Too Paced??- Discarding calendar

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now that Holi celebration is over and we are over the moon with Zaya scenes I want to post my nagging doubt 🤣
It could be just me since I haven't seen the episodes but my question is

Wasn't discarding calender bit too quick from Zain's side?? His intention behind making her leave his life was never the possibility of being unfit for the family but the forceful marriage and forced entry of her in his life. He had to marry against his wills and marriage curbed his freedom. Frankly, I'm finding all too paced up. Zain was immature and had an intenairy to burn the world and the amount of hatred he had shown to her by humilating her at various events and making her feel nothing more than a piece of a thrash suddenly got transformed. Though I could relate to his possessiveness as it was male ego talking that time but discarding calender was way too quick.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will post what I posted in another thread.

When they were in Bhopal and everything, Zain was pretty much attracted to her as it is. He flirted, he wooed..there was a basic attraction and concern.

When they got married, he started hating her for the fact that he thought she had betrayed him. But all those other emotions won't just die, right? Initially, the hate was too much obviously. The betrayal was a blow, so emotions were at peak during the Valima and stuff. But slowly, as the 'Kitkit' started and they started living together, playfully annoying each other..the hate meter went down bit by bit.

As far as yesterday's scene is concerned, I think he went close to her to annoy her, at first. He enjoys her discomfort at getting too close. He has used this tactic before as well. And there was no extra caressing, touching, feeling blah blah. Color lagana hai. Simple.

Because he still said "Holi Mubarak, Mamu Ki Bhanji". There is no Aaliya Zain Abdullah right now. Didn't realise his feelings might surface too. I am not saying it's love, only attraction.

She had told him his hands were banned from touching her cheeks, SO he decided to rub his cheeks and apply color on her.
Plus, as a couple, you eventually do start developing feelings. You like the feeling of jealousy, that you are so important to someone, you enjoy their attention. Maybe when he will process it later, even he might think, what he was upto. But in that moment, she was his to apply color onto and he had to do it anyway.


Aise toh even Aaliya didn't care for him. But now she misses him, she was not mentally into the party till he came, and boy, did we see how jealous she was. LOL
I would just say that it's not love and neither is Zain a patthar dil. As Chand Bibi said, beintehaa nafrat hai lekin beintehaa mohabbat bhi karega.

He enjoys his Kitkit time, her attention AND he is also enjoying the challenge. He doesn't realise it yet, but once she goes, it will sink into him as well and then he would miss all of this.
He doesn't think much of the consequences of his actions. We have seen that right from the start, right?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree,that his sudden behaviour is confusing but its true he start acpect her as wife.may be becz he saw the different and caring side of aliya.he hate her becz she broke his promise now he realised she had no fault actually.but i know that he still want her to leave him becz he is bit immuture and confuse soul.but its true he don't love her yet but definitly care for her.all those thing he was doing just to irritate and tease her just like he did before marriage.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well I won't deny that I found the flirting a bit sudden and out of the blue but I understood that it was needed for the Holi episode and also because they want to show that they're at the stage in their relationship where they do have a presence in each other's life..although they don't know just what they mean to each other yet...also that whole waleema drama..honestly I felt that Zain only blew up to the extreme like that because of his mom fuelling his mind. But like Harshad said in an interview, we'll get to see both some love and hate. He does get affected by what she says, otherwise he wouldn't have gone to the office and follow her schedule etc..but it's not he's in love with her and fully trusts her. Let's not forget how he reacted when he thought that she sold the jewelleries to give money to her boyfriend. The Cvs have done a fabulous job so far, let's keep our faith in them and hope for the best. We love this show, so obviously we have a lot of expectations from it. But let's be positive and cheer on our actors as they're working around the clock to entertain us. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I actually though I was the only one feeling this way. Yes I agree with you. Being unfit for his family wasn't the issue...the Fahad thing hence shouldn't be the reason for his acceptance. As for the calendar thing... I was pretty shocked. It was too soon to discard it. There nikaah & post nikaah period was one of turmoil, & if that turmoil settles down NOW...it WILL be hurried :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@NinjaInPyjamas- I didn't talk about yesterday's scene :). I understand his playimg and flirting around her. He had tried every way to throw her out but instead she would gave it back to Zain and over the time he has started enjoying it coz he has got someone with same intensity and smartness and we see back to playful joy who loves to annoy her and somewhere he has figured that his proximity makes her brain to go on toss hence we saw Zain pulling her closer in order to stop her from going to Usman for seeking permission. I could connect to everything but not calender bit coz calender was to show the exit of Aaliya from his life as his wife and her one gesture for family made him discard calender. He pondering over calender would have made sense but straight away discarding... His attraction is slowly reviving back and hatred is mellowing down and this phase is infatuation from both side since Aaliya too liked Zain before finding about Zeeshan. Aaliya had cared initially but that was out of duty as wife but now its evolving but no major step has taken by her yet but Zain took in short span by discarding calender
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: edwebllalover9

agree,that his sudden behaviour is confusing but its true he start acpect her as wife.may be becz he saw the different and caring side of aliya.he hate her becz she broke his promise now he realised she had no fault actually.but i know that he still want her to leave him becz he is bit immuture and confuse soul.but its true he don't love her yet but definitly care for her.all those thing he was doing just to irritate and tease her just like he did before marriage.


I absolutely have no issues about zain playing and flirting around coz thats so zain and over period he has started enjoying as said by him in the episode whr he thought Aaliya sold ornaments and I really can relate coz flirting is very much part of his character and that flirting is to irritate her. But throwing away the calender was too quick as per my view, it would have made more sense if he would just see and ponder over it and ultimately after series of events throwing it away.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silver_19

Well I won't deny that I found the flirting a bit sudden and out of the blue but I understood that it was needed for the Holi episode and also because they want to show that they're at the stage in their relationship where they do have a presence in each other's life..although they don't know just what they mean to each other yet...also that whole waleema drama..honestly I felt that Zain only blew up to the extreme like that because of his mom fuelling his mind. But like Harshad said in an interview, we'll get to see both some love and hate. He does get affected by what she says, otherwise he wouldn't have gone to the office and follow her schedule etc..but it's not he's in love with her and fully trusts her. Let's not forget how he reacted when he thought that she sold the jewelleries to give money to her boyfriend. The Cvs have done a fabulous job so far, let's keep our faith in them and hope for the best. We love this show, so obviously we have a lot of expectations from it. But let's be positive and cheer on our actors as they're working around the clock to entertain us.😊


hv I written anything wrong in post 🤣 Everyone is talking about Holi when my topic is about throwing away calender 🤣. I for once loved Holi scenes and could connect ;)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..DamonCrazy..

I actually though I was the only one feeling this way. Yes I agree with you. Being unfit for his family wasn't the issue...the Fahad thing hence shouldn't be the reason for his acceptance. As for the calendar thing... I was pretty shocked. It was too soon to discard it. There nikaah & post nikaah period was one of turmoil, & if that turmoil settles down NOW...it WILL be hurried :(


Yes, discarding calender came too soon. As said I would have loved Zain daily giving thought about it and then finally discarding it one day.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What happened?? Why this emo? Anything wrong about post?

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