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Episode 4-10-14

Fights, arguments, and conflicts do happen in a relationship. These are spices of a normal relationship. They are inevitable.


Saachi whether it was her fault or not, and no matter the reason for the fight, she need to get her marriage back on track. After all, prolonged distance means decreasing love. But, Saachi may still be so upset that she don't know how she will ever get back on track.


The problem here is that Dhruv do not know how to handle such things when they occur. He is not able to hold back? Hence, he end up having a huge fight or worse. Dhruv don't let this happen again. Right after a fight, he went to Saachi to make up to her. He understand its root cause. He weigh things objectively.


Dhruv forgets his ego and thinks about his end-to-end relationship. Initiated the conversation especially since he is at fault. This way, he made Saachi feel that he loves her and he values their relationship. Gives her a warm hug to make up to her after a fight. This is such a sweet thing to do.


Dhruv took action of listening which is powerful action steps that helps in resolving any kind of marriage problem, including making up. He listen, listen, listen quietly and respectfully. He state his desire just to get back to a good relationship again. Apologized to Saachi sincerely.


Regardless of who is right or wrong, don't let fighting end your relationship. Dhurv pray hard for you to have Divine intervention. Prayers will help you understand things between you and your wife.


Dilz is marriage counselor to Dhruv and Saachi. Change yourself. It's hard to look inward. It's hard to get past the ego and see the raw ugly truth about yourself. You have to be patient with yourself. Once you see it you can do something about it.⭐️


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Verrryyy well said totally agreed 😊
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Thank you for your loving words.


Rgds,

Kalpana

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Hey Kalpana well written. After the fight got out of hand it brought DV back to his senses and he started evaluating where they have arrived as a couple and didnt find them in a comfortable space. Glad he started making amends for whatever went amiss and what better way to do that is chat with your well wishers about the situation?

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