nOw Hateness........NOt LOve eVerytIme!!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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We DIscussed here a loads of times abOut LOve..... But we DOes'nt see the Other SIde Of COin.....If LOve is Heads, then There is definetly a tails....and tHat is tHe wOrd "HATE".....

Point Of Debate :

When We Fall In LOve, Then Why this LOve COnverts into Hate?(Its happen Vey Often , But It is)

WhO is Responsible FOr The Hateness, that Take Birth....Is it Our Mind Who is Responsible or Our Heart Force us to hate SOmeone.....

How Much true this Saying is according to YOu... "We Hate the Person, TO Whom we LOve"

DOes Hateness have any Limits....Or Like we Love SOmeone, their is no limits.... Just like that, is it true that there is no limits in Hateness?

We Have TO Talk abOut Hateness Now, BcOz, we ever TALk about LOve..... And tO understand the feelings Of lOve,wE have tO knOw AbOut hatenesS.........................

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

We DIscussed here a loads of times abOut LOve..... But we DOes'nt see the Other SIde Of COin.....If LOve is Heads, then There is definetly a tails....and tHat is tHe wOrd "HATE".....

Point Of Debate :

When We Fall In LOve, Then Why this LOve COnverts into Hate?(Its happen Vey Often , But It is)

WhO is Responsible FOr The Hateness, that Take Birth....Is it Our Mind Who is Responsible or Our Heart Force us to hate SOmeone.....

How Much true this Saying is according to YOu... "We Hate the Person, TO Whom we LOve"

DOes Hateness have any Limits....Or Like we Love SOmeone, their is no limits.... Just like that, is it true that there is no limits in Hateness?

We Have TO Talk abOut Hateness Now, BcOz, we ever TALk about LOve..... And tO understand the feelings Of lOve,wE have tO knOw AbOut hatenesS.........................



Usmaan, let me reply to this as one. Hatred is a very strong word and we use it too often without meaning it. That is bad to begin with 😆.

Why could love and hate be looked at as 2 sides of the same coin?
Simple- these are extremes of positive and negative feelings towards someone.
Why we say we "hate" people we love? I think it is because we care a lot for them and hence expect them to care for us in turn. When they fail to do so, we feel very hurt, BETRAYED and we misinterpret that emotion as hating them. It still isn't hatred😳 .. We just feel VERY angry, that's all.
Yes, "we sort of hate someone we love"- basically we FEEL for them and they matter.
I think that love does have limits (except mother's and pet's unconditional love), but hatred unfortunately has no limits. Children falling prey to terrorism is the ugliest face of hatred and we have seen it. To me, it is already beyond limit 🤢😭..


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Posted: 18 years ago
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very gOOd tOpic lOvers ka lOve. i like the way yOu are putting your Os in caps. i will cOmment later if i have any OpiniOn abOut it 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

I think that love does have limits (except mother's and pet's unconditional love), but hatred unfortunately has no limits. Children falling prey to terrorism is the ugliest face of hatred and we have seen it. To me, it is already beyond limit 🤢😭..


Very gOOd pOint mermaid..... If we get cOntrol frOm the begning of a child's life, eg...Keep them away from tOys like guns and other which spread terrorism, then make mind just like they statred to hate these....and as yOu say, there is'nt any limit of Hateness... in the same way, we make their mind to hate them with no Limits....... that the way to spread lOve which is acoording to yOu is Limited but fOr me its Unlimited, either with anyone...😃

Edited by Lovers Ka Love - 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: raunaq

very gOOd tOpic lOvers ka lOve. i like the way yOu are putting your Os in caps. i will cOmment later if i have any OpiniOn abOut it 😛

Thankzzzz...... Thanks fOr liking my Os.... 😉

I was wOndering, that that hOw yOu like my Os in a hateness type Of tOpic😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

We DIscussed here a loads of times abOut LOve..... But we DOes'nt see the Other SIde Of COin.....If LOve is Heads, then There is definetly a tails....and tHat is tHe wOrd "HATE".....

Point Of Debate :

When We Fall In LOve, Then Why this LOve COnverts into Hate?(Its happen Vey Often , But It is) I think familiariaty breeds contempt - or ghar ki murgi are more relevant than saying "hate"

WhO is Responsible FOr The Hateness, that Take Birth....Is it Our Mind Who is Responsible or Our Heart Force us to hate SOmeone.....Who ever had the bigger and grandeur illusions in love...😆

How Much true this Saying is according to YOu... "We Hate the Person, TO Whom we LOve"

Quite true since the person who u love makes you weak... and helpless... so in true love the so-called "hate" is veri prominent... If its not true love - its full of compromises and you may not see as much hate...

DOes Hateness have any Limits....Or Like we Love SOmeone, their is no limits.... Just like that, is it true that there is no limits in Hateness? Thats one thing I dont know....😊.. COnversely if they dont each other... more likely they have a "deal" and thats not love...😊

We Have TO Talk abOut Hateness Now, BcOz, we ever TALk about LOve..... And tO understand the feelings Of lOve,wE have tO knOw AbOut hatenesS.........................

Edited by qwertyesque - 18 years ago
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