Why does kokila think she is so important?

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randomsoul

@randomsoul

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Posted: 11 years ago

Kokila seriously needs to get over her prejudice...she is just a grandma...not a ma. Losing Meera was and is gopi and ahem's grief before anyone else's. She is real illiterate and hopeless person. When the accident happened w Meera, gopi was pregnant. She probably didn't have the same strength to take care of a child. No one knew about it then, but now they know. I think next track should be fixing kokila's attitude toward her husband and daughter in law. She needs to retire as the most impt person in her immediate family, especially her son. Gopi is there take that spot.

Sorry for the rant.

Ps I hope gopi doesn't forgive the ahem and kokila that quick.

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achu2610

@achu2610

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Posted: 11 years ago

I hate Kokila after Meera's accident track and nw she is getting unbearable...
Wht does she thnk of herself??
She believes her decisions are always right...Its like no one can questn her...
Today also she doesn't even hear Baa...Its too much😡
Itni arrogant lady??😡😡😡

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 11 years ago

If Kokila is given so much importance and has turned out this arrogant today, it is also the fault of each and every member in the family who gave her that importance for so many years! 😒 Her husband is a completely pushover. Her own MIL defers to her. Hetal who is the elder DIL never goes against her words! Why??? Will it kill them if they say "no" to Kokila or go against her wishes? Don't they have individuality?

A person becomes this arrogant only when they are given so much importance. If every person in the family were to go against Kokila and Ahem today, then they would not be able to do anything! But the truth is, the entire Modi parivaar is spineless and runs on Kokila's orders. 👎🏼

I used to hate Urmila and Rashi, but Kokila's behavior day by day is making me empathize with them.

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Nehel

@obsessiveperson

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Posted: 11 years ago

She thinks she is superior... and Modis are the puppets run by her orders even her MIL.

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pamela01

@pamela01

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Posted: 11 years ago

Loud mouth Kokila must have been dominating the Modis soon after her marriage and they let her.

Everyone do as Kokila say or else!!!!!!!!!!!

Baa is still alive but she has no say in decision making except agreeing with kokila.

kokila sileneced the modis today and worst of all that silly Baa. baa is the eldest and the house should be hers and she should decided who stays there and who goes.

Ahem and kokila should be thrown out.

Ahem had said that Vidya will not go out of the house and Kokila has decided to take the place of Gopi in Vidya's life.

Their words have hurt Vidya a lot and she will most likely never forgive them.

Snatching Vidya from Gopi is kidnapping. Ahem had lied to Vidya and Vidya was taught by Gopi to always tell the truth.

I cannot understand why Gopi is so stupid as to not get the police.

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: pamela01

Snatching Vidya from Gopi is kidnapping. Ahem had lied to Vidya and Vidya was taught by Gopi to always tell the truth.

I cannot understand why Gopi is so stupid as to not get the police.

She can't get the police because she would also be in heaps of trouble. CVs are not going to involve any legal happenings, because they want to show Gopi as perfect and they know that legally, Gopi also broke the law by keeping Vidya a secret. As much as people may disagree, Ahem had the right to know about Vidya and Vidya had the right to know about Ahem. Gopi had no right to dictate Vidya's life by separating her from her father for eight years. Can she give those eight years back to Vidya? Gopi's mistake was not a small one, so by involving police, CVs would have to show Gopi also getting into trouble, which they don't want to do.

If Ahem kidnapped Vidya, so did Gopi, so the best way to resolve all of this is not by involving police, unless both Gopi and Ahem want to lose custody of her. 🤔

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machar13

@machar13

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

She can't get the police because she would also be in heaps of trouble. CVs are not going to involve any legal happenings, because they want to show Gopi as perfect and they know that legally, Gopi also broke the law by keeping Vidya a secret. As much as people may disagree, Ahem had the right to know about Vidya and Vidya had the right to know about Ahem. Gopi had no right to dictate Vidya's life by separating her from her father for eight years. Can she give those eight years back to Vidya? Gopi's mistake was not a small one, so by involving police, CVs would have to show Gopi also getting into trouble, which they don't want to do.

If Ahem kidnapped Vidya, so did Gopi, so the best way to resolve all of this is not by involving police, unless both Gopi and Ahem want to lose custody of her. 🤔

Am confused...how did gopi break a law in regards to vidya? She did not.kidnap vidya as ahem and kokila did in front of gopi? gopi never got a chance to say anything if she was pregnant or not..She was kicked out of mm so not clear...anyway..I used to.like.koki.but.she's lost it eh ?

Ahem is an as@ 4 forsaking his wife because of a mistake.

And koki is a kalank on all.mothers. so disgusting and despicable.

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pancakes527

@pancakes527

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Posted: 11 years ago

she thinks she is so important because she as forced herself to be important. She used her angry temper to rule over everybody...even her elder one. First I thought that Kokila was the big bahu of modi house because of her actions...but later when I found out I was really shocked that Hetal is the elder bahu

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: machar13

Am confused...how did gopi break a law in regards to vidya? She did not.kidnap vidya as ahem and kokila did in front of gopi? gopi never got a chance to say anything if she was pregnant or not..She was kicked out of mm so not clear...anyway..I used to.like.koki.but.she's lost it eh ?

Ahem is an as@ 4 forsaking his wife because of a mistake.
And koki is a kalank on all.mothers. so disgusting and despicable.

She was not kicked out per se. She chose to leave because everyone had accused her of killing Meera. Not commenting on her decision to leave, but as per the law, Gopi was supposed to tell everyone about Vidya after she was born, because a child is created with both egg and sperm. No parent has sole right to a child. It belongs to both mother and father, so Gopi did not have the right to keep Vidya a secret from Ahem.