A wounded soul can never give happiness!?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: priya_remix

Hi people!

My mom had always told me that Raghav can not keep Kalpi happy and I used to argue with her!

She explained it to me and now I feel what she said will come true!

Raghav is a wounded soul! He has always been hurt and never got loved by anyone just for the sake of love. He was loved for his money, power etc...

How will he know about love when he has never experienced it! Not even his own mother's love!

Then comes Kalpi with her caring nature and showers him with all her care in spite of him being rude to her. She questions him, scolds him, chides him, explains things to him which normally parents do. Suddenly he started yearning for all that love that he has been missing all these years!

He is searching for his mom in her or his missing family in her! He wants her, he needs her and hence he loves her as she makes feel that he is no longer lonely and that now he too has someone to think about him, to scold him when he is wrong, to hug him when he is sad, to take care of him when he is unwell!

But what does he have to give to Kalpi?? He is insecured, scared that she might leave him and hence wanted to hear from her mouth that she loved him. He did not give her time to overcome the whole feeling of being in love! He kept pressurizing her forcing her to accept his love and kept following her. He is ready to buy expensive gifts for her because he wants to.

But Kalpi made him experience the real happiness of life, She taught him that real happiness does not come from branded clothes, five star dining and dating. But she showed him how one can be content lying on a grass with his loved one in the open air and shopping inexpensive things and enjoying any kind of food together!

What has Kalpi expected in return! Nothing at all! Isn't that true love? She is just happy with the fact that he has changed so much and is ready to experience her world with her! Now she wants him to talk to her parents because she has been questioned! She looks back at him as this is the time she needs him the most and he ditches her!

Maybe it is temporary and maybe he has his own reasons. But when he has always been so verbal about his feelings then why not explain it to her! This is so not the Raghav Singhania we know!

What made him switch off the phone, when he could have easily texted her and given some excuse atleast she could have replied her parents! Today once more she failed before Kamla and I for one did not want this. Maybe things will change tomorrow but I did not want to see Kalpi hurt! Atleast not due to Raghav! After all she did give him his Aasmaan to him! Then why should she suffer this pain!

This experience has forced me to think that can really Raghav love Kalpi so much that he can never hurt her??!!

Originally posted by: sarusmiley

NO..priya..only a wounded soul knows..what is the meaning of love...n he will give her all the happiness in the world..but he needs some time..he should get out of all the fears...i agree..wateva he has done is not to be done..as i have posted..i have scolded ragahv like hell..i dint like this..but still i dont agree with this..ki he cant give her happiness..he will give her..love needs pain also to become stronger..wounded soul will have so many questions in their minds..what if they will get hurt again..they cant be healed again..they are weak..they wouldnt have that much strength to face it..it needs time and supprt and love to heal..completely..
n this is the one situation which will make him realise what misatke he has done...raghav has not changed completely yet..this issues are making him change..he will become the much wanted lover of everyone soon😊😊😊

Priya as far as i know a wounded soul can only give all the happiness in this world. Since rags has not got any love, care from anybody and when kalpi showers him with love, care he vl do anything to protect her to make her stay in his life. He is in secured bt he vl go back to her. It is same like how the day kalpi went to rags house tried moving things here and there rags got angry shouted at her later he realized his mistake and went back to her same way in this also there is something which rags is doing for kalpi he vl go back to her but never he vl leave her or break the relation. Dont forget only he bought the smile on kalpi's face. Which no one could do not even her parents. So only rags vl shower her with loads of love care and affection no doubt in that.

Ohk i wud like to disagree here. u know the situation changes from person to person because psychology of every person is different. i wud give u an example.

Originally posted by: drdee142

I beg to differ, but I think that no one can love better than a wounded soul.

Someone who hasn't got true love, who's always has seen the seamy side of life may not accept true love so easily when he experiences it for the first time (just like Raghav did).

But when he realizes what he has found he will treasure it more than anything cause he truly knows the value of it, he knows how lost he was without love, how empty his life really was and he'll cherish it for life.

Things are not always what they seem and maybe cause Raghav's not used to dealing with emotional scenes maybe didn't know how to explain his absence to Kalpi but we have to look at the big picture, there's definitely something major that he's doing for Kalpi that made him take this step

Dee

Originally posted by: priya_remix

Higlighted in black is the exact reason my mom told me that he wont be able to 'give' happiness.

Actually my mom has lived with my dad, who like Raghav lost his mum n dad at a very young age.

He lost his dad when he was not even born! and then his mom just before his 10th exams!

He was brought up by his uncles n aunts who were only interested in his fathers property and business. His father was into hotel business.

He never got his rights and property! But he became a self made man by working hard.

Similar to Raghav and Kalpi my mom and dad have a vast age gap 10yrs of difference!

He was the one to initiate this relation, followed my mom n impressed her! You won't believe but my mom also used to live in chawl! And she used to travel by bus to the typing institute! And my dad used to follow her in the bus!

But once they got married there were many MU and confusions and many played villains in their story forcing them to almost divorce. My mom left him and went to her parents house when it dawned on him that what is he about to lose and he got back to her!

He loves my mom but he is the one who hurts her the most! Because he could never understand that by doing something he could end up hurting her!

Sorry to rattle on my parent's story but this is one of the reasons I watch EMa!! It is so real!

Well ppl I guess finally my mom was right!!!!

Originally posted by: priya_remix

Well ppl I guess finally my mom was right!!!!

Mom's are the best and knows everything better😉

Originally posted by: sarusmiley

NO..priya..only a wounded soul knows..what is the meaning of love...n he will give her all the happiness in the world..but he needs some time..he should get out of all the fears...i agree..wateva he has done is not to be done..as i have posted..i have scolded ragahv like hell..i dint like this..but still i dont agree with this..ki he cant give her happiness..he will give her..love needs pain also to become stronger..wounded soul will have so many questions in their minds..what if they will get hurt again..they cant be healed again..they are weak..they wouldnt have that much strength to face it..it needs time and supprt and love to heal..completely..
n this is the one situation which will make him realise what misatke he has done...raghav has not changed completely yet..this issues are making him change..he will become the much wanted lover of everyone soon😊😊😊

Ppl who thought wounded souls can give too much love do answer me tht what happiness has he given to Kalpi till no! Infact he is hurting her day in and day out by being with that sheman!!