She loves me! She loves me not! She loves me! She loves me not! She loves me! Does she? Should I approach her once again? Nooo...But why not? Yes...But then why? I have already got hurt once. Not anymore! If I again get to listen a no, I can't bear it this time. What if our friendship even won't stay after this? I don't know!!!!!?????
Do I love him? Yes I do! But how can I say this to him? Should I approach him? No I can't! I don't know!!!!!?????
They look at each other and wonder if the other one ever looked at them. They think of each other and wonder if the other one ever thought of them. They love each other and wonder if the other one ever loved them. Confusion! Confusion! Confusion! But isn't it expected guys? This is so very normal when two people, two very different people are to confess their love to each other and that too after going through thick and thin of their marital life and relationship-a perfect roller coaster ride, an experience with ample ups and downs. If you ask me whether Jalal and Jodha are still doubtful, then my answer is somewhere between a yes and no. Mind my words when I say that they are not doubtful about their own love or feelings, rather they are doubtful about the other person's love or feelings for themselves. I think they should be given a bit more time. Reason?? I want their love to strengthen and reach its peak, devoid of all doubts they presently have in their mind about each other's feelings. They need to discover more the truthfulness of their true love. For now if Jalal and Jodha can't convince themselves to confess, then they should be given a bit more time. What say? Moreover, love is not a mere feeling, it is a decision, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever.
Just see Jalal's beautiful journey of love- he loved her, he got hurt; he got hurt, he tried to hate her; he hated her, he tried to ignore her; he ignored her, he started missing her; he missed her and he fell in love again. What variety of emotions? Definitely he has gone through a hell lot of phases. But can you see that he has returned to the same point from where he had started-love! Now when he has gone through so much, there is a tussle between his mind and heart(he knows he has it). Mind tells to give up, heart doesn't let that happen. Mind says -forget it, heart says -she is still the one you love, mind says -poor you! that is never gonna happen and heart again says -there is still a hope that you will end up being together.
Jodha is yet to open up. Yes in a way she has admitted her love for Jalal but in this situation I would say Jalal's feelings are more evolved. He was the first to realize it and so he has got more time with his feelings. Jodha has just started to discover what she feels. But what surprises me the most is that a person who always keeps the decisions made by her heart at the first place, couldn't realize where her heart wants to take her. She came second in the place where she should have come first. I think she might have just avoided those feelings. Otherwise how could she not know that Jalal was always looking for a chance to spend time with her and what his intentions were? She always gave mixed reactions to his indirect love confessions(don't include dhakka incident). So, if Jalal now finds it hard to open up, thinking that she might slam his brakes again he is not completely wrong(don't include dhakka incident). But why only Jodha? Shouldn't Jalal have analysed more? Since he was running so much after her, couldn't he realize that people who talk about their dreams are actually trying to tell you things about themselves they would never admit in normal conversations (I'm talking about the hair drying scene near bathtub). Anyways I'm happy that she has finally realized her feelings. Better late than never.
But I think I just said to give them a bit more time in every sentence of mine. Of course they can't just keep thinking and do nothing. Each new day is a new chance to tell that someone special of your life that you love them. Each day that goes by is a day that may take the person farther away from you.(especially when you have people like Mahamanga and Ruqaiya). So take time, but don't spend your entire life taking your own time. Jalal's point is absolutely justified but he needs to understand something else as well. It definitely hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know. A person may be in love with someone until the end of time, but if that person doesn't tell their feelings of love, it will just be another person living a dream and what a loss of true love that would be? Same applies for Jodha. Speak up girl! Hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.
Love makes life so confusing, but would they want to live without it? So ladies and gentlemen, hold on your breath...the epic love confession is coming soon! But till then have patience and enjoy the show.
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