Paro's Punya, Rudra's Paap.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

you precised out it so well.

Thus I and we all have every reason to justify Rudra for the hate marriage. The guy's patience has been tried and tested till it came to question his dignity and self respect. Why demean his mental agony to this level that he is forced to comitt something which he never thought to ?

Paro told Maithili that Rudra asked her to stand there, while Rudra clearly told her to do whatever she wants but not show her face to him. Moreover, Rudra did tell her about how he is not Lord and she is not a godess either and so stop this melodrama. One like maithili or Danveer who has not heard or seen the conversation between PaRud will blindly blame Rudra for Paro's condition, eventhough Paro herself chose it, HER penance, HER faith, HER seeking forgiveness, currently she is so much about herself that she is unable to see the other side of the coin.

In the process of winning his love she is spoiling his image, his dignity which will end up in earning her winning his hatred. Justified, any sane person at Rudra's place blamed for abusing a woman ( who he loves but ignores ), recieving suspension from army force, recieving humilation, must go nuts. And no I am sorry, i cannot support Paro's faith here, Rudra's faith was his vardi, and she made him lose it, why should women have all the justifications and clean chit always ? Men equally deserve that importance and self respect, and this time Rudra is not wrong even if he thinks Paro gave those pictures. I only feel bad because suddenly his dad got well, and he again softened towards Paro only for recieving another blow, this man and his sufferings just do not tend to end.

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

@bold:- only and extremely faulty part of this whole track and Paro's character development. She is all about Rudra, but then she does not think about him in anyway, about his thought process or conflicts and just does whatever she feels is right . In that process she actually destructed his dignity and yeah so true mostly ppl will disagree with us, but to each their own. We obviously are human and thus more related to Rudra's characterization.

Originally posted by: eveline

In my eyes, he is totally justified in taking that extreme step!! He has been shoved off the edge by her actions.

I have time and again pointed out (and have been in the eye of the storm for it too 😆) that Paro here is only thinking about herself. She has kind of forgotten that there are two people in a love story. And the feelings, emotions and opinions of both matter in order to have one. She is blind to his feelings, deaf to his arguments and warnings. She is relentlessly and single mindedly chasing the man she has set her sights on, regardless of his wishes and desires. Rudra is being cornered slowly, gradually, and eventually he will break under this ever increasing pressure caused by Paro's actions and words. In her quest of winning his love, she is only forcing him to hate her more.

About Rudra, I am now partial to him as his is the character that I can understand and empathize with. He makes sense, he speaks to me. Paro has me groping and grasping anyways and something tells me its only gonna get worse.

Originally posted by: eveline

Very very true...at the cost of being called negative and critical and partial I have been constantly pointing out Paro's disconnect. There was a time when she was one of us, now she is turning into this religious zealot, a fanatic, so white, she is blinding my empathy and understanding. Her character graph is totally erratic, her characterization extreme and random in places.

Originally posted by: ipkrr

Well what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

All this while Rudra - did the same to Paro - forcing her to his whims and fancies - wanting her to confess - without thought for what she must be going through after a horrific baraath experience. Dragging her around, locking her up, intimidation, etc.

It's now come full circle.

Both deserve each other!! One is not better than the other.

Originally posted by: Vikasg

I totally agree with you on this. If I were in Rudra's place and my 'vardee' and respect would be affected because of Paro I would never be able to forgive her..no matter how much I am attracted to her.

Originally posted by: eveline

In my eyes, he is totally justified in taking that extreme step!! He has been shoved off the edge by her actions.

I have time and again pointed out (and have been in the eye of the storm for it too 😆) that Paro here is only thinking about herself. She has kind of forgotten that there are two people in a love story. And the feelings, emotions and opinions of both matter in order to have one. She is blind to his feelings, deaf to his arguments and warnings. She is relentlessly and single mindedly chasing the man she has set her sights on, regardless of his wishes and desires. Rudra is being cornered slowly, gradually, and eventually he will break under this ever increasing pressure caused by Paro's actions and words. In her quest of winning his love, she is only forcing him to hate her more.

About Rudra, I am now partial to him as his is the character that I can understand and empathize with. He makes sense, he speaks to me. Paro has me groping and grasping anyways and something tells me its only gonna get worse.

Originally posted by: zenjoe

Awesome thread. 👏

@ Bold: This is because she thinks herself to be a rescuer for Rudra Banna. Love shuv gaya out of the window 😆 She is trying to be people's therapist when infact it is she who needs one right now!

Honestly, her dialogue of 'main bapu-sa ko theek karoongi' made me think whether this girl has some magic wand in her kitty. I doubt she loves Rudra; her behavior is in tandem with 'co-dependency' where the co dependent feels or is rather sure that the other person needs them.