Anger over Mind : Aliya

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anger over Mind.

Ayat lied and came to Mumbai.

Ayat came as an escort- forced to be one.

Ayat was wearing a revealing dress.

How easy it is to judge others by their actions and oneself by intentions.

Aliya had nearly done the same at the party. But with pride. Because her intentions were good. But Ayat, how could she do something like that?

The answer to Aliya's dilemma, her hurt, her dismay- Ayat's truth was simple. Aliya didn't have to reveal Ayat's mistakes, her sin infront of a group of people, she could have spoken to Ayat in private, asked her of her intentions, confirmed her belief in Ayat. She could look out for her, care for her, be the best sister she is to her.

The only thought which now comes in my mind. CV's what have you done?

In the precap Aliya was confronting Ayat in front of Zain and Rizwan...both of whom were a part of the secret. That was good!

But to humiliate Ayat, to slap her, to reveal her secret/sin/mistake publicly. That is Not Good. Because it doesn't stand true to who Aliya is. Or is this Aliya.

In the precap as we see Suraiyyah has turned and twisted the matter to her pleasure.
Had Aliya dealt with this situation in a mature manner, things wouldn't have turned this ugly. CV's I am disappointed.

Zain was right, what are you doing Aliya? Had she but listened. Trusted him. That the Wrong had now been dealt with, and turned Good. That Ayat had learned her lesson. That Allah had covered the matters for Ayat. She accused him of not telling her, he had promised Ayat and he kept his promise.

I will end the post with an Islamic teaching.

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Allah will cover up on the Day of Resurrection the defects (i.e. faults) of the one who covers up the faults of the others in this world." [Narrated by Muslim]

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Posted: 11 years ago
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^well said... the thing that disappointed me more than anything about aliya was that she didn't bother to find out the truth...she jus slapped ayat and then revealed the HALF truth as though it was the FULL truth before her mamu and her family... big disappointment... really big one...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said i didnt expect Aliya to do this Ayat is nt at fault,...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent post and ending Hadith
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What bothered me was that Aaliya jumped to a wrong conclusion. If she had done that with Zain it's okay..I mean she doesn't trust him completely. But this is Ayat...her sister...she knows her too well...and she knows she's been raised the same way as her...so why would she jump to a conclusion like this without giving her the benefit of the doubt first.


And even if she did have doubts..as any normal person could...then she should have sppoken to her sister in private and given her the opportunity to explain herself.


Aaliya's suffered the case of her integrity being doubted plenty of times in the Abdullah house...so she should have thought twice about doing the same to her sister.

This is one case where Aaliya definitely let her anger get the better of her.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ditto!

I especially want to stress about the precap they showed on Friday. I was actually in support with it, because THAT is something a sister would do. Its private. Who else is there? Her shauhar, who actually knows everything and then there was Rizwan. She really should have given Aayat the chance to explain as well as given her the chance to go tell their parents alone, what she did, why she did and how much she regrets it. I understand anger and pain when caused from your sibling can hurt, but I would never bring it out in front of the whole family. Not especially in front of your in-laws.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i thought tht Aliya wuld understand Ayat jus the way Zain did bt i was wrng. Aliya shuldnt of slapped her infront of everyone n humilate her tht was wrng she culdve tooken her to one place n sorted it out there...
agree Aayat needed a slap bt nt in this way..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Aliya revealed the truth in front of her family[ she believes so...which is not, her inlaws never think so]...if she can slap Ayat infront of Rizwaan, why not infront of her parents and mamu,mami?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandini27

Ditto!

I especially want to stress about the precap they showed on Friday. I was actually in support with it, because THAT is something a sister would do. Its private. Who else is there? Her shauhar, who actually knows everything and then there was Rizwan. She really should have given Aayat the chance to explain as well as given her the chance to go tell their parents alone, what she did, why she did and how much she regrets it. I understand anger and pain when caused from your sibling can hurt, but I would never bring it out in front of the whole family. Not especially in front of your in-laws.

its not even just abt her in laws being present there...there were ppl outside the family present there.. i.e. gauhar and rizwan... she didn't even once think how humiliated her parents and her sister would feel when revealing what she believed to be the truth before them all. there was a lot more to what she had known... she didn't bother 2 find out and 2bh I don't think she'll even regret what she did...but as a viewer all I can say is I am disappointed in aliya big time today what she did was totally wrong. this time it was a matter of someone's izzat that to a girl's izzat... which means so much... and she disgraced it infront of everyone without even knowing the truth. the way she said 2 her mamu tht ayat was present there has an escort...really..was it needed? she made it out as tho ayat lied 2 cum 2 Mumbai n become an escort... wth aliya next time at least get ur facts confirmed before accusing someone and slapping them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree, I'm glad Aaliyah said the truth but it would have been better if they did it how it was shown in Fridays precap... She should've asked zain in private about what happened instead of making a tamasha in front of the whole family
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Allah will cover up on the Day of Resurrection the defects (i.e. faults) of the one who covers up the faults of the others in this world." [Narrated by Muslim]


This is sooo beautiful...i just agree with everything in the post and especially loved this thing particularly...beautifully said...
Edited by EtherealRati - 11 years ago

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