A wounded soul can never give happiness!??

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi people!Looking back at my old post n analysing it again
Time and again I feel what my mom said is completely true!!! Raghav can never give Kalpi her happiness or her aasmaan!
That Raghav whom we loved is long gone! Is there any hope left? Even if they are together after a year as he claims to do will it be the same!!?? Is it the same Raghav who kept chasing her everywhere just to get a reply from her?? IS it the same aggressive Raghav who would not agree to the class differences,Is it the same Raghav who could never see tears in Kalpi's eyes but today 75% of her tears are because of you and the rest 25% is due to her Aai!

I think Kalpi is indifferent to Paakhi so nothing that she says makes a difference to Kalpi! My Mom was so so right about Raghav!!!

My mom had always told me that Raghav can not keep Kalpi happy and I used to argue with her!

She explained it to me and now I feel what she said will come true!

Raghav is a wounded soul! He has always been hurt and never got loved by anyone just for the sake of love. He was loved for his money, power etc...

How will he know about love when he has never experienced it! Not even his own mother's love!

Then comes Kalpi with her caring nature and showers him with all her care in spite of him being rude to her. She questions him, scolds him, chides him, explains things to him which normally parents do. Suddenly he started yearning for all that love that he has been missing all these years!

He is searching for his mom in her or his missing family in her! He wants her, he needs her and hence he loves her as she makes him feel that he is no longer lonely and that now he too has someone to think about him, to scold him when he is wrong, to hug him when he is sad, to take care of him when he is unwell!

But what does he have to give to Kalpi?? He is insecured, scared that she might leave him and hence wanted to hear from her mouth that she loved him. He did not give her time to overcome the whole feeling of being in love! He kept pressurizing her forcing her to accept his love and kept following her. He is ready to buy expensive gifts for her because he wants to.

But Kalpi made him experience the real happiness of life, She taught him that real happiness does not come from branded clothes, five star dining and dating. But she showed him how one can be content lying on a grass with his loved one in the open air and shopping inexpensive things and enjoying any kind of food together!

What has Kalpi expected in return! Nothing at all! Isn't that true love? She is just happy with the fact that he has changed so much and is ready to experience her world with her! Now she wants him to talk to her parents because she has been questioned! She looks back at him as this is the time she needs him the most and he ditches her!

Maybe it is temporary and maybe he has his own reasons. But when he has always been so verbal about his feelings then why not explain it to her! This is so not the Raghav Singhania we know!

What made him switch off the phone, when he could have easily texted her and given some excuse atleast she could have replied her parents! Today once more she failed before Kamla and I for one did not want this. I did not want to see Kalpi hurt! Atleast not due to Raghav! After all she did give him his Aasmaan to him! Then why should she suffer this pain!

This experience has forced me to think that can really Raghav love Kalpi so much that he can never hurt her??!!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely dear
N ev3n I think or hav a question dat foes really rag lov kalpi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I beg to differ, but I think that no one can love better than a wounded soul.
Someone who hasn't got true love, who's always has seen the seamy side of life may not accept true love so easily when he experiences it for the first time (just like Raghav did).

But when he realizes what he has found he will treasure it more than anything cause he truly knows the value of it, he knows how lost he was without love, how empty his life really was and he'll cherish it for life.

Things are not always what they seem and maybe cause Raghav's not used to dealing with emotional scenes maybe didn't know how to explain his absence to Kalpi but we have to look at the big picture, there's definitely something major that he's doing for Kalpi that made him take this step

Dee
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ragna fans always thg that raghav and kalpi belong togther since their were kids...the passion is there...the lovis there...but be able to sacrifice 4 each other is a totally different question...n here kalpi juz raghav to meet her parents...n he didnt even text her n tell her tht he cant cme..

i guess sammy was right pyaar instant cofen nahin hai...acar ki traha hai...

maybe this is a test for raghav and kalpi as well...🤔

juz hope they will never break up...😭

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ppl we don't even know the reason for raghav not coming to Kalpi's home! Plz don't pass judgment on him yet! Have patience!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yellowdiamond

Ppl we don't even know the reason for raghav not coming to Kalpi's home! Plz don't pass judgment on him yet! Have patience!!


hope for the best...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Autumm



hope for the best...😊


Always!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: drdee142

I beg to differ, but I think that no one can love better than a wounded soul.

Someone who hasn't got true love, who's always has seen the seamy side of life may not accept true love so easily when he experiences it for the first time (just like Raghav did).

But when he realizes what he has found he will treasure it more than anything cause he truly knows the value of it, he knows how lost he was without love, how empty his life really was and he'll cherish it for life.

Things are not always what they seem and maybe cause Raghav's not used to dealing with emotional scenes maybe didn't know how to explain his absence to Kalpi but we have to look at the big picture, there's definitely something major that he's doing for Kalpi that made him take this step

Dee


👏 exactly my thoughts 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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priya_remix..

I am ur fan... for this post.. the way u have put up this whole thing of Raghav's insecurities..!! It's beautiful..and the most loved line in this was:

**** Suddenly he started yearning for all that love that he has been missing all these years!****

He wants her.. He needs her.. but as an audience we equally know that Raghav cannot bear to see Kalpi hurt or in tears..!! Yet.. the truth remains, you are mostly hurt by the people who loves u the most.!!
Raghav was clueless.. as to what's going on around..!! It was in pain.. he was in trouble himself.. and didn't want to add burden on Kalpi for now..!! See the smile and happiness he brings to kalpi as payment for this evening would be million dollars better then.. just meeting EYE baba..!! Trust it on CVs now..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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NO..priya..only a wounded soul knows..what is the meaning of love...n he will give her all the happiness in the world..but he needs some time..he should get out of all the fears...i agree..wateva he has done is not to be done..as i have posted..i have scolded ragahv like hell..i dint like this..but still i dont agree with this..ki he cant give her happiness..he will give her..love needs pain also to become stronger..wounded soul will have so many questions in their minds..what if they will get hurt again..they cant be healed again..they are weak..they wouldnt have that much strength to face it..it needs time and supprt and love to heal..completely..
n this is the one situation which will make him realise what misatke he has done...raghav has not changed completely yet..this issues are making him change..he will become the much wanted lover of everyone soon😊😊😊

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