Why marriage is so important? - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

bitter truth is now days when anyone especially girl is not married it is said that there must be fault in girls that is why she is not married yet .i dont understand if girl is not married how can it assume there is fault in girls

Originally posted by: paljay

@ monami

I too didn't want to get married, my mother was with me till she can oppose my father and finally she gave up and asked me to marry, luckily I found a nice person who was studying with me proposed me and I said yes. Sigh of relief for everyone in the family😆

My husband still says that to me though that you never wanted to marry me just because of your father you married me but we are good together, I have only one child and we three are happy.

Originally posted by: atominis

Those customs were invented to organise society (because human race was just evolving and doing more than just being animals) and of course to further clans, groups organised on basis of religion.

There was permission to practise Brahmacharya for lifetime. Some writings by Swami Vivekananda mention it. There are examples of philosophers and scholars like Gargi and Shankaracharya who did not marry.

I think one should marry when one feels inclined to get married herself/himself and not due to pressure from others. And unmarried people should not be looked at with pity or suspicion. That's all.

The BV is the fictional drama serials there are lots of different in reality , In real life is not the same Situation whatever the shown in the BV the BV makers showing every woman's characters in the show get a ideal husband ,so understanding , loveable , caring , everything is so perfect in real life its would be never possible most of the time may be some of lucky peoples got ideal , so understanding life partner ..Real Life is very different from these shows. Maximum Woman have always been suffering especially in indian .In the Indian peoples mindset about on girls , woman never be change .But we are all should to give the importance on our studies , education is most powerful system to fight to others and make our life more strong & successful .I personally believe in married is one of the most beautiful thing in ours life but i give the more importance on own self identity .

As a girl I would want to make my successful career first then i will think others .I am student so my first duties all my Concentration should give only on my study
Concentration on some valuable work is very important in all sphere of life.

I believe that human beings around the globe are good, kind, and generous souls who will go to great extremes to help others in need.We should not do injustice to anyone.How I wish I have some powers so that I could clean this filth that is spread all over this country and stop at least 60% people from committing crimes like taking bribes and abetting black money.If we are able to control these three we are there in a welfare society..But thought like this are futile dreams ..I stay here all dumb ,blind with broken limbs...Or I would change those minds who are selfish and sell the country with its people and stock... Unfortunately in Indian politics, we don't have change makers instead only pattern followers. This is because their only intention in joining politics is to make quick money through corrupt methods unconcerned with the country and countrymen. Again, unfortunately, the young generation is not realizing how much their shyness and disinterest in Indian politics is ruining the country because the corrupt lot continue to reign in power, as a result the poor remain poor and the rich grow richer in collusion with politicians.

Marriage is a great thing to happen but its not more importance than your ownself identity