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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

Yeah this is not the way to go 😔

I was ready for this hate marriage .. was ready for those 7 deadly pheras and that 8th extra phera too ... was ready for the opposite vachans as well knowing that in future Rudra will do the opposite of those vachans only 😆

But what I was not ready to see is the way Paro will b treated like a doormat ... Drink milk or else I drink this daaru ... let me take u in my arms all the way to bed and throw u like a peace of flesh because I m your husband now ... and Paro quietly succumbing to all his tortures and pain 👎🏼

I can't believe after all this Maithili and co coolly does grihapravesh and Paro blushes like a newly wedded bride while entering 😕😕

This is not what I wanted to see ...

I wanted a strong Paro in action and not a doormat ...

Hate marriages or forced marriages r fun only when both husband and wife r shown on equal grounds where none takes nonsense from each other

I still hope next morning Rudra comes to his senses and behaves like a human while Paro too gets her voice back so that I can get my writing strength back too 😊

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@Aahaana

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I am laughing because I kind of had warned you yesterday itself what to expect today because of past experience but you guys dismissed it *hmph*

See the family members could have stopped Rudra but nobody had the guts, they were silent witness to this shaadi drama🥱. Paro could have slapped him but she didn't because she was quilt trapped. Her stubbornness and stupid one leg up stunt in the rain cost him, his job and medals and we all know if anyone threatens his two weak spots, he will go INSANE! Thats why this mockery of marriage because he doesn't believe in the marriage or love concept because of his parents broken marriage.

Nobody deserve such mockery and treatment yet Paro was patience and went along tho she was silently broken. It doesn't matter whether she loves him or not, but she doesn't have to stay as doormat to get his approval by suppressing her own emotions to please him because of the guilt🥱. I guess love-hate forced marriage was needed to take the story ahead😛.

I can see the contrast between Paros both shaadi. Her first marriage happened with all of the rituals and both groom and bride was in full sense yet it was a fake marriage. Here, groom is drunk and not in his sense, bride is aware yet chose not to protest against it and its a mockery. However, this mockery will eventually end up being a real which will give her happiness but only after tackling the obstacles and thorn coming her way.

Even if Rudra gets back to his sense, he is going to be a meanie🥱 otherwise there is no story.

Edited by Aahaana - 11 years ago

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Aahaana
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shut up 😡🥱

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Sunara

@princessunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

Copy pasting my own postwa baisa!! 😆

Ok here is the thing I didn't hate it.

1 Rudra married her forcefully - WHILE he was drunk - and while he was hurting and Paro saw this, and knew this and understood this

2 And yet when it all ended she fell unconscious cz the strain was too high.

3 She was revived with water. She still sat shocked.. broken.. the family tried comforting her and then left.. she was getting depressed.

4 The family came back - and asked her to do something, apologized for what one of their own did and made her feel wanted and made her feel like she belonged. And Paro fulfilled their desires and smiled in gratefulness for what THEY did for her by not shunning her.

5 Rudra came before 2 mins passed and carried her off - she was a bit scared and yet as soon as that not dropping her line came she again trusted him to not hurt her.

6 then when he got to drinking and harming herself she went off to sort that immediate issue.

These r facts as they happened. My question is,
1. Paro knew he was not in his senses - was she supposed to be mad at him for doing what he did to her? Be sad at him losing the job and drop at his feet and feel sorry? OR should she deal with the immediate situation and stop this man from drinking further?

She did that last one!

Wait till Rudra is in his senses. And then judge Paro. She will feel guilty for costing him his job and try to do what she can to fix it, which I am supposing he will get the very next day after she clears the air like last time - cz this false promises allegation is null and void as they r married now and the given promise is fulfilled.

She was married by force by a man who was not in his senses as he was drunk. And when he came back to her she was suitably apprehensive. But when he went back to caring for her by saying he will not drop her she dropped her defences.

Basically - what I am saying is it was less than 10 mins of the forced marriage we saw today!

She has to either feel guilty and sad or feel furious or BOTH!
But is there any use doing any of them with a man who was drunk off his rocker? And a man she cares and loves?

So let this man to regain his sense and see how she deals with a sane man and not a drunken one!

So pls don't jump the gun. Being furious and pushing him off or weeping at his feet wouldn't solve anything. She did what she had to do.

A person does what they have to do, when they cannot do what they want to do.. And life took away Paro's choices the day she was born in to that world..

this is how I saw it.. :)

Edited by princessunara - 11 years ago

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Zetter

@Zetter

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Posted: 11 years ago

Awww there you are...I thought u wouldn't make a post today coz to tell u the truth, I didn't know how to feel after watching the episode...I was numb, angry, disappointed and heartbroken for Paro and Rudra...Yet I was stalking this forum hoping that your optimism would help boost my mood but it didn't 😔 😭

I understand what you're saying, I wanted to scream at Danveer and Maithili but mostly at Samrat for not stopping Rudra but alas I know that something like this was coming...I want my strong Paro and I know she is there can't wait for Dilsher to come back.

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Rahul

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hey, mujhe tumhaare posts humeshaa acchhe lagte hai... Kyonki tum PaRud ki kahaani humeshaa shiv-Parvati se jodti ho... Toh mujhe bataao... Agar Shiv ghusse me honge toh Parvati kyaa karegi???
-Rahul

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

@Sunara : I get what u mean and I dont really expect her to hate Rudra either ...she knew he was drunk , he was hurt and so she was simply quiet and trying to stop her from drinking ... till this point its all fine

but two things dint go down well with me ... One is grihapravesh ritual which makes no sense as the wedding itself is done in a drunk state .. so they can wait till next morning for Rudra to come to his senses before doing grihapravesh ritual .. Paro toh as it is stays in that house only .. so why the hurry for grihapravesh ... And second is precap where she drinks milk in fear or else Rudra will start drinking which looked more like master telling his servant to do this that .. u know almost like deliberate torture .. I expected Paro to simply leave Rudra alone there and go to sleep ... he is himself matured enough to know how much to drink and then pass out ... the more she gives in to his demands , more he will sit on head

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Zetter
Awww there you are...I thought u wouldn't make a post today coz to tell u the truth, I didn't know how to feel after watching the episode...I was numb, angry, disappointed and heartbroken for Paro and Rudra...Yet I was stalking this forum hoping that your optimism would help boost my mood but it didn't 😔 😭

I understand what you're saying, I wanted to scream at Danveer and Maithili but mostly at Samrat for not stopping Rudra but alas I know that something like this was coming...I want my strong Paro and I know she is there can't wait for Dilsher to come back.

Zetter I was so not in mood to make a post today because I had on idea what to write on this 😕😆 ... they hv taken things a bit too far and I hope sanity returns back once Rudra is back to his senses 😭😭

I m feeling sad for both but its just that the women in me cannot take that precap at all

Wish Dilsher was here .. things would not hv gone this far then 😭

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -R-R-R-
Hey, mujhe tumhaare posts humeshaa acchhe lagte hai... Kyonki tum PaRud ki kahaani humeshaa shiv-Parvati se jodti ho... Toh mujhe bataao... Agar Shiv ghusse me honge toh Parvati kyaa karegi???
-Rahul

Shiv even in anger never crossed limits to the level of treating parvati like a doormat .. he will himself leave kailash and go but will not hurt parvati in this manner and even parvati never left her dignity while dealing with Shivji's mood swings ... yes she did lots of efforts to win him as her husband but post marriage there was always that respect and a sense of equality from both ends ...

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Sunara

@princessunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: jyoti06
@Sunara : I get what u mean and I dont really expect her to hate Rudra either ...she knew he was drunk , he was hurt and so she was simply quiet and trying to stop her from drinking ... till this point its all fine

but two things dint go down well with me ... One is grihapravesh ritual which makes no sense as the wedding itself is done in a drunk state .. so they can wait till next morning for Rudra to come to his senses before doing grihapravesh ritual .. Paro toh as it is stays in that house only .. so why the hurry for grihapravesh ... And second is precap where she drinks milk in fear or else Rudra will start drinking which looked more like master telling his servant to do this that .. u know almost like deliberate torture .. I expected Paro to simply leave Rudra alone there and go to sleep ... he is himself matured enough to know how much to drink and then pass out ... the more she gives in to his demands , more he will sit on head

Jyoti - thank god! I am happy that unlike some u don't expect her to be really angry and hate him over it!

Grih pravesh - as i said was i think the family's way of trying to make amends for not doing what they should have done! they elders, men (the ones who have power in that society) stood silent and allowed her to be dragged around.
So it was for them - and she was breaking apart and she felt anchorless when they left. She was devastated to be left alone, n was relieved when they came back to her and accepted her, told her she had a place in this world she belonged to. Now that resonates very well to that initial Paro who was only looking for someone to belong to. Here she did what she did for them as gratitude for accepting her and not throwing her in to the sea..

at least that is how i read it..

precap
this show has taught me that to wait till the scene happens cz often the precaps r kinds misleading or skewed if they r negative precaps!
that one again she was soothing a drunk man, she feels affectionate for and for whose drunken state she feels responsible for.. so will have to see how she reacts to the sane Rudra..

I do get mad when I also felt that Paro was bending too far.. but today I am just reserving my judgement... :)

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