"Everything happens for a reason."
Your response to the above?
There is definitely a reason for things to happen in life. May not make sense to us when it happens but sure does in hindsight. Even something good comes out of a bad experience.
Why is it easier to scapegoat others? look for somebody to blame instead of accepting a mistake was made?
It is hard to accept our mistakes and take responsibility for our own actions. Not everyone is that mature in doing so. If one is true to themselves they know deep down inside if they had done something wrong. But it is so easy to blame it on someone else.
What do you do when no party was really at "fault"?
Don't beat one self up to find reasons and just move forward.
We grow the most thru the darkest, and most painful times.Why do we all value happiness, and peace of mind more when hardship is where we learn the most important lessons of life?
No one likes bad and painful times. Here is what I live by.
"What does not break you makes u even stronger"
How do you let go of resentment, and be freed of mental rut if somebody hurts you or breaks your trust? Does putting yourself in others' shoes help? Does that make you the guilty one? OR it's okay to accept responsibility for things gone wrong?
Putting your self in another person's shoes always gives one different perspective and than you are bit easy on that person to let go of the anger and resentment. By doing so does not make any one guilty.
I think it is a bigger and wiser thing to do to look at things out of the box and at a bigger picture. Yes it is more than ok to accept responsibility if one took part when things went wrong. That is how we learn from our own mistakes.
Is it okay to love/like the person who has hurt you anyways? How shall one go about making things all right? Ask for forgiveness or say sorry for hurting the person? even when the person has said a lot of mean and uncalled things to you? ESP. when the other person feels no regret or seems to not care or doesn't feel the kinship/friendship you felt/feel for the person?
If the person who hurts-betrays me and does not realize for their mistake, apologize and has no remorse for their actions than it is time to just move on. They probably do not deserve 2nd chance at hurting me again. But if they are sincere at accepting their mistake and apologize with remorse than everyone deserves a 2nd chance. but after than it is over and done with for me.
One rather be on my good list than be on my S*** list 😛
Please do not steer away from the topic without replying; I know it is not going to start a fight between Adam and Eve, but give it a try for my sake.☺️
Very very thought provoking Qs.
Persy
Kumkum Bhagya
