Originally posted by: adianasr
Sweety, one of the most important thing one has to realise is that living in guilt and beating oneself up for something that has already happened is counter-productive.
It is said that one shd always live in the now and not in the past or the future - and for TE what mattered was to find Jodha and ensure she is safe, apologise to her for his mistake and make all efforts to assuage her hurt - he has done all that and more - and he no longer needs to give anyone, including her anymore explanations - And yes she has every right to feel hurt, but she also has a duty to acknowledge her part in this affair and apologise for it - yes she has every right to ask for time, but she also has a duty to accept a sincere apology - It requires grace to apologise and it requires more grace to accept an apology without making the other feel bad - and where one has rights, one also needs to realise that one has duties too - If one has the right to one's own POV, one also has the duty to give the same weightage to the other's POV - kisi ek ka POV dusre ke POV se bada ya chota nahin hota - sabke POVs samaan hote hain.