Sirjee's analysis of Sandhya

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would say today Sirjee's analysis of Sandhya was perfect. Yes Sandhya is good. Sandhya knows to do her task very well. She can excel. She can face any extreme situation. She has presence of mind. All this does makes up the qualities for a good IPS officer. But as sirjee said in do or die situation between her duty and family Sandhya will choose only family.
Sandhya has to overcome this. She has to prove that she is beyond Bhabo's EV completely. As Sirjee said we have enough bahus, but not enough lady IPS officers. Sandhya is improving but she has a long way to go.

The fact that Sirjee's words are coming as fb to Sandhya means Sandhya knows there is some truth in what sirjee said 😃

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes Shruthi she is thinking about what Sirji told
But will Sandhya change?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post shruthi...
Accept that sandy has to improve in that part btw a bahu nd an IPS...
But tis enough bahus but nt enough IPS officers part is not correct as per my POV...
She cant leave her family nd sacrifice her whole life for the country... She has certain responsibilities as an IPS officer as well as a bahu... Are they giving training in TA for forgetting the family... ????
As of now there is no such critical situation tat Sandy has to face as an IPS... she is jus in training nd wat is Sirji's problem in granting leave ????

CVs will never show one sided... it is not easy to balance btw job nd family... How well Sandy is gud at that will be tested... nd she will succeed...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vasumma Sandhya had changed when situations were forced on her. Just like her transformation from that fiery young girl to this docile bahu dancing to the tunes of Bhabo took place, the reverse will also happen as she will be forced into situations which will bring that fiery Sandhya back.
Last week was a starting point where with only fb of Sahyadri Sandhya did something. Tomorrow the situation might force her to think about the fb of her parents death and something in RP. Atleast for bringing peace to her parents soul Sandhya will chose duty over family for sure.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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and if she does that what will be the reaction of baboo😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Pavi I am not sure whether you have attended any rigorous training. IPS is much more rigrous than the IT training I attended. But let me tell you one thing. During training there is nothing critical as such. They are grooming you. They are grooming you for a good professional life.
And as a learner during this period atleast you are expected to give first priority to this. Yes your family comes second.
Because you have tests every week. Everyday assignments. It is almost a type of working away from your academic days. You are evaluated more stringently here than at your actual work.
You have to use every opportunity to iron out your inefficiencies. In case of Sandhya her shooting inefficiency is a problem. Its accuracy is much needed for an IPS officer in do or die situation. Irrespective of Sandhya winning the trophy or not if she is unable to improve her marksmanship it can be matter of death and life for her or someone she needs to safeguard.
So to be an ideal bahu she is fortifying a chance to improve the most important need of an IPS officer makes Sirjee tells that.

Now Sandhya is bahu first, then IPS it cannot be like that as far as services go it has to be IPS first, bahu later.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sirji's words are correct right now.
but sandhya can't forget her family for job's sake isn't

She will choose the job only if a situation arise like that . may be sandhya hesitate in the beginning. but later she only stand for the truth. and honesty
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@vasumma that is exactly the point. Can CVs show a Sandhya dancing to the tunes of Bhabo as an efficient IPS officer. A woma who do not have rights at home is fighting for rights of others. Is that right portrayal
@hemaji I am not telling Sandhya to forget family. I am fine with her coming to wedding now the way she came. She very much wanted to come. But in future forced with EV and truth let us say K deal or BS what will Sandhya do. Her standing to truth can cost her Sooraj and RP. Is she emotionally prepared for such a step. As an IPS officer can the current Sandhya take the decision to stand by truth. The answer is big " No"

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