My favorite character on the show is Paakhiđ. I can sometimes relate to how she feels since for years my mom wasn't that affectionate w/me. If I cried she wouldn't be the one consoling me a lot of time. Instead, my grandma would be the one doing this quite a bit of the time. Plus, I was born while my mom was attending college & she didn't have much time to take care of me so there were times when she would leave me w/my grandma. So my grandma was kinda like how Kamla is to Paakhi. My grandma's house is more simple looking & a lot more smaller than my house but I still really like going to her house & I will admit there have times like Paakhi where I feel at least a bit suffocated in my house đ.
Also, there was a time when I don't feel like I fully understood what being in love really meant. It happened like 3 years ago. I was saying that I am in love w/a guy when I don't think I was ever actually in love w/him really at all. In fact the way I was talking when it came to him is not too off of how Paakhi talks about Raghav on the show but her romantic, non-love feeling for Raghav is more stronger than what I had for this guy. Like I said, I know how Paakhi feels sometimes when it comes to some things đ & if I see my dear Paakhi baby turn into a vampy girl, I might reconsider watching this show & I might end up quitting on it. Seeing her become like this would be painful for me to watchđ.
I can't really relate to Kalpi when it comes to any part of my life much because I was pretty much never like how she is on the show. I am a mix of of practical & impractical by the way. Plus, like Paakhi, I don't have too good of a relationship w/my mom but it's not as bad as Paakhi & Neetu's relationship but I am more close w/my grandma. I share more of my life with her than my mom.
Anyways, I can relate to Paakhi more, especially when I look at my past.
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