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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
In my opinion...Paro has matched her life with that of shiv and Parvati...simple...
So whenever something happens in her life it doesn't feel entirely shocking for she has prepped herself that he is rudra avatar of Shivaji...she is not expecting bed of roses...

On the other hand she clearly knows rudra is not bad after all...not because XYZ said so...but because she has first hand experience...he constantly protected her although he was not too fond of her/khubsurat aurat...

Having said that...just like Parvati maa had her days and she is the only one who can cool down angry Shivaji...it will be the case with Parud too...she will tame his rudra avatar for sure...

Until then it's a soap so unis bais chaltahe...
Edited by preetal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I too stopped understanding Paro's reactions and her actions for that matter post Tejawat revelation... The only sane thing she did post the revelation was the media conference confession at the BSD office... After that I am unable to understand what she is doing and why she is doing it...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar



Yes, that is why Rudra is an intriguing character...he's flawed...that makes him human...he doesn't claim to be mahaan and filled with divine sight like Paro claims to be...his motivations and reasons for not wanting any attachments in his life make sense...his struggle to repress the emotions that inevitably rise in his heart for Paro also come across and infact make him all the more human...while in Paro's case, there is no conflict, no struggle, no doubts...qualities that make us all human so that's another reason why it's hard to make sense of her.


one more thing that i noticed was that Paro finds it easy and smooth to move on, jump from a suffering to another, she just had the opportunity to get a mami instead of her mother, dilsher instead of her father, aman as bhaisa, in short she does find a mental support thus there is no struggle for her.
In case of Rudra its the reverse, his loss and suffering has always been greater than Paro's with the fact that he never found a solace in anyone.
Yes thats what makes Rudra so human, and so much relatable, infact i loathe myself to support him after he dragged a woman for the marriage, but stil i cannot help but sympathesize with him, the emotions and his suffering has such an impact that it hits you that does the guy deserve it ? he ofcourse does not only because he is not one of those superior guys who go out and boast about their love or sacrfice.
as a matter of fact, even Rudra told Paro that he is not god and neither she is a godess to turn their saga into a mythology, thats what even the character believes that he is flawed and he will be a disaster to be handled by the ever so white parvati, thus he denied.

Paro is failing to win an ounce of support only because she does not have a justified reaction at any suffering or anything happening to her. I dont know was this show always like this, or suddenly it turned out to be like this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: AreYaar



Such a valid point, this...Paro claims to otherwise know everything...that she loves him, that God has destined for them to be together...has her divine sight also not foretold her if Rudra loves her or not? Has she once asked Rudra this directly?😆...She expects him to just marry her cuz she said so and then expects that he will fall for her anyways?😆...She did say something about winning his trust, winning his love a few epis back, right? I guess Paro has the whole plan worked out on in her head and Rudra just needs to fall in line.

Ok, what we can really depict from her proposal is that " aapna lijiye maareko major saab, bhar dijiye sindoor maare maang mein " .. when major asked her that what the heck was this, her answer was the doll connection, and how he is the only man who has protected her with so much passion and honesty. So i get it now, she does not even say that she loves him, its more of that she wanted to repay the major about his flawless battle for Paro's safety.

but then 2 episodes back Paro asks major that now do u believe in my love as i have conducted a one legged stand ?😕.. This whole thing cringed me to death, i cannot even express how much it irritated me . I was believing in that now Paro is more about worshipping Rudra, and once shge becomes a bit more sane she will fall in love with the flawed major, the bruised major, who is externally as brutal as macbetth but inetrnally as passionate as a romeo, But no, she claimed she has already fallen in love .😲
I was like what the hell ? when did that happen? how can the doll make Paro go crazy for him, its his possesion , she did not even remember the boy in the bus unless Rudra told her that day.
and she also challenged of winning his trust, but how ? by self torturing acts ? thats what major is all about ? winning the trust would mean giving him his space and making him realise that she cares for his feeling , but Paro did the reverse, but still Rudra is projected as wrong ? i dont know how to buy it .

I guess Paro will eventually start to read his eyes...she was kinda reading them just before she discovered the doll and went all cuckoo...remember that scene when he tells her she won't marry Sumer and she will leave? That's when she tells him his eyes are saying something else...would be nice to see more of those kind of scenes than Paro's proclamations of divinity.

I just hope they show a process of Paro ACTUALLY falling in love with Rudra, Rudra who is violent, vicious, broken, hurt, but not superior as god. I am tired of her constant chant of making Rudra aapna and winning him, even without knowing a single thing about him. Rudra atleast knows what Paro is and why he loves her, Paro's reason for loving him is the divine connections, and that has to be erased from her mind soon.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: phulwa


Also the scence where she gets milk for him, I mean what was she thinking? did she not know that Rudra has had enough, could she not understand his pain and anger? did she not see how shattered he was to react in such a way that he ended up marrying her? Most importantly cant she figure how much he is hating her right now? and amodst all this she goes and gets milk for him just b'coz he said SR...c'mon


Word.
i was like, comeon girl, you claim to love him, and you still do not get what made him do this to you ? she still does not even have an ounce of realisation that how hurt he was, he felt dejected, and how hampering his vows were. She does not even sense out that the man she claimed to love has blamed her for his destruction. Is she too innocent to be complete emotionless ? I do not think so.
It seemed like her mission was accomplished, she got him, no matter what he wants or how he did it.

Blame the CVs, that being women we all are supporting the drunkard man in this fiasco, its regressive, but how to not judge the paro we have seen.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: preetal

In my opinion...Paro has matched her life with that of shiv and Parvati...simple...

So whenever something happens in her life it doesn't feel entirely shocking for she has prepped herself that he is rudra avatar of Shivaji...she is not expecting bed of roses...

On the other hand she clearly knows rudra is not bad after all...not because XYZ said so...but because she has first hand experience...he constantly protected her although he was not too fond of her/khubsurat aurat...

Having said that...just like Parvati maa had her days and she is the only one who can cool down angry Shivaji...it will be the case with Parud too...she will tame his rudra avatar for sure...

Until then it's a soap so unis bais chaltahe...



Is that why she's trying to make him drink milk? Like people bathe Shivji's idol with milk?😆...is there supposed to be some kind of symbolism in all this that I'm missing maybe? She's trying to cool down Rudra with milk?😆 But then he's making HER drink the milk instead so is she drinking the milk FOR him? Will that still serve to calm down his Rudra avatar?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

I too stopped understanding Paro's reactions and her actions for that matter post Tejawat revelation... The only sane thing she did post the revelation was the media conference confession at the BSD office... After that I am unable to understand what she is doing and why she is doing it...



I agree...I really liked how she indirectly was apologizing to Rudra during that conference too but yes I feel like first that Pandit in the mandir who narrated the Shiv-Parvati story to her and then that doll revelation totally did a number on Paro...since then it's like she's a totally different person.

I hope in the coming days we see more of the Paro who held her ground with more dignity than giving bhaashans on divinity and destiny.
Edited by AreYaar - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38
For the love of God, i hav never seen such confusion and debate over a fictional character..😆 Bad job CVs,,

AreYaar baisa,, wholeheartedly agree,,, i hav nothing more to add,,

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