Paro aka Punching bag - RR is becoming tiresome - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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sorry yaara
Gopi vau will disagree, she's been a punching bag longer!!

ofc, im kidding. sadly, this is the MO of all TV shows. make the heroine cry a river and victimize her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkrr

She is not strong - she is nave and innocent and stupid. She does not even know why he is pushing her away, does not know the full picture, and yet she thinks by circling around him - he will relent and forgive and then what?
What is she seeking forgiveness for? What does she want? She is moving too fast - without trying to make sense of her life first - she is trying to help him? Where is her life headed? She has become a clinging vine where Rudra is concerned and it is uncomfortable to watch - the CVs have not given us a motivation for this sudden change in emotions. Just the fact that Rudra protected her is not reason enough - he emotionally, physically and sexually manipulated her and kept her safe for his own ends - not for her specifically - does she get that? Watching her turn and run into his arms - I was taken aback - too much too soon.
Maybe she is really the simplistic village belle and I was giving her too much credit. This seems to be headed for a situation where Rudra insults her more and more - what can I say - all I wanted was to watch a equally intense love story - not a punching bag wala one.

I COMPLETELY AGREE ..I mean so she will face all the insults ,accusation given by rudra again again but she will try to pacify him and make him understand the importance of life that is the reason she was even born in the first place .She will always be caring towards rudra no matter what he does humiliates her or insults her .And then what next what will she do what will happen to her?????Now IF that is called pillar of strength and caring nature .Well then I would prefer a different dictionary .I mean not she once wanted to go and meet her villagers or her mamisa .She did not even think about them.ALL her care concern and trust shifted to rudra all in one night who is her only focus.I am really not into this punching bag wala one or the sudden shift of emotions
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You know what, every character on this show is everyone's punching bag. Mohini is the puppeteer... for now. 😛
Edited by squivi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Maithli is the punching bag in this show not paro...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: serialjunkie

sorry yaara

Gopi vau will disagree, she's been a punching bag longer!!

ofc, im kidding. sadly, this is the MO of all TV shows. make the heroine cry a river and victimize her.


Yup cause that's Indian tv. It's all anyone will accept. When someone tries something different it doesn't work so they go back to the tried and true. Having said that I like Paro. The girl has guts and she is staying true to herself. At the end of the day if she can look herself in the mirror and say she tried and did the best she could then thats all that really matters. She will be able to live with herself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey girls, cut some slack for Paro's behaviour. Imagine yourself in her shoes before drawing conclusions. What would be her fate if Rudra has not intervened, she would either be dead or ended in a brothel on the other side of border, so Paro feels that she is alive and safe just because of HIM and she owes it to him for saving her time and again. She is feeling quilty for not trusting him and want to make everything right from her side and hence this behaviour. It doesn't mean she is spineless and throwing herself at Rudra's mercy, it's her way of pacifying him, taking care of him when he is emotionally down.
It's only one day since the incident happened how can you say she has given up and has resigned herself to live at the mercy of Rudra. Just give the cv's time to tell the story their way instead of jumping the guns.

Edited by Malini1 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Not agree because after watching last night episode when she prayed to lord shiva and she received some positive signs from god and panditji that this mu will be cleared and I am sure it will be..so it is not like first mu which took 3 months to get clear when paro misunderstood rudra so have patience.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malini1

Hey girls, cut some slack for Paro's behaviour. Imagine yourself in her shoes before drawing conclusions. What would be her fate if Rudra has not intervened, she would either be dead or ended in a brothel on the other side of border, so Paro feels that she is alive and safe just because of HIM and she owes it to him for saving her time and again. She is feeling quilty for not trusting him and want to make everything right from her side and hence this behaviour. It doesn't mean she is spineless and throwing herself at Rudra's mercy, it's her way of pacifying him, taking care of him when he is emotionally down.
It's only one day since the incident happened how can you say she has given up and has resigned herself to live at the mercy of Rudra. Just give the cv's time to tell the story their way instead of jumping the guns.

👏 Very well said. I did not appreciate all that Rudra did to her in captivity and one day want him to be sorry for that. But right now, what Paro knows is that her honor and life are intact because of him. Everything else takes a backseat. She wants to make it alright, but not by falling over him or at his feat, but by being around him & proving her innocence. And she just got her Bholenath's blessing to do just that.
Edited by SanayaIsBest - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: ipkrr

Since the serial started Paro has been the punching bag of one or most of the cast. When do you think we will get a break? I am getting tired of seeing her perpetually frowning face. I am a huge Sanaya fan and

its starting to get to me.
Whatever the CVs do to lighten up the situation will be good. Don't want to see a begging, sad Paro anymore. Anyone would have done the same thing she did. She said sorry - let her move on. Pundit's advice to her to follow Rudra around for forgiveness - brought to my minds eye an innocent puppy following his master around and getting kicked each time for its efforts. Not what I want to watch.
Rudra - grow up. Paro get a life and move on.
I thought we were getting a stronger Paro - not a regressive one.


With due respect this is an Indian show and the trp aunties will have a heart attack and that too of the never to be resuscitated kind if God forbid our dear heart Paro assumes a Christina yang personae and give a sound piece of her mind to the high and mighty Rudra. So yes she has to stay a punching bag like gopi and Sandhya and innumerable others.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'd rather not jump the gun ryt now. Paro is just with Rudra coz he needs her and she is determined to make him see the truth. Once this track is over I'd like to see how she behaves. If it comes to her self respect, I don't think she is one to sit back and take the nonsense. Also Rudra should have a proper redemption track after the truth comes out.

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