A Gender Reversal of the Ramayana...?

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[quote=sangitadas]Back at the WM, the family priest is reciting the Ramayana in front of Dadi and said how Raja Ram destroyed Ravana with the help of Lakshman and brought Sita back to Ayodhya. The return was marked with celebrations all across the kingdom and this started the trend of celebrating Deepavali in the kingdom and later all across the country. And then Ram Rajya started in which all the subjects led a happy and contented life. However, this happiness was marred when a dhobi questioned Raja Ram about Sita's purity, since she had spent so many years all alone in Ravana's Ashok Vatika, and as such Raja Ram had sought agnipariksha from his wife. Even after the agnipariksha, Raja Ram had not been able to take back Sita who went away to stay in Rishi Valmiki's ashram, where she gave birth to the twins, Luv and Kush. Sita nurtured the kids and became both their Father and Mother and Raja Ram had no clues about his children. It was later during the Ashvamedhh Yagna when the kids fought him over the white horse, that Raja Ram got enthralled with their bravery and valour and found out that they were his sons only. He was overcome with happiness and wanted to meet his wife, whom he never stopped loving, in spite of giving her up for the people of the kingdom. That's why he was called Maryada Purushottam Ram. But when he realized the depth and intensity of his love for Sita, he walked barefoot to meet her and bring her back.[/quote]

This is taken from Sangi's (as usual fab!!😉) update. And it got me thinking.

Drawing direct parallels, is it just me, or can anyone else see a complete role reversal between the male and female here?

Despite all their past problems and distances, J-B were finally back on track, drawing closer, awaiting the arrival of a new child and looking to the future. 😳 But Sahil's murder put a real spanner in the works, and from there on, the above paragraph seems to be uncannily similar to the happenings in KS these days. 😕

Jai and Bani's happiness was marred when a dhobi (alright, fine, her name is Pia 😡😉) maligned Jai's purity to his wife, Bani, since he had spent one night all alone with her in Dubai (failing to mention of course, that she had drugged him!) and as such Bani (Rani) had sought agnipariksha from her husband…. literally and figuratively if you think about it!!) Even after the agnipariksha, Bani had not been able to take back Jai (I refer to her comment to Rano about his fault in being raped 😭) who went away to stay in Rishi Valmiki's ashram, where he gave birth to the twins, Luv and Kush…. 😕

Hmmmm, no wait, … Jai – who sent Bani to a paagalkhaana due to the machinations of the dhobi, and took her children away from her 😭. Jai (and his Laxmans, Rano/Ranveer 😉 ) nurtured the kids and became both their Father and Mother and Bani (Rani) had no clues about her children 😭. It was later during the badly written kidnapping and even more badly written bleeding footprints episode that Bani (Rani) came to determine the identity of her children and finally see them once more.😃 No white horse was present however, just one Donkey. 😆

And this is far as we have come.

Judging by past precedent and Kekta / NB's lack of originality and imagination 🤢, maybe one day I can hope to read…

"She was overcome with happiness and wanted to meet her husband, whom she never stopped loving, in spite of giving him up for the dhobi. That's why she was called St. Bani (Rani). But when she realized the depth and intensity of her love for Jai, she walked backless-bloused to meet him and re-create June 19th 2007." 😉😳😆

Ok, all jokes and sarcasm aside, the main flow of the story is unfortunately much the same, however, as I said, it appears to be Jai who was tested for sins he had not committed, albeit maybe not because Bani (Rani's) faith was an issue, it's just that the dhobi played a dirtier game than she might have fathomed. 😡

And no, I am not saying that Jai is as innocent and faultless and Sita, nor is Bani as weak and harsh as Ram was in that situation – they are humans, not deities remember. Nevertheless, the gist remains the same.

When this drama started either Kekta or NB said that J-B would be like Ram and Sita, always together but always apart. Seeing their words come true is just a little frightening for a J-B despo, don't you think? 😕

Cordy xxx

PS. To those who might perhaps call me disrespectful to my religion – I care little for small minds. 😛

PPS. This is NOT a bashing nor biased post – it is a comment on the similarities between KS and this portion of the Ramayana, as was intended by Kekta and her Destructives. If you are still intent on arguing for the sake of it, please yourselves! 🥱

PPPS. I keep saying Bani (Rani) because the priset kept saying Raja Ram. 😆

PPPPS. My opinions as usual, no offence meant! 😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Good post Cordy. I too think the roles are reversed. I think Jai will be the one giving agnipariksha.

However, I am still trying to figure out how the parallels will be drawn. In some ways it's easy to think that AD is Ravan and Bani (Sita) was in Ravan's lair for 5yrs and she'll be the suspect for agnipariksha. But then it's clear that Jai is head over heels in love with Bani and even though she loves him, she suspects him of the wrong doings and he will end up giving agnipariksha to prove his innocence. But then who is the laxman in this role reversed story?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thoroughly enjoyed it & chuckled thru this post.Will comment after collecting my thoughts on the contents.

Thanks.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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To some extent, I see your point in the roles being reversed. But my hopes are that it will be Jai that fights 'Ravan' to get his Bani back into the WM. Jai's purity was questioned by that evil bheekmangi dhobi, but I know that Jai will never question his Bani. Knowing her nature, he knows that she lives now for the sake of the children, and the children only.

One day I hope to read the same Cordy.. JB deserve some pure happiness.. something neither has been able to experience till date...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏 👏 👏

An excellent post and I am going to keep your sarcasm and comments about Bani (Rani) 😔 apart from this, even though you have mentioned the reason for doing so.

When the Ramayana recital began today, I was following it like what happened in KS before leap. But then there was a sudden role reversal, it seemed to me, and I got a bit confused. But then I got the gist prolly.

And as you mentioned, it was more of the transformation of the imagery by Raja Ram into the image of Sita.
And the similarities are too glaring. Like JW bringing up the children in WM, like Sita did at Valmiki's ashram.
Also Raja Ram being unable to recognise his children at the first instance, similarly Bani failing to recognise Atharva as her own son. And so on and so forth.

However, from a different angle, it can be viewed as Raja Ram waiting patiently for his wife, his beloved to return to him after so many years. Maybe there will be celebrations when Bani returns to WM as its malkin eventually.

All these thoughts were going on in my mind, but you have mentioned it well in the post.

As for RS never being together in Ramayana, I agree Maayi has some weird logic. 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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One more thing, I loved the dhobi part 😉 . Pia and dhobi? 🤣

BTW, why is AD's MIL bent on making Bani their ghar ki laxmi? 😭 💔
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i also thoth the same..now they will keep ks up wid ramayan track..!jus mentiond it in the reply of the update.. 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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So if u have not guessed yet, I love to dicuss mythologies...

Cordy, I do agree with ur parallels...but there is only one fault...Ravan...I find him missing... maybe u will day dhobi=ravan...which will work.

Somehow, to me besides just the pre leap scenrio this also indicates what may happen now onwards...

Jai did remain loyal to Bani in this vanvas she did...ofcourse he took care of the kids.

But Bani did live with an unmarried (maybe widowed) AD for 5 years and has become his right hand person as stated by Clone Pia.

This story could even be an indication of the next seperation between JB...(okay keep the stones and belans away...we all know there is going to be another seperation whether we like it or not)😕

Rivs

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Yaar Rivs, we are not done with this separation only 😔 😲 and you are talking about the next separation already.

Why? 😭

Maybe somewhere they are trying to introduce the new character of Ravana, I dont know how.

Dhobi = Ravana aint working.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think if this story was an indication of what is to come...then AD=Ravana and London/AD Mansion = Lanka

Who knows the 4th (i lost count) seperation will have a preggy bani leave...so there is some hope right???

Since the last pregnancy was likened to Krishna birth...I think the next one will be luv kush....lol

Rivs

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