible for everything that had happened...it is not just Akshay......😕

if u had lost ur baby,then u also in some way responsible for that....if Mamta has lost her baby,Akshay has also lost his baby......what more punishment he deserves?....he aleady has got this biggest punishment......................why more?and why only him?

Mamta taking some time to cope with the situation, understandable, but this is something unacceptable at any cost.....she got enough time ....she is not trying to understand A at all....she is A's wife first...but it seems she has forgotton it...she is not feeling guilty at all for remarrying someone without waiting for A.....Akku is a victim of so many betrayals....he had gone through a lot...nobody has let him live....why Mamta is not understanding this....................

It's been shown as Mamta remarried Sid bcse of her 'mamta'....for her kids.......(it doesn't seem to be so...😕).....

But Now...............

Why can't she forgive & go to Akku for her kid?

Is it right to take a 3 yr old little kid away from his father?

hasn't Akshay been a good father?

Krish is dying to meet his father..will he forgive his mother when he grew up & come to know about all these?

Is Mamta right here?is Mamta's mamta justified?

she is denying her child a well deserved life with his real parents ...and making him suffer.......

Pls pls share ur views........................

............................................thanks.......... ..........................

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i absolutley agree 😊 100% 😊 👏 👏 good job Niti_26 👍🏼 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well said........ 👏 👏
I totally agree with you
I don't know what she is thinking!!!!
If she didn't want to go back to Akku, she should have stayed with Sid!!!!
Edited by gradie - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: niti_26

Friends,

This show is named 'mamta'......................and the protagonist Mamta is supposed to be a woman full of 'mamta'

We been watching this show for more than a year now..........

So what is 'mamta'?......sacrificing everything for the happiness of ur child............understanding what is best for ur child..............try to give ur child every good thing he/she deserves................give ur child protection...........try not to make him/her suffer.............mamta - ape bacche ki prati ma ka pyar hota hai. apne bacche ko yaha A se wahan S bhagana kahan ki mamta huyi. apne uljhan me apne bache to uljhana kahan ti mamta hui. mamta ki bhasha wohi samajh sskti hai jo khod ke ma ho.

Our protagonist Mamta is gone out to some unknown land taking her 3yr old son along with her.............it's not destiny....it's her decision....she thinks her kid needs only one thing.....his mother....and she is making her little kid suffer .......every now & then the kid is asking for his papa.....a 'papa' who is heartbroken.....who is wandering here & there in search of his son & wife....getting mad on everyone.................😭😭😭 why is akshay getting mad??? it was bcoz of him it stated not saying that all credits for wrong should go to him but where did it stard. this is not the first time he did this. galti ke hai to paschatap to karna he padeha

Everybody including Sid gave Mamta permission to go to Akku....everybody wanted it for the sake of Krishu...........Mamta has this option.....but she didn't do it...........mana ki sab ne mamta ko ijazad de di thi A ke pass wapas lautne ki magar khud to mamta ke jagah par rakkar deko. mamta koi "chiz" nahi jo jab muum me aya is aadmi ke pass bhej di aur jub fir muun aya to dusre aadmi ke pass bhej di.

this if she was your daughter. how many times are you going to ask your own daughter to chage from one man to another bcoz before anyting mamta was a daughter

Mamta it's high time that u do an introspection.......Mamta,u r also guilty of many things.....u also suspected ur husband.......u went against ur belief & accepted Akku as dead without seeing his dead body....u didn't wait for him........u succumbed to silly prsr & got remarried in no time.........u couldn't recognize ur husband.....now tell me ,if u were so strong ,if ur love was so strong,would all these bad things hv happened?...Mamta,u r also responsible for everything that had happened...it is not just Akshay......😕 when everyone said that A was dead mamta was the only person who disagreed to this saying that she knows that A is still alive. she didn't make a decision that "oked great now A is dead i should start my live with S". she was in a way forced to do all these. and also jo kismat me likha hai wohi hota hai.

if u had lost ur baby,then u also in some way responsible for that....if Mamta has lost her baby,Akshay has also lost his baby...it didn't really matter to A when he got to know that mamta lost her baby. it did only after he got to know that the child that mamta was carrying was his then the time came when he realized that ...what more punishment he deserves?....he aleady has got this biggest punishment......................why more?and why only him? its not only A who is going though all these. mamta is also there. masuma is also there and not forgetting sid .

Mamta taking some time to cope with the situation, understandable, but this is something unacceptable at any cost.....she got enough time ....she is not trying to understand A at all....she is A's wife first...but it seems she has forgotton it...she is not feeling guilty at all for remarrying someone without waiting for A.....Akku is a victim of so many betrayals....he had gone through a lot...nobody has let him live....why Mamta is not understanding this....................again as i have stated above mamta disageed that A was dead. she was froced to remarry. its not she did not wait. she did and what did she get inreturn "everyone tried their best to prove that she was mad "mentally ill""

It's been shown as Mamta remarried Sid bcse of her 'mamta'....for her kids.......(it doesn't seem to be so...😕)..... always think that whatever happened ws with you and you'll have a good idea as to what should have happened and what not.

But Now...............

Why can't she forgive & go to Akku for her kid? again she is not a "chiz" that we can have her go from one man to another. she might come back with time

Is it right to take a 3 yr old little kid away from his father? totally agree with your feelings that why and why a three year old child. but we can't have the child at A'shouse bcoz tanisha would never leave a chance to harm A's kid in his absence. as we have already seen that a few times already

hasn't Akshay been a good father? no doubt but how can you not have trust on your wife - your childs mom. when there is no trust there is no meaning behind those relationships - basically no relationship

Krish is dying to meet his father..will he forgive his mother when he grew up & come to know about all these? all depends everyonw sees things differently

Is Mamta right here?is Mamta's mamta justified? mamta can never be justified. a ma does all this for the good of the child. no mom in this world would want the worst for her kid. all ma is unique in their own ways and all ma doea what they this is good for their child

she is denying her child a well deserved life with his real parents ...and making him suffer....... real parents where A tends to always misunderstand Manta and ends up losing his trust.

its nothing personal just thought of sharing my own thoughts.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: gradie

Well said........ 👏 👏
I totally agree with you
I don't know what she is thinking!!!!
If she didn't want to go back to Akku, she should have stayed with Sid!!!!

true
but she needed to get away from both of them
then maybe she would be able to put her life in prespective
would any of us like it to be juggled around like that?
she was wrong to take Krish away from his father...granted..but the woman is hurting, she need time to heal!!!!!

this is a perfect time for their 20 year leap...if that's what the creators are hell bent on doing.......it's like watching an indian movie but in serial form...


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Posted: 18 years ago
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To:e23147................ 😊

thanks for replying to my post.................. 😊

Dear,u asked me to put myself in Mamta's place.....I always tried to do that only....but Mamta is supposed to be or shown as a perfect lady...a deviji...so I couldn't put myself in Mamta's place...bcse I'am not perfect at all...so what I can do is put the old Mamta in place of new Mamta & compare......... 😕

has Mamta been a perfect wife to A not to be suspected by him?(pls pls go for a real analysis from the very beginning)..........

has she been really honest to A?(nobody can qstn A's honesty)......

u were exlaining the situations under which Mamta was forced to believe A was dead & remarried S... I don't know whether u remember M was in a similar siituation when S died....all at Sid's place tried to torture her...then she was not even a real widow...then also she had Krish with her...she could hv told the truth to everyone....but she decided not to...thank god vandana got that CD,otherwise M would hv stayed as Sid's widow/wife for life....so then she was so strong....she believed in her 'dharam'(duty)...she listened to her 'dil' only no matter what...then why not she was/is so strong for A.. ....why didn't she stick to her beliefs?why didn't she listen to her 'dil'?.......................😕....

If she was forced to believe...if she was forced to suspect A,why can't u think the same thing for A....he was also forced to believe things....he was made to see all wrong things...nobody has let him live....we can not ignore those...he is also a human being...a man who has feelings...if M won't try to understand him,then who will?...A has forgiven M ,then why can't M?

Mamta is not a 'chiz'......who made her a 'chiz'?....see,here her weakness itself played a role..if others were finding her wrong & mentally ill,then she could hv acted as listening to them...but she could hv kept her belief within her...why din't she listen to her 'dil'?she couldn't recognize her husband...but she is not feeling guilty at all...see we hv a bunch of chars who r guilty of many things....nobody can be spared....they hv their own resons for that..all r victims of badluck & their own weakness....u said M waited for A...hardly 2 months,dear...is this u expect from M for A?she had given up so easily & so quickly.... her love & belief all looked so so weak...and it's surprising that u people r trying to find excuses for M...

Akshay deserves to be with his kid..nobody can deny it..Mamta has no right to take away Krish from his father...I don't need to say anything more on this...all wrong things hv happened...all r responsible for that...now what they hv to do is forget & forgive for the sake of a little kid...that has to be done ..no excuse for that...it may be difficult but u hv to do it...that's the sign of great people...Mamta is supposed to be a great woman,right?...... 😕

u just put urself in place of Krish & that's it u'll get the answer.........and answer this qstn of a 3yr old kid....why can't I go to my 'papa'?(Krishu asked this qsn to M in ystrdy's episode& M had no answer)........... 😭


........................thanks..............
Edited by niti_26 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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all this just goes to show that Mamta is indeed not perfect...no woman is....

be it a mother a sister or a daughter..
we all have weaknesses...
and sometimes the heart can lead you on the wrong path...not everyone can recognise this....

I still think mamta needs time to heal...away from both akshay & sid...
as the saying goes..time heal all wounds!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharala

all this just goes to show that Mamta is indeed not perfect...no woman is....

be it a mother a sister or a daughter..
we all have weaknesses...
and sometimes the heart can lead you on the wrong path...not everyone can recognise this....

I still think mamta needs time to heal...away from both akshay & sid...
as the saying goes..time heal all wounds!!!

of course Mamta needs time.....and Akshay was all ready to give her as much time she wants....u don't need to go miles away from someone to heal ur wounds(and also M was not in a position to do the same) ..it's just time....A was ready to wait.......as a mother u hv to suffer for ur kid....that's ur duty....it's difficult but u hv to do it ......the kid is just 3 yrs old......

I don't think anything can justify what Mamta is doing now.....no wayyyyyyyyy....it is ridiculous & injustice done to both father & son....

........it's my view.................thanks....................

Edited by niti_26 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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But just think,...All of them suffer... Akshay and Mamta love each other but a barrier of misunderstandings always seperates them (Tanisha!!)...It's not their fault...But I agree,...Where is the true bond of love between them??? Where is the strong belief??? The unbreakable trust between husband and wife??? Where is their faith of this love??? And in between them is Krish, isn't there??? Their son...Why should he suffer stuck in the middle??? His parents, where's the love of both mommy&daddy??? But I think that Akshay has a very great sense of suspicion...I mean he believed strangers b4 even talking things out with Mamta and Sid...Don't you think that's a weak point??? Mamta got married to Sid for her children...I have no complaints against that...It is her 'Mamta' ...& She was still the only one who believed Akshay was alive!! She never doubted it!! And if she got remarried to her greatest friend, what is her fault??? She had Krish and was pregnant...How can she lead life alone when she is so young??? With two kids??? How can she remain a widow for the rest of her life??? And it's not like she took this desicion...She was forced...It was Masooma's desicion and the family's for Mamta's & her kids well-being...She took lots of time b4 making this desicion...& She might have always been waiting for Akshay...But how she accept it when she finds out that Akshay thought that Mamta and Sid tried to kill him??? He was trying to get revenge??? How can he even think that??? If he loved Mamta truly, would he ever??? & Akshay has done this alot...I cried at Mamta's line when she said that you have made this promise...But you've always broke it...& Just because of a misunderstanding??? You throw me out, and bring be back in like furniture!! Akshay never hesitates to point fingers...He always ends up in someway doubting his Mamta...Why??? Then he pacifys her??? What is that??? What's his fault though...? Why don't they ever try talking things out??? Aargh!! Soo she respects Sid, what's wrong with that??? Sid always makes the sacrafices, he loves Mamta and Krish dearly, yet he always wishes for them to remain with Akshay...He goes through so much pain...Why is Mamta always tossed around??? And Krish what can he do??? He stays forever with his mommy, but can never have a papa's love...What is the innocent kid's fault???

Edited by coolslapstix - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: niti_26

Friends,

This show is named 'mamta'......................and the protagonist Mamta is supposed to be a woman full of 'mamta'

We been watching this show for more than a year now..........i agree

So what is 'mamta'?......sacrificing everything for the happiness of ur child............understanding what is best for ur child..............try to give ur child every good thing he/she deserves................give ur child protection...........try not to make him/her suffer.............

Our protagonist Mamta is gone out to some unknown land taking her 3yr old son along with her.............it's not destiny....it's her decision....she thinks her kid needs only one thing.....his mother...sometimes the writers forget this, they act like its not important, the basic reason for a show to start is changed after viewers want something else, we cant blame mamta, but we can blame the producer.and she is making her little kid suffer .......every now & then the kid is asking for his papa.....a 'papa' who is heartbroken.....who is wandering here & there in search of his son & wife....getting mad on everyone...............life isnt always fair..😭😭😭

Everybody including Sid gave Mamta permission to go to Akku....everybody wanted it for the sake of Krishu...........Mamta has this option.....but she didn't do it...........she had lost her trust in him, and when the heart breaks its hard to bring everything back together

Mamta it's high time that u do an introspection.......Mamta,u r also guilty of many things.....u also suspected ur husband.......u went against ur belief & accepted Akku as dead without seeing his dead body....u didn't wait for him........she waited but she had to marry someone else for the sake of her unborn child who unfortunately is no more u succumbed to silly prsr & got remarried in no time.........u couldn't recognize ur husband....she thought she recognized him but every now and then thought that if he was akshay then he would definitely come back to her but that didnt happen .now tell me ,if u were so strong ,if ur love was so strong,would all these bad things hv happened?..sometimes even if ur love is strong and powerful it doesnt always happen, because destiny has a lot i store .Mamta,u r also responsible for everything that had happened...it is not just Akshay......😕 i agree but she doesnt feel that way all she knows is that akshay broke her heart, and then sid...

if u had lost ur baby,then u also in some way responsible for that....if Mamta has lost her baby,Akshay has also lost his baby......what more punishment he deserves?....if only someone could explain that to the writer he aleady has got this biggest punishment......................why more?and why only him? because she is forced to think like that, life has made a mother cruel and a wife stonehearted

Mamta taking some time to cope with the situation, understandable, but this is something unacceptable at any cost.....she got enough time ....she is not trying to understand A at all....she is A's wife first...but it seems she has forgotton it...she is not feeling guilty at all for remarrying someone without waiting for A.....Akku is a victim of so many betrayals....he had gone through a lot...nobody has let him live....why Mamta is not understanding this....................as i said, she cant do anything bcz when someone looses trust in u, and try to ruin ur life and then u loose trust in them, its hard to try and get back to the regular way of life

It's been shown as Mamta remarried Sid bcse of her 'mamta'....for her kids.......(it doesn't seem to be so...😕).....but u have to accept the fact that in the end she started caring for sid, bcz he loved her and her kids even though he knew what reality was...

But Now...............

Why can't she forgive & go to Akku for her kid? life makes different decisions and this was one she felt she had to take

Is it right to take a 3 yr old little kid away from his father? no but even if they got divorced he would still be away from his son, but atleast closer then what actually happened

hasn't Akshay been a good father? of course but mamta doesnt care how he is as a father

Krish is dying to meet his father..will he forgive his mother when he grew up & come to know about all these? no, krishu will be heartbroken and may even grow up with facing injustice from his own family and others who will bug him as to where are his parents

Is Mamta right here?is Mamta's mamta justified?in a way she is and a way she isnt, when someone looses trust its hard to get it back and no because she separated a father from a son, she should at least thought how it felt when krishu was away from his mother

she is denying her child a well deserved life with his real parents ...and making him suffer.......however we cant do anything well just have to wait

Pls pls share ur views........................

............................................thanks.......... ..........................

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