Sanyu's height of cold-heartedness towards RD - Page 4

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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: soumyamishra

it is very true that she is becomes too cold-hearted in matters concerning randhir.

she is shown as a person who
1) helped vidushi by paying her fees as she is poor.
2) very maturely and patiently dealt with sahil when he was depressed due to results.
3) helped kastuki in her admission related problems
4) and above all is so keen to help parth. she wants to know his past, wants to know about his love, wants to solve his problems, wants him to be out of misery, wants o follow him everywhere. in short wants to stick with him (fevicol😆)

but when it comes to randhir she just ignores his pain which is quite evident in his eyes.

when she came to know about renuka sanyal she behaved so indifferently with RD. should not say this but evil vidushi would have taken the matter more seriously and would have reacted in a more matured and sensitive way

exactly soumya...when she deal to RD it looks like I m seeing one immature girl...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
I disagree with you. If you see carefully, the way she deals with Randhir is done out of impulse. She reacts to how he behaves with her. She doesn't pre-plan and strike him where it will hurt him the most. Randhir does that. He targets her at her weak points.(I do not deny that he helps her out as well)
Sanyukta did attack him in a way which would hurt him as well but she never really did it intentionally. She reacts according to how he behaves with her.
Its actually very easy for us to understand that he cares for her and tries to get her attention and sometimes insults her to mask that care but she does not know it. I do not really think that she has any obligation to understand him. That understanding will come eventually but as of now I do not think she is being cold-hearted at all.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
No i disagree!!
Sanyu did not know Randhir cares for her .. Plus the way he spoke that wasnt kind too!! He too was VERY rude..
first only she is facing so many problems over randhir too is taunting her .. who will not get irritated. .. and now he will fix her marraige and put her in trouble again ... if randhir doesnt have a family .. sanyukta too has no family inspite of having one since no body cares for her too except her mom who is too helpless .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Piya1702


its not just that particular inciedent...
its the things that led to it!!
Sanyu was the one who publicly humiliated Randhir though he had helpe her so much wid the model for hr dad's factory!!

she also did go and thank him for it and he yelled at her for absolutely no reason .. anyone would get mad ! and sanyukta also tried to help randhir when he had family issues ..its a different thing that it backfired and he didn't need her help .. but its not like she doesn't care .. she tries and helps all her friends .. but if someone treats her badly .. doesn't respect her .. why should she be nice to him ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: --Ari--


just because someone doesnt accept your thank you doesnt mean all their favors on you become null and void. being grateful doesnt mean saying thank you. It means feeling gratitude towards the person. And what sanyu does is being ungrateful...snobby and selfish not being grateful.


Saying thank you is one of the MOST common ways of showing gratitude in most countries unless you are living the cavemen days. and she has felt gratitude which is why she feels the need to say thank you to a person. People say thank you when they are grateful. it's literally the definition of thank you. in no way does she owe RD anything? She never asked for him to do anything without her doing anything in return. As said in the show, if you are asking for something in return for a deed, then its not called helping someone, its called a deal. RD has always asked sanyukta to do something for him everytime she comes to him for help. So in no way does Sanyukta owe RD anything. Just because he did something nice for once doesn't make sanyukta in debt to him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well...Yes, i have often felt that sanyukta is abit thankless when it comes to randhir. She has that use and throw kind of attitude, and i can soo defend my point here- She becomes all sweet to randhir when she needs help, and the moment her job is done she really doesnt bother much..she says thank u coz that is basic manners, and nt out of gratitude. Initially she di the same thing with parth too. No one can deny the fact that she did take parth for granted as well.
Being a feminist and havin a use and throw attitude r two absolutely diffrerent things. I feel sanyu jst merges both of them.
Its compeltely my POV...i dont mean to offend anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37
OH PLEASE SANYU IS NOT A SLAVE TO BOW B4 RANDIR
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: -Wanderer-

I disagree with you. If you see carefully, the way she deals with Randhir is done out of impulse. She reacts to how he behaves with her. She doesn't pre-plan and strike him where it will hurt him the most. Randhir does that. He targets her at her weak points.(I do not deny that he helps her out as well)

Sanyukta did attack him in a way which would hurt him as well but she never really did it intentionally. She reacts according to how he behaves with her.
Its actually very easy for us to understand that he cares for her and tries to get her attention and sometimes insults her to mask that care but she does not know it. I do not really think that she has any obligation to understand him. That understanding will come eventually but as of now I do not think she is being cold-hearted at all.


@BolD...Take the example of recent inciedent,when she thanked him for helping her with the factory model,n he instead insulted her back...she preplanned to humiliate him publicly n made that chemical which could make him fall on the corridor!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: winchesters

Well...Yes, i have often felt that sanyukta is abit thankless when it comes to randhir. She has that use and throw kind of attitude, and i can soo defend my point here- She becomes all sweet to randhir when she needs help, and the moment her job is done she really doesnt bother much..she says thank u coz that is basic manners, and nt out of gratitude. Initially she di the same thing with parth too. No one can deny the fact that she did take parth for granted as well.

Being a feminist and havin a use and throw attitude r two absolutely diffrerent things. I feel sanyu jst merges both of them.
Its compeltely my POV...i dont mean to offend anyone.


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