Anshuman's side of the story.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After watching yesterday's episode i am confused whether to blame Anshuman or not for his behaviour to Pakhi. Sometimes i feel like he is ruthless and sometimes i feel he is not.
Tanya is a outsider for us because we view the story in Pakhi's perspective. But what is tanya to Anshuman? His girl friend for past four or five years. Reason for marrying her may be business related and may be he never loved her, But he never had a complaint about her till Pakhi came to the scene. He was not planning to marry Tanya so that she will look after his son. An insignificant son, he dont mind if he stays in hostel or Rathore mansion. Life was less complicated for him then. Like he said on yesterday's episode he gave Tanya the word to marry her, which is a commitment.

With Pakhi's arrival things has changed. Pakhi brought so much light to his life through her positive attitude. He didnt even know when he started changing. Suddenly his insignificant son became so significant. Life became more complicated. Infact things have changed uncontrollably leaving behind a confused Anshuman. On one side he helplessly loves Pakhi's presence in his life and knows that only Pakhi would complete his family, On other side he knows that he can never be with her.

And why Pakhi stayed so long in Rathore mansion when so many people were trying so much to send her away? Why none of the plans worked? Off course Pakhi's positive attitude was the the strongest reason. But if there is another reason for it, its Anshuman's inability to hurt Pakhi. If he could hurt her, it wouldnt have taken him one day to send her out. He planned against her and ended up supporting her indirectly in the end, unknowingly everytime. That is Anshuman, he is unable to hurt not only Pakhi but anybody. So what if her girlfriend cries in front of him saying that he cheated on her posing as the "bechari" . He has no option but to feel guilty. And what followed was a normal reaction for him.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree with you...anshuman cheated pakhi...she knows it and she loves him and may have even forgiven him...anshuman feels remorse abd guilt ... all said and done what he said made sense...the whole situation is getting tangled further...he knows pakhi loves anshuman...he is aware of his closeness to her...he told her that going on like this only will end up hurting both of them...which in astrange sense is true...earlier all the sindoor and pyaar was just a dong for him...pakhi meant everything while anshuman was plotting and scheming...now things have changed...while pakhi knows it will not last forever and she is doing allthese to build her memories, anshuman can see what all means to pakhi and he feels for her and does not want to do it anymore becoz it is twisting their souls...

The first timepakhi asked anshuman to putthe sindoor he did it happily becoz it meant nothing for him...now it has more meaning and value
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Definitely cant blame Anshuman completely..

He has three persons in his life who is manipulating him like a puppet..

He is a victim of circumstances and is not able to free himself ..a commitment to Tanya whereas deep down in his heart he knows who is the one who can complete his family..pakhi.

Manipulation..emotional blackmailing got the upperhand and its pakhi who gets the blow of his frustration..yes the word is frustration..he was in such a dilemma..he accepts pakhi it will be destruction of his whole identity..break his promise to Tanya..this we cant deny Anshuman may have been a manipulator in beginning but somehow he is honest..

Like he said their marriage was in childhood but he promised Tanya to marry her in his whole sense..so this was like an escape route for him to finally get out of this situation.. he may have been close to Pakhi even started having feeling for her but till date never confessed it in full sense ..so instead of both going through pain with their relationship he chose to be with Tanya even if its out of a Majboori..helplessness..

Its a battle of his heart and mind and its Anshuman himself who should triumph out of this situation by himself..pakhi is just here to do what she promised save Anshuman.Ayaan.once this done as she promised will leave Anshuman house..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja



The first time pakhi asked anshuman to put the sindoor he did it happily becoz it meant nothing for him...now it has more meaning and value




Yes! Now has more meaning for Anshuman. I liked how he was going to apply it and stopped midway remember his promise to Tanya. I was like he wanted to do it but the promise is keeping him away from it. Hope he wont stay like this for long.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakhi992

After watching yesterday's episode i am confused whether to blame Anshuman or not for his behaviour to Pakhi. Sometimes i feel like he is ruthless and sometimes i feel he is not.

Tanya is a outsider for us because we view the story in Pakhi's perspective. But what is tanya to Anshuman? His girl friend for past four or five years. Reason for marrying her may be business related and may be he never loved her, But he never had a complaint about her till Pakhi came to the scene. He was not planning to marry Tanya so that she will look after his son. An insignificant son, he dont mind if he stays in hostel or Rathore mansion. Life was less complicated for him then. Like he said on yesterday's episode he gave Tanya the word to marry her, which is a commitment. at this para i completely agree to wat u said bcause y'day his proper perspective has been shown which wasn't till now

With Pakhi's arrival things has changed. Pakhi brought so much light to his life through her positive attitude. He didnt even know when he started changing. Suddenly his insignificant son became so significant. Life became more complicated. Infact things have changed uncontrollably leaving behind a confused Anshuman. On one side he helplessly loves Pakhi's presence in his life and knows that only Pakhi would complete his family, On other side he knows that he can never be with her
.but the key point is he was the person who bring back pakhi n no one else neither pakhi called him to get her back or something like that..,ok one side i say he is image concious n etc...here pakhi can't be blamed he invited these complication by his own fear of loosing image,wat if he dint go to bring pakhi back ,media would hv talked for few days n forget later there wasn't any need to give imptce to such talks,evn after bringing pakhi back he had his own strategy to send her back home ,was that right???? to play with a girl's image more than image an innocent heart that waited for 18 yrs??

a very thgt full post liked it😃😃


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: parichayan


.but the key point is he was the person who bring back pakhi n no one else neither pakhi called him to get her back or something like that..,ok one side i say he is image concious n etc...here pakhi can't be blamed he invited these complication by his own fear of loosing image,wat if he dint go to bring pakhi back ,media would hv talked for few days n forget later there wasn't any need to give imptce to such talks,evn after bringing pakhi back he had his own strategy to send her back home ,was that right???? to play with a girl's image more than image an innocent heart that waited for 18 yrs??


Agree with you here. He did injustice to Pakhi. And he carries the guilt for it. But will it be a reason good enough to leave Tanya and be with Pakhi?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakhi992


Agree with you here. He did injustice to Pakhi. And he carries the guilt for it. But will it be a reason good enough to leave Tanya and be with Pakhi?

to answer this i say,if tanya wasn't a bad human being then i would be in her side in this whole scenario,ok lets jus assume that she too a nice girl by heart just as pakhi,then it would been injustice to her if leaving her alone after 5 years of dating n commitment,but bcoz this isn't the reality she is here jus b'coz she wanna marry some richie rich n nthing else,she doesn't care wether anshuman loves her or not she jus wanna win him as a winning trophy to be kept n lustering all the time as a immortal thing n this is the point for which pakhi is staying here as she said to mask out tanya,so clearly it wouldn't be wrong if leaving tanya he marries pakhi,its depend upon wat matters to whom,that's it😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: parichayan

to answer this i say,if tanya wasn't a bad human being then i would be in her side in this whole scenario,ok lets jus assume that she too a nice girl by heart just as pakhi,then it would been injustice to her if leaving her alone after 5 years of dating n commitment,but bcoz this isn't the reality she is here jus b'coz she wanna marry some richie rich n nthing else,she doesn't care wether anshuman loves her or not she jus wanna win him as a winning trophy to be kept n lustering all the time as a immortal thing n this is the point for which pakhi is staying here as she said to mask out tanya,so clearly it wouldn't be wrong if leaving tanya he marries pakhi,its depend upon wat matters to whom,that's it😊


In Anshuman's perspective Tanya is a nice girl, who loves him. till date he is oblivious what she really is.. And thats what i am trying to say. Wat is his side of the story.

As far as we are concerned Tanya is evil and no offense in leaving her. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakhi992


In Anshuman's perspective Tanya is a nice girl, who loves him. till date he is oblivious what she really is.. And thats what i am trying to say. Wat is his side of the story.

As far as we are concerned Tanya is evil and no offense in leaving her. 😊

thats true,i agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshuman has done a great mistake bringing pakhi to his life. without knowing woh kitni achi hai. . He has never seen such a selfless loving person in his life.
Todays episode I loved Anshuman for coming out of the mess and clearly choosing one way. so that he can move on with his life.
It was obvious from his outbursts to pakhi that he is the more tormented soul there. If pakhi is hurt that for her is known fact that she has to leave and anshuman even on the dinner night never gave her any hope that he is going to love her of accept her in his life. He was very sure of one point from the very begining that he is going to be with Tanya.
But here while saying all his decisions to be ajnabee etc Anshuman has hurt himself badly and not reveaing his pain It was obvious. He loves pakhi but he is going to be with Tanya because of his promise to her. he is ready to sacrifise his happiness which he know obviously with pakhi only .for his words.
I really loved Anshuman character in todays episode. He has done mistakes But he is repenting. He is totally lost and helpless now. When aayan asks him cant you love mama the expression showed it all that he loves her but cant be with her.
This episode was very well done by creatives to make a defenite turn of events.
All this is because Anshuman really doesnt aware of real Tanya. Once he comes to know of it he will be relieved of all his guilt, which tanya is using for her advantage.

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