Will Paro starts Trusting Rudra now ??

Great post, as for paro trusting rudra I think deep inside she's always trusted him, but Dosent really show

Answering that unrelated 1st part of ur post 1st! 😆

Do u remember the 1st time u made a post on this forum and at the back of that thread u worried if the off screen actor situations will create problems during the intimate scenes, etc..
And i told u that day how each of them were in their previous shows made their co actors comfortable, Ashish namely telling the girl who was opposite him to think of him and his hair as a cute doggie, and Sanaya gently guiding her co actor of CC telling him not to worry n how he appreciated that in an interview...

So when two such consummate professionals come together its no wonder that a scene goes from good to superlative!!

I know this is off topic, but it was needed to be said about these two fabulous actors!! 👏

Ok coming to the main issue, TRUST

I don't think so Jyoti. cz the past few weeks showed me that Paro already trusts him! She knows he will not lie to her, she knows he is being truthful..

BUT she thinks he has been mistaken! She believes that 'he believes' in what he tells her!
There is a huge difference there!

Paro will feel much closer to him.. and will believe even more that he means no harm to her, and doesn't want to hurt her.. But she still didn't get a single iota of proof to prove to her that what Rudra believes to be the truth is ACTUALLY the truth!

Its not as simple as her trusting him.. cz she already does that.. has been doing it for a while now..
He will have to prove to her that what he believes/knows to be the truth is the ACTUAL truth! that he hasn't made a mistake.. someone hadn't made him believe in something fake..
that part of the equation is still stagnant..


He cast away 8 yr long acquaintance for Paro, so she will trust him with her own safety, her own wellbeing.. But she believes he mistakenly thinks her villagers, her father like Thakur is wrong...
So until proof comes, she is not likely to believe him on that.
So as he knew to distrust the woman he knew for 8 yrs, same applies to Paro.. how can she distrust the man who was a father to her for 15 yrs? cz like Rudra knew laila better than her, she thinks she has known the Thakur better and longer than Rudra!
Its easier to believe that Rudra is mistaken!

And finally coming to Laila.. sigh.. i feel so bad for her! Her eyes at that moment when Rudra stopped her tirade of grievances and simply ignored her and turned and covered up Paro with gentle caring hands and even more gentle demeanor, she was shaken seeing that!
I guess as they say 'u cannot make someone love u..no matter what u do..'

Rudra is wrong.. but the problem is he was emotionally completely void till Paro came and made the 'insaan to wake up and the shetan to go to sleep' as she said in her own words one day!
And that shetan had never realized that 'ANYONE' can have feelings! He didn't have so he by default thought Laila didn't too! So it was like 8 yrs on he was numb to Laila.. felt nothing for her.. So why will he even think she felt any different? cz he didn't know someone can feel differently..

That is why he couldn't understand Paro's loyalty to her dead husband/family either earlier. cz he doesn't feel any loyalty to anyone or have feelings for anyone. But now he understands it and that was why Thursday his appeal to Paro was different and he told she trusts the 'wrong people' and NOT that to 'trust' is wrong!

Only now that his stone heart is being thawed and he has started feeling.. feeling unknown softness, caring, warmth for Paro.. as he cannot bear to see her getting hurt, as all his protective instincts rise to safeguard that fragile creature called Paro, he for the 1st time in 15 yrs is understanding what 'feelings' are.. that they exist!

So its no wonder that he was incredulous that Laila felt anything! Right now he was actually more human regarding his shock than the previous day.. cz he himself feels that she might have felt bad.. earlier he wouldn't have realized even that much!


Wrote an essay!😆 but i just loved ur post 😳 and ended up replying to most of it!! wonderfully written!! 👏

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

Great post, as for paro trusting rudra I think deep inside she's always trusted him, but Dosent really show

I guess she does trust him when it comes to her protection as she has seen it repeatedly how he is concerned fo her life but she never trusted him with his words so far but things might change now after this incident 😃

I am so happy I was out. Otherwise my parents are sitting and watching the episode with me nowadays! :P

Very beautifully written.

Awesome post!!!!
I think paro unknowningly have always trusted rudra as his protector!!

she trusts on him when it comes to her protection, once Paro said to KCM '' aap se zyada mein un pe bharosa karti hoon'', and once she said to Rudra '' jab tak aap meri raksha ke liye hain manne kuchh nahin hoga'', she trusts on him but as her protector.

She's right now taking baby step with him, she will soon realized he been right all along about everything be it her husband or Tejawat. Today she did help him when his Kurta was stuck.

Rudra cares for Paro the way Laila cares for him, she react when he touched the poisoned haldi she didn't want him to get hurt. There I did felt bad for her but I also fell bad for Rudra because he doesn't love her and neither did he promised her anything, he told her many times to stop acting like his wife as he can never be her's or anyone else. Laila handled this matter in such a violent way of putting acid on a girl and trying to stab her without knowing the backstory behind all this, of course she saw it from only Rudra side she saw him as a human today and not a Janwar she saw it all from Rudra side and not Paro.

When he covered her today with a green dupatta was a beautiful moment, it's not only Paro's beauty that is winning Rudra's heart but it's also about emotional connection and her innocence Laila should know love isn't all about having sex it's much more than that.

I don't think Rudra is ashamed of his relationship with Laila at all but the timing right now is too bad since Paro is having too much MU in her head about him, and if she comes to know about his 8 years relationship she would think really low of him. At the sametime Rudra could have easily used that 8 years relationship to get Paro to signed the paper but he didn't!!

Ok it's official meri taraf se I haven't seen such a sizzling, sensational and sensuous Mehendi- Haldi ceremony on Television till date. Who kehte hai na numbing your senses...well this is what it is and obviously not in a Bad way. When Sanaya's entry as Paro was shown I used a phrase "Poetry in motion" but as of today it's PaRud's lovestory that looks to me as "Poetry in motion" their ever moment from Day 1 to the recent ones are beyond any description.

And I think even if the screenplay-direction etc has its magic here full credit should go to Sanaya and Ashish. For a television show it definitely was Bold and if not done properly could have been tagged as explicit too but hats off to their professionalism not only in enacting the show but giving the right emotion. Ek bhi emotion galat hota toh the scene would have got a different definition but here the purpose was to highlight the Human side in Rudra when it comes ti Paro irrespective of what he says to her, does etc and for her to see and maybe this time think why he would go to such extremes for her?

The scene was not about teasing/foreplay the highlight was supposed to be concern, care etc from his side and from Paro's side of letting her guard down...From telling "Manne chua toh jaan de doongi" to allowing him wash off the Haldi the transition was not simple.

I agree Jyo acting is an art and if you are professionals tab toh baat hi kuch alag hai. I talked to an actress recently; she plays the lead in one of our fav shows. In the 4 months the show went on air I don't think I ever saw that particular character she essays show her vulnerability, let her guard down. It was a different layer of the character I saw. I thought she did a splendid Job and sent her a message about the same and she gave a beautiful explanation for it followed by "End of the day our try is to keep the character as close to reality as possible." This thought, this feel comes only when an actor is that professional and sincere about his/her work and I think Ashish and Sanaya are two actors who fall in that category which is why almost all of their scenes turn out to be outstanding. Chahe phir who emotional scenes ho, romantic ho, passionate ho, arguments ho you can actually see that they are giving their 200 %.

I think Paro Trusts Rudra at some level. But it's restricted ...like when Mausam Vibhaag asked her to join hands with her she refused saying that she'd rather take Rudra's hand which stood up for her than Kaki's who raised her hand to slap. During the scene where Rudra feels somebody kidnapped Par but she had actually gone to the bathroom she tells him that as long as he is there nothing can happen to her. Somewhere deep inside her heart she knows that irrespective of whether or not she is a Witness, this Man will always protect her, uske hote hua isko ek kharoch tak nahi aayegi and I believe somewhere in the back of her head their first encounter where he saves her is etched so deep that even if her conscious mind tells her that the guy killed her Husband, this guy snatched everything from her that her subconscious mind knows and acknowledges that he can never cause her any harm. She calls him Jallad, she hates him to the core but her every feeling , the claims she makes against Rudra questions her back when she gets to know that he saved her life from the doctor, staged her death, stands before her like a shield even in a place as safe as an army camp. Paro's issue is she can't believe him when it comes to Tejawat and her late husband...obvious baat hai. Takur has always shown the villagers a side that would give Sages/Saints a run for their money, same goes for Varun for her he was the perfect guy, soft-spoken, lovable etc she hasn't seen what Rudra saw but she saw Rudra shooting Varun which only makes Rudra the bad guy. No matter how many times Rudra saves her Paro will always have doubts about her judgment regarding him, but she will keep brushing it off. I mean isn't that what's happening even now???

She has seen those aspects of Rudra which others haven't in years. His vulnerability, his emotional side, the letters her wrote to his Mom...she has seen it all but still she can't come to terms with the fact that this guy can actually be humane enough and Rudra does not help either. This is way out of context but Paro's friend when she saw the whole Illegal Work going on the first person she runs off to tell is Takur, that's the hold that guy has over his people...I am sure until something rock solid that would shake Paro's set beliefs does not happen even if she sees Rudra for who he really is (Which is not a Jallad) she will keep brushing it and this is where I feel Paro's character is week. Have wanted to write this for a long time aaj yehi sahi, this brushing aside off actually makes her look week. Rather than judging Rudra and fighting him back I think the makers should star giving Paro scenes where she is trying to figure out what and who Rudra truly is plus like I said before Paro knows that Rudra, which he keeps hiding from the world. Somehow he opens up to-before her knowingly unknowingly jo bhi ho he does we should have more scenes on that front too.

I agree Rudra forcefully putting Paro under the shower and then pinning her to the wall when he couldn't control her was all Harassment but only if you see it that way which is how Paro saw it but the moment the Haldi starts its effect and she starts to feel the burning sensation you can see the change in her Body Language and attitude. Which is why the moment Rudra asks "Jal raha hai" she gives that nod of desperation and then the moment he starts to help her without even waiting for a second the look on her face shows how surprised she was to see this side that keeps emerging from nowhere. Hayyeee the moment Rudra asks her "Jal raha hai" I was blown away...O god his concern, the worry on his face ki agar jaldi nahi ki then things can get WORST. Ufff maar dala (Ashish was fab in the scene).

Now the big question here is will Paro change her way of thinking towards Rudra and try to ponder on all the past talks between them where he repeatedly claimed that Tejawat is main culprit and how her life is in danger??

She may not change her way of thinking, it will take time because there is a lot going on in her head and she has seen bits and pieces of everything so maybe change will come gradually but it is high time they showed pondering over all that has happened, especially Rudra's role in her life. Like you said the seed of doubt has to be planted in her mind about Tejawat after seeing the lengths to which Rudra can go for her.

If Rudra was going to tease her, he would have and there is no stopping him but in that moment all that mattered to him was her well-being. Rudra's respect for Paro has always surprised me every time he stood up for her was a testimony of how he did not have to prove himself as a man or as a BSD officer at the cost of her respect-honor. The two were fighting against each other but for that to put her down is not something Rudra will ever resort to which is why I love him and I think he is the best Male Character from the NF bandwagon. AYM hai but he knows how to treat his woman.

I agree he should be answering her and he would were it any other normal, usual relationship. There is no commitment in this relationship, she is not answerable to him and she shouldn't be asking him questions too that has always been the arrangement. Laila means nothing to Rudra, except for his biological needs like you said. And in such a relationship why would he answer her??? That does not entirely mean that he is tone hearted towards her kal ko if she is in trouble he will help her but that's about it. The way he behaves around Paro, the care, concern, the warmth etc he feels Paro he has not felt for anyone. Rudra prides himself in calling himself a Jaanwar but when he is with Paro he contradicts his statement.

Spilling the beans... Yes at this point of time he can't afford to have any sets backs and Laila's revelation could foil his plan. Care, concern sab ek tara let's not forget Rudra's main aim is still to get Paro sign the papers and for that Paro needs to have that fear it's either signing the papers or marrying him.

Even I feel bad for Laila but kya kare Rudra ka dil toh Paro ke liye dhadaktha hai na???

Cheers 😊