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Ok here is the thing I didn't hate it. but just have a question to ask..
1 Rudra married her forcefully - WHILE he was drunk - and while he was hurting and Paro saw this, and knew this and understood this
2 And yet when it all ended she fell unconscious cz the strain was too high.
3 She was revived with water. She still sat shocked.. broken.. the family tried comforting her and then left.. she was getting depressed.
4 The family came back - and asked her to do something, apologized for what one of their own did and made her feel wanted and made her feel like she belonged. And Paro fulfilled their desires and smiled in gratefulness for what THEY did for her by not shunning her.
5 Rudra came before 2 mins passed and carried her off - she was a bit scared and yet as soon as that not dropping her line came she again trusted him to not hurt her.
6 then when he got to drinking and harming herself she went off to sort that immediate issue.
These r facts as they happened. My question is,
1. Paro knew he was not in his senses - was she supposed to be mad at him for doing what he did to her? Be sad at him losing the job and drop at his feet and feel sorry? OR should she deal with the immediate situation and stop this man from drinking further?
She did that last one!
Wait till Rudra is in his senses. And then judge Paro. She will feel guilty for costing him his job and try to do what she can to fix it, which I am supposing he will get the very next day after she clears the air like last time - cz this fails promises allegation is null and void as they r married now and the given promise is fulfilled.
You know once upon a time - when Khushi was subjected to this, she went through it alone, no1 knew what had been done to her and rained their curses on her and slapped and disowned her - she broke to pieces for a while before pulling herself together.
Here as she was breaking apart that family came with band aids and tried to hold her together collectively, giving her love and caring for her - so she stopped breaking apart. She was distracted momentarily.
She was married by force by a man who was not in his senses as he was drunk. And when he came back to her she was suitably apprehensive. But when he went back to caring for her by saying he will not drop her she dropped her defences.
Basically - what I am saying is it was less than 10 mins of the forced marriage we saw today!
She has to either feel guilty and sad or feel furious or BOTH!
But is there any use doing any of them with a man who was drunk off his rocker? And a man she cares and loves?
So let this man to regain his sense and see how she deals with a sane man and not a drunken one!
So pls don't jump the gun. Being furious and pushing him off or weeping at his feet wouldn't solve anything. She did what she had to do.
A person does what they have to do, when they cannot do what they want to do.. And life took away Paro's choices the day she was born in to that world..
1 Rudra married her forcefully - WHILE he was drunk - and while he was hurting and Paro saw this, and knew this and understood this
2 And yet when it all ended she fell unconscious cz the strain was too high.
3 She was revived with water. She still sat shocked.. broken.. the family tried comforting her and then left.. she was getting depressed.
4 The family came back - and asked her to do something, apologized for what one of their own did and made her feel wanted and made her feel like she belonged. And Paro fulfilled their desires and smiled in gratefulness for what THEY did for her by not shunning her.
5 Rudra came before 2 mins passed and carried her off - she was a bit scared and yet as soon as that not dropping her line came she again trusted him to not hurt her.
6 then when he got to drinking and harming herself she went off to sort that immediate issue.
These r facts as they happened. My question is,
1. Paro knew he was not in his senses - was she supposed to be mad at him for doing what he did to her? Be sad at him losing the job and drop at his feet and feel sorry? OR should she deal with the immediate situation and stop this man from drinking further?
She did that last one!
Wait till Rudra is in his senses. And then judge Paro. She will feel guilty for costing him his job and try to do what she can to fix it, which I am supposing he will get the very next day after she clears the air like last time - cz this fails promises allegation is null and void as they r married now and the given promise is fulfilled.
You know once upon a time - when Khushi was subjected to this, she went through it alone, no1 knew what had been done to her and rained their curses on her and slapped and disowned her - she broke to pieces for a while before pulling herself together.
Here as she was breaking apart that family came with band aids and tried to hold her together collectively, giving her love and caring for her - so she stopped breaking apart. She was distracted momentarily.
She was married by force by a man who was not in his senses as he was drunk. And when he came back to her she was suitably apprehensive. But when he went back to caring for her by saying he will not drop her she dropped her defences.
Basically - what I am saying is it was less than 10 mins of the forced marriage we saw today!
She has to either feel guilty and sad or feel furious or BOTH!
But is there any use doing any of them with a man who was drunk off his rocker? And a man she cares and loves?
So let this man to regain his sense and see how she deals with a sane man and not a drunken one!
So pls don't jump the gun. Being furious and pushing him off or weeping at his feet wouldn't solve anything. She did what she had to do.
A person does what they have to do, when they cannot do what they want to do.. And life took away Paro's choices the day she was born in to that world..
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