Different views leads to different opinions...right? - Page 2

Originally posted by: 4856

you have done such a good and detailed analysis of the characters of our show...I totally agree with your point of view...!! The show has some complex characters Raman being the major one. It is not a simple love story or a comedy...!!

lets see what happens next and waht all this is leading up to. I have a feeling Raman is going to break down and Ishita will be the one helping him...!!

Agree, Raman is one the most complex and intrigued character in the show and so was the varied views!! Defo, Ishita gonna be the shoulder to cry upon...Cant wait for their scenes!! By the way thanks for ur kind words!!😳

Originally posted by: PreciousPri

Very well written!!

Raman... I feel like telling all on yhm just give him a break for God's sake! Seriously he has gone through so much and then Ashok's nonsense has shaken him from within... he is just bottled up and his frustration is what we are seeing

The way Ashok told him about Ruhi... and knowing his ex was seeing his boss it's natural to have doubts on paternity... I don't think it's illogical ... any normal person would have reacted that way... not saying about his behaviour towards Ruhi ... just his general angry, restless and dazed behaviour

I know Ishita doesn't have any feelings of him except a pre conceived image... but she needs to make an effort

The star of the episode was Ruhi!! I was in tears after that scene... felt really bad for her... she doesn't deserve to be treated this way physically and emotionally

Mrs Bhalla... Toshiji... I wanted to pat her on her back... finally someone realises that something huge is bothering Raman 👏 she better do something about it soon

The confrontation between Ishita and rest of Bhalla's was good

Thanks Priya!! I agree with u on Raman and Ishita...!! Right now, Raman himself cannot go and share his feelings to anyone unless they come to him especially he cannot share it with Ishita because they haven't attain such comfort or had such equation among them!! And that is why I want Ishita to be the initiative here...But she is equally occupied with Ruhi!! Atleast I hope Toshiji would share his baggage and relieve him to an extent!!

Originally posted by: naddiya26

Perfect

Thanku Naddiya!!😊

Originally posted by: Tahitien-moon

Loved your post sudha 👏you truely figuered out the personalities of all charactors😉and loved your positive thinking dear👍🏼i think there'll be a beautiful out come at the end of this painful track😉

Thanks Prasu !!🤗

Exactly...Hoping for the good!! Also wish to see some light hearted moments in the show now!!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

I have to say this: I didn't expect everything to be hunky-dory from day one after the marriage but really, Ishita and Raman's relationship is deteriorating into actual hatred from the point of no return and this abuse on the child thing is really, really spoiling Raman's character so was it necessary to introduce it?

That said, it is probably being spoiled for others. I am unable to hate Raman because the pain he is going through right now I understand what it must be like. Its not an excuse to push a child but Raman's demons are so big right now the Shakti to judge what is right and wrong has gone from him.

When the CVs finally do decide to make IshRa fall in love, will they be able to justify it after their hatred forming to this point?

I am pretty peeved with Ishita. It might be too soon but she is not seeing that she is married at all. She likes Mr Bhalla and Ruhi and that is it. She is not living in that house as the bahu at all and it seems like she doesn't want to have anything to do with the family that's not about Ruhi. Didn't like the way she was talking in front of them today and I also liked Mrs Bhalla. If Ishita thinks she knows everything about Ruhi then Mrs Bhalla has lived 30+ years and not three months with her son and has actually seen up close the trauma he's been through. It broke my heart to see Ruhi say that about Raman but you're right about kids - they forgive and forget very easily. I always felt Ishita has been pampering Ruhi way too much she needs to teach her to do stuff herself as well.

If u ask me even I would even say Raman is wrong in pushing Ruhi but if u look at it, Raman is extremely disturbed and was loosing his senses!! Sometimes, such situations arise in life where we cant exactly say who is right and who is wrong...And that is why I still give a benefit of doubt to Raman's actions!!

On Ishita, that is how she is...she did marry Raman for the sake of Ruhi!! All she think is of Ruhi and her well being...That is going extremes now!! Actually I was happy with Mrs.Bhalla coming and immediately making Ruhi feel comfortable when she voiced her opinion on her dad!! That was required at the moment...After all she knew Raman and how he is with his kids!!

On Ruhi, I felt bad for her...Hope Raman repent and get back his Ruhi!! He should start expressing his love atleast to Ruhi!!

Originally posted by: Aliya_hzsn

Loved our analysis!!

At this point raman is a weakened soul, and this Devil of an ashok knows where to hit the target!! I wish raman had atleast an ounce of emotional strength to overcome this thing that's haunting him!!

Ishita was once again the usual, perfect ma and the not so perfect wife at the moment. She doesn't have the power to look through his eyes and read them like how she can read ruhi!!

Shagun seems to be getting annoyed with ashok's crap. I have a feeling she'll come out in the open and protect her identity as well as ruhi's.

Agree with u on Raman!! Agree with u on Ishita...She is a mother to Ruhi and her world revolves around Ruhi...Thats it!!! What I'm saying is she need to come out of that world and look at the things differently!! Shagun, I hope she make amends by declaring Ruhi is Raman's kid...!!

@Leela : I agree on this particluar part!! Raman should have been behaved properly in the function...He should at least try to be good infront of others!! That wasn't convincing on his part!!

And on Mrs.Bhalla, I dont think she defended her son's actions...She did say, Raman was worried and out of his frustration he was behaving wrong with Ruhi and he cannot express love!! Also she said, she will talk to Raman...I guess this may happen today because I want atleast Toshiji to knew whats bothering him!! I think she can manage somehow...!!.For obvious reasons, I'm relying on Mrs.Bhalla instead Mr.Bhalla especially on this issue...!!!

About Ishita...I dont say she need to understand Raman right away and that doesn't make sense at all...What I would like to see is her being initiative and procative in her relationship with Raman!! As you said, Raman never express anything and how could she understand? Thats right but what Ishita do whenever Raman tries to explain? She never give him a chance to put forth his thoughts...So its better if she herself allow him to speak and that only happens when she herself ask him...Haha!!

Thanks everyone for ur likes and comments :-)