Laajo? or Ishana?

Nikhil is an honest guy...he has been in love with ishana for past 7 years...bt its true that gradually he is falling for lajo...Lajo is his wife and should be given her rights. I agree that their marriage took place in a hurry burry and was a mistake..bt as long as its done, lajo is his wife officialy and he should give her the rights she deserve. If he really wants to " Prashchit" his mistake, then divorce is not the way, instead he should accept lajo as his wife..moreover he should help her adjust in his family and should teach her the the ways to live the life of a city...its not impossible..if he wishes, he can make lajo adjust by standing for her wherever she is insulted...haaa i hope he realizes his love for her soon..i want to see lakhil together asap..!

Nikhil is just amazing...! I love how honest and caring he is...!! He is just a bit confused about his life..!! [B][/B]

ok question is nikhil loves whom ?

Before answering i want to say all my friends that i love this show like anything
and i love vibhav and sana very much infact I love vibhav more than sana .

In show also from the begining ilove them both equally. But yaar the way they
showed nikhil's character from the begining i was in a helpless situation that
even though i want to like him i could n't . Hope all will understand my views.


I will start from the begining yaar where Nikhil thinks beleives he is already
in love with ishaana .

He saves laajo until that its ok for me . But there at that point itself i was having a
huge doubt why nikhil married laajo ? why why what's the need ?

He loves ishaana then why and how he accepted and married laajo ? Still i did n't
satisfied with the answers i got yaar .

Did he fallen in love with laajo in first look ? No right? then what prompted him to
take such huge step ? He is from city cultured educated guy only he married just
because his grand father told him ? I mean what is it ?

Ok he is good person from heart he cant see anyone 's life in danger ? But what
did he think by marrying laajo he is saving her life ? I mean how did n't knew
that he is making her life more complicated without an option in future ? Or he
thought he will work out with this marriage ? That means is he ready to leave
ishaana ? He is not . that is obvious . Then What the hell does he want to do by
marrying her?


Its marriage for god sake and he inspite of being in love with ishaana he married
simply like that . Some are saying that he is very young in age , he does n't know the
seriousness and importance of marriage and all that . At the age of 15 also every girl
and boy knows marriage is life long serious committment . But this guy what does he
think does n't he know because of this marraige he has to lose ishaana .

If he does n't know i will say that he is mentally retarded he is not an ordinary
guy . Or he does want to become or prove himself mahaan by marrying a poor girl in
need . Its still a doubt why he married laajo in the first place .

Another doubt about his charecter
Before marriage why he did n't explained laajo or her parents that he already
is in love . He wants to marry her and he is in a relationship . Why he did n't felt
the need of telling all this before marriage ? If he would have said then may be
laajo's parents should have changed their decision about this marriage and there
is a chance of back off there . But no he never told .

After marriage only he told laajo that he cant love her and this is only for name sake.

By that time for taking any decision is there anything left in laajo's hands or her
parents hands?

My point is he did n't given them the opportunity to back off from this marriage .
He committed a mistake there a very big mistake that affected very badly three lives .

Ok after marriage he brought laajo with him . Laajo too never expected anything
from him . And he being married he craved and cried for ishaana's love . I can
understand him he loves ishaana . she left him everything turned reverse for him.

Then he understood that he committed a mistake that too when ishaana is going
away from him .

He was crying suffering because ishaana left him. The way he cried shouted collapsed
and depressed that every thing is over in his life and he felt empty .
He was so restless until he got again ishaana . I was 100 % sure that he loves
ishaana and only ishaana by that time yaar . I dont know whether it is love or
not love but sure he has intense powerful feelings towards only ishaana .

In the mean time he observed laajo and he came to know about
her character , simplicity , innocence , bubbly lively nature , intelligence
selfless nature , unconditional love towards all others . I want to say here
he admires laajo's nature , yes he also got attracted to her beauty , he was
pulled towards her unknowingly in those times his face was so confused as if asking
himself despite of being in love with ishaana why am i so confused
what is happening to me ? what am i feeling?

But iam sure my friends that never ever was love . No intensity, No feelings
nothing it was all very light superficial there was never ever any depth i observed
whenever he interacted with laajo .

He openly flirted with ishaana infront of laajo without shame i can say or
hesitation if i have to put respectful word . He continued his so called relationship
infront of his wife so openly many times . He did n't given ounce of respect to
laajo except only one time when he was going to kiss ishaana and he remembered his
marriage and left her (only one case) and all he could do was flipflops around
ishaana chanting ishaana all the time so obsessive about her .

He never cared and thought even for one minute that what would laajo feel if he
openly flirts infront of her . He was like its ok i told already that i cant love
her and i love another women so its ok . He was so insensitive towards laajo .Never
given any importance for her feelings . How many times we have seen nikhil talking
flirting with ishaana before laajo and laajo silently with tears moving away from
them even though by that time she does n't love him . She is his wife and what does
he think .?

Caring means in my opinion giving respect to other person , not to hurt other
person's feelings . But nikhil ever did this thing ?

Ok he may have supported her in family issue one time and have gifted mobile on
and bangle to her on her birthday or on some occassion . But that does n't mean
he respects her and he cares for her . I think he given mobile more because
she saved his sister's life. (may be iam rude but its not complete wrong)

Sometimes even we will do those type of things giving presents even to our servants
in our house on some occassions . Iam sorry i could never ever forgive that nilhil
who did n't respect laajo's feelings . He thought he like a mahaan saved her life
given shelter giving food that's more than he could do .He became a mahaan like really ?
He keeps repeating that he saved her . He has given her life ?
did he given life to laajo or taken away life Iam sorry but whenever i remind those scenes
i was like .

I have to say in few scenes i like him when he came to laajo leaving ishaana back
when he thought laajo's fear of darkness . He never hesitated for one minute he runs to
laajo and in the party scene where everyone insults her he comes to her understanding
she was hurt and make her laugh . There i saw genuine caring in him towards laajo .

I love nikhil so much in those scenes . There was respect,care,responsibilty ,
everything there in those scenes. This guy confused me a lot in those scenes .

ANd coming to the trust he initially trusted laajo . He trusts laajo than any
other family member . But when comes ishaana he surely does trust ishaana
than laajo . He Always beleived ishaana than laajo .

So no trust no respect no caring towards her feelings what does this imply ?

And the mistake he made by marrying laajo without telling about his so called
affair and put all blame on laajo for the damage of his relationship with ishaana.
How dare he ?

AT that time also he never ever thought about laajo or cared about laajo .
He only thought every second about ishaana and his relationship with ishaana .
He never thought about laajo's life except one or two times that too before ishaana
(point to be noted). He talks about laajo only with ishaana his little amount of care
and concern comes only in the presence of ishaana . So weird .

In my view nikhil admired laajo for all her qualities . Love is different admiration
is different . Love is different friendship is different .

After he and ishaana were reunited all the time he has taken laajo very lightly .
treated her just like chhaya di . Never had feelings about laajo . No depth in laajo
scenes .

He did n't loved nor has any feelings towards laajo until he came to sonbarsa
when laajo is on death bed . And for the dream i think sometimes we too get the dreams
about the persons who are close to us . He could have got the dream when ishaana or
any other close person in his family if they are in danger ,Nothing special about laajo
i feel .

And Important point i beleive that unknowingly he and laajo came close on emotional
level when laajo was with him. He does n't even know she also does n't know how
they came close on completly different level.

Here i accept that there is surely a connction happened between them
unknowingly during that period .

Ok coming to nikhil again See when laajo written that letter and left him what he
did ? He simply read that letter and his reaction we all know why laajo left him
without saying him ? Thats only his complaint . If she could have said he would
never stop her he would have happily send her this is what he said right ?
How he reacted when he thought ishaana is going to leave him ? he even got
accident he hurt himself while reaching her. Like how he came running towards
laajo now he went running after ishaana at that time with out caring about
himself leaving laajo right ?


If he have feelings towards laajo then do u think nikhil's reaction justifies ?

After seeing nikhil's reaction and his actions and thoughts after laajo left
his thoughts and actions ever made us to even doubt that whether he has
feelings towards laajo ? did we ever seen him missing her like he misssed
ishaana ? No right yeah i remember only once at the dining table he remembered
laajo . That one or two scenes were never sufficient on his part to make us beleive
that he misses laajo .

He started going out with ishaana partying giving her gifts , He felt
himself free . He never ever tried to talk with laajo not even once did he ? When
gunja is talking with laajo then also gunja given him phone to talk . And how dare
he gets angry with laajo then also for not talking ?

Yes the most important divorce thing why he did n't signed on divorce papers
immediately after laajo left ? why he needed ishaana and his mom to force him ?

Thats not because he loved laajo or because he had any feelings towards laajo
During all this time he just understood the gravity of the situation how serious
marriage means how it will destroy a girl's life when he gives divorce ? These
all things he thought and he was filled with guilt that he himself on his own
could n't destroy a girl's life by giving her divorce . Only guilt guilt and guilt
nothing more than that . Not because he had feelings towards laajo .

Laajo surely affected him in many ways when she was with him and she left many memories
before leaving his house . He thought laajo is a good girl innocent girl he unnecessarily
married her and he was thinking how he could destroy her life that's why he hesitated
to sign . After ishaana's saying that laajo will be happy only when she is out of
this relationship then he convinced to sign .

My bottom line is in my view Nikhil is not a bad man . He was a very good man with a
big heart that' s y he is struggling much with his heart . But until he came to
sonbarsa he never loved nor he has feeings towards laajo .

And about ishaana until he came to sonbarsa i think he loves her by all his actions ,
all his thoughts ,cravings . His behaviour when he thought ishaana left him when he
married laajo and recently during ishaana's fake engagement , his trust on her ,
he has completly broken , depressed thought there was no life without her, disinterested
towards life but many thinks its not love its habit and obsession .
Iam not so sure about this . May be its love or may be not even nikhil does n't know .

But iam sure nikhil is not the same nikhil anymore with himself or with
ishaana or with laajo . He has moved a big time by laajo . He has seen a different laajo .
This time he was not able to accept the fact that laajo finally leaving his life
forever and he surely does n't like that its clearly written on his face his intense
emotions , feelings . He actually got angry when laajo told him to leave .

Like someone said for a change one conversation was enough , one heartfelt emotion
was enough to bring a change which will chage the entire thought process , change all
feelings . So iam ready for this journey of realisation with all of u .

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

Awesome topic, I have always felt that Nikhil's love for Ishaana is very real and true he loves her wholeheartedly and can do anything for her but at the same time their long relationship is far from perfect he is always the one who probably tends to the relationship as Ishaana is a very demanding GF.. Nikhil has I think already fallen in love not that intense crazy state of love, but I feel he is aware subconsciously of Laajo's importance in his life.. with Ishaana he is always trying to prove himself but with Laajo its not.. he will realize it soon that his relationship with Ishaana was really good but not one that can last forever and Laajo who became his wife is the one who would always be by his side and care for him.. so to answer ur question he was and will probably always stay in love with Ishaana as a love like that doesn't go away but not the kind where he would be so confused as to whom to choose and he is already falling in love with Laajo though one fine day he will madly be in love with Laajo and remain like that with the rest of his life.😳

I think I wrote an essay😆 and I am not even sure if it makes complete sense, to sum it up here is a nice quote which for some reason I really like

Oh fantastic i like this quotation . Yes how true if a person really love someone then
how can he falls in love again ? Answer for all the doubts . 👏

I agree with u ziks...Nikhil's character confuses everyone alot xD maybe that is why this show is unique...we dont usually get to see this in serials..most of them show the " depth of love" between the main leads...

Nikhil is confused himself..! Obviously nikhil-ishana's relationship is not perfect...what ishana did to get nikhil back was obviously not justified on her part..she would not have done those cheap things with lajo if she was truely in love with nikhil...according to me ishana's love is not love, bt just madness or "junoon" to get him by hook or by crook..

Nikhil loves ishana truely its very clear..bt he should understand that ishana doesnt deserve so much of love for him..she is not the right girl for her...love requires sacrifices...! Lajo's love for nikhil is pure and eternal..and he should realize this...it is said that its better to go with the one who loves you and not with the one whome u love (in case of one sided love)...

We cant ignore those scenes where ishana keeps doubting nikhil and nikhil has to prove himself by saying " dont u blv me"...ishana doesnt deserve so much of love from him coz her love for him is not true..

Originally posted by: Marvi_21

We cant ignore those scenes where ishana keeps doubting nikhil and nikhil has to prove himself by saying " dont u blv me"...ishana doesnt deserve so much of love from him coz her love for him is not true..

yes yaar i totally agree . Ishaana 's love is not at all called love . Its selfish .
I never ever said that ishaana loves nikhil . I thought initially but after seeing her cheap tricks
cheating i came to know that she never loved nikhil . He is just a possession for her
which she dont want to lose at any cost .

And yes she dont deserve the love and trust of nikhil . She just dont deserve anyone's love
i think such a cheap character in the name of love . She disgusts me .

Originally posted by: ziks

yes yaar i totally agree . Ishaana 's love is not at all called love . Its selfish .
I never ever said that ishaana loves nikhil . I thought initially but after seeing her cheap tricks
cheating i came to know that she never loved nikhil . He is just a possession for her
which she dont want to lose at any cost .

And yes she dont deserve the love and trust of nikhil . She just dont deserve anyone's love
i think such a cheap character in the name of love . She disgusts me .

exactly..!! This lady doesnt even know what love is..Nikhil is far more better than her and she doesnt deserve a guy like him...! Nikhil is a fool to love a girl like ishana.. There is no comparison between lajo and ishana.!! Lajo is such a mature lady who knows exactly what she is doing...i love her honesty..Lajo has such a big heart to sacrifice her love for nikhil's happiness..on the other hand there is ishana, selfish, egoistic, arrogant and self-centered..!!!!