Different views leads to different opinions...right?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today's episode was really great to me because it showcased different views and opinions of every character...Would like to add them character wise...So here you go :-)

Raman : Raman's mind was totally occupied by Ashok's poisonous words...He was getting completely drained out and feeling weak right now!! He cannot able to understand what is right and what is wrong...!! Hez a vulnerable man at the moment and when in such situations,anyone would need to have peace of mind but his external forces(Ashok) weren't allowing him to be at peace.!! And ppl like Raman who cannot able to express their inner feelings/conflict appear to be rude!!Consistent pestering would make them go out of place!! Raman is stuck in such position and so his reactions!!

Ishita : Ishita just see Raman through Ruhi!! Whatever Raman seem to her is actually Ruhi's image!! She had seen Raman being mean with Ruhi at times and hence created an image of him as a bad father!! His personality is scrutinized just by his behavior towards Ruhi..!! She doesn't look at Raman with her own eyes and that is why she cannot able to guage the pain and worry in him!! She is right...Raman's behavior with Ruhi is harsh and so was her conscience!! Her view is her opinion!!

Ruhi : Kids doesn't have the capability of understanding human varied emotions...They love the people who reflect the same love and affection!! They feel happy and comfortable being with them!! Her dad seems to be rude to her and that is why she feels, hez not good and was scared of him!! They need to be handled sensibly and when the same people tend to show such love and care, they start liking them as well...!! I just loved Ruhaanika's dialogues and screen presence today...She was amazing!! Kisses to this kiddo..!!

Mrs.Bhalla: Mrs Bhalla probably did understood something is haunting Raman and as a mother she likes to resolve his issue!! She knew Raman and his nature very well!! Today her points were very much valid in a way!! Pampering a kid is as bad as good which is right!! She did realise, Ruhi's opinion on his dad is getting narrowed and want to erase such opinion in her mind by saying some true words!! She want her family to live at peace while trying her best in making it happen!! I'm liking the integrity of Mrs.Bhalla's character...She certainly plays the role of an anchor in her family!! Sometimes I get really impressed with Mrs.Bhalla's maturity shown in uncertain situations!!

Mr.Bhalla: As a father, he cannot stand his son's negligence on his family and his kid!! He likes to see Raman being a responsible father and a husband!! He doesn't want Raman to make a public show regarding his family issues!! Today I somehow felt Mr.Bhalla being forcefully trying to push Raman into his relationship with Ishita! He thinks Raman is still the same and so was his anger!!

Over all a very good episode to me!! Looking forward onto the next episode...Ashok at Ruhi's school as well? Huh, hoping for the best!!

Just thought of sharing my thoughts from the character's perspective...!! Not intended to say who is right or who is wrong but wanna tell its simply the circumstances allowing them to play as such!! Hope u guys enjoy the reading and leave ur comments :-)




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Posted: 11 years ago
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yes it was a good episode ..regarding Raman ..he had a wife who cheated on him thru n thru n he was betrayed in the worst possible way ,,and so his reaction ..his doubt is not misplaced ..and as for DNA test well ..he cant be expected to jump and immediately order one ..its normal to be in a bit of a dilemma for a while ..he is just human after all isnt he 🤔 ..his pain & love for ruhi was very evident i thought & it was his frustration that led to him pushing her away though its not the right thing to do ..to err is human too after all isnt it😕
yes Mrs Bhalla is the typical mother that was very well shown & enacted ..and Mr Bhalla's reaction was good too
waiting for the track to unfold ..and ..its obviously leading to disclosure of Ramans past to Ishita .cant wait for that to happen 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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you have done such a good and detailed analysis of the characters of our show...I totally agree with your point of view...!! The show has some complex characters Raman being the major one. It is not a simple love story or a comedy...!!
lets see what happens next and waht all this is leading up to. I have a feeling Raman is going to break down and Ishita will be the one helping him...!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written!!
Raman... I feel like telling all on yhm just give him a break for God's sake! Seriously he has gone through so much and then Ashok's nonsense has shaken him from within... he is just bottled up and his frustration is what we are seeing
The way Ashok told him about Ruhi... and knowing his ex was seeing his boss it's natural to have doubts on paternity... I don't think it's illogical ... any normal person would have reacted that way... not saying about his behaviour towards Ruhi ... just his general angry, restless and dazed behaviour
I know Ishita doesn't have any feelings of him except a pre conceived image... but she needs to make an effort
The star of the episode was Ruhi!! I was in tears after that scene... felt really bad for her... she doesn't deserve to be treated this way physically and emotionally
Mrs Bhalla... Toshiji... I wanted to pat her on her back... finally someone realises that something huge is bothering Raman 👏 she better do something about it soon
The confrontation between Ishita and rest of Bhalla's was good
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Guys keep coming!! Will revert u back once I come online tomorrow!! Gotta go now!! Cheers and hugs!! 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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the episode was ok for me...i had mixed feelings for it...😳
i feel Mr Bhalla should give raman some space...Ishra marriage is a compromise marriage...he knows that...he should not push this relationship on their heads...he needs to give them some time to resolve their issues and then start their marital relationship...

raman was hilarious...since he doesn't understand any single word of tamil...he falls asleeps and was snoring away...well on one thought it looks hilarious but on 2nd thoughts...it was very rude and arrogant of him...whether he understand the language or not...he should have respect the function...his wife is getting an award...at least show some respect towards her...she is a doctor...a very highly educated women...he is not the only one who can win awards...ishu won this award with hardwork...and in her own merit...even Mrs Bhalla was very rude...if it was his son's award...she will be cheering left...right..center..even if the award is hosted in english and noone is allow to speak in hindi...Mr Bhalla...romi...preeti...don't know tamil too...but they respect the function and cheer for ishu...mother-son come across as arrogant snobs in my eyes...they have no respect for anyone...even that man came to congratulate raman for his wife's achievement...he was very rude and arrogant to him...he needs to learn manners...he is very rude...though fake...he could have given a smile and thank him...compromise or no compromise...the fact can't be changed that ishu is raman's wife...if raman gets another award for his achievement...i am sure ishu will not fall asleep or be rude and arrogant towards the person who congratulate her for her husband's achievements...she will be equally happy and cheering for him even if the function is hosted in punjabi...and raman speaks punjabi...a language which she is not fond of or understand...disappointed with raman-Mrs Bhalla behaviour if you look at the logical way...but if you look at the illogical way...it was hilarious...but then our cutie pie was dancing for her mother's achievement...ishu's darling daughter...

Shashok...can we have one episode free from these two loosers...i am highly disgusted with their scenes...

now comes the most crucial part of tdy's epi...frustrations...anger...weakness all kinds of human's fault should not been shown to a 5 yr old kid...i felt like slapping raman when he pushed ruhi becos of his anger towards ashok and his words...i felt like crying for the little girl...who would have happen if the aunty did not caught her...ruhi might be badly injured in her hair due to the chair...raman's needs to control his anger...when he becomes angry...he doesn't know what he is doing...thank god ishu came into ruhi's life...otherwise i don't know what would have happen to this little angel...he is too involve in his past becos of shagun's betrayal...doesn't realise that he is not hurting himself but also his loved ones...

the show stealer is definitely ruhi's secret confession to her mother...and now we know why in the first hearing in the court...ruhi chose ishu instead of raman and shagun...becos she doesn't like her father...its painful to hear but then its obvious...becos her father never showered her with love...always has been rude and arrogant towards her...a kid wants love from her parents...not bitterness...a kid only yearns for love and reciprocate for the same...i had tears rolling down my cheeks when ruhi says to ishu that she doesn't like her father...he never loved her...she fears him...this is the biggest punishment for raman...his daughter doesn't like him...fears him...what he have made the little girl becos of his bitterness...ishu had tears with her confessions...since she has seen raman's behaviour towards ruhi...she could not argue much or make her daughter feel better...Mrs Bhalla interferes and support her son's love for his daughter...but then a kid will only believe and reciprocate what is seen...shown and showered...this inner feelings hidden love will not work for a small kid...as the kid is still not open up to human's matured emotions...Mrs Bhalla words can't change ruhi's mind becos the little girl saw and suffered raman's behaviour towards her...raman unknownly has mentally disturbed his little angelic daughter becos of his own bitter past...if ishu never enter ruhi's life...the little girl present and future would have been destroyed becos of her own father...

the last argument b/w Bhallas and Ishu...disappointed with Mrs Bhalla...she supports her son's wrong action knowing he was wrong...she knows raman is disturbed...something is troubling him...yet she did not try to calm him down...sit down and sort out the issue...she was busy with kitty party...what kind of a mother she is...well her parenting does result romi and simi...when raman enters home...instead of questioning him abt his behaviour towards ruhi in the function...she ask him to go to sleep...wow...whether its raman's arrogance...anger or bad actions...she always supports him...never make him sense the wrong and right...i don't have hopes from Mr Bhalla becos he doesn't have much connection with raman...but then Mrs Bhalla understands him...why can't she correct him on his actions...ishu raise a very valid question...raman's behaviour towards ruhi is only drifting him away from his daughter...its a matter of time only...his daughter will hate him to the core...but that little fact doesn't get into the heads of Mrs Bhalla...

now my question is everyone wants ishu to understand raman...how will she understand raman when he is only showing his bitter and hatred side to her?...how would she understand what raman is going through when he is not going to share his turmoil with her?...how will she understand raman when she always see raman behaving badly with ruhi?...how will she understand him when he only shows her that he is the villain?...if only he shows one single positive side to ishu...she will go heights to understand him and heal his turmoil...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved your post sudha 👏you truely figuered out the personalities of all charactors😉and loved your positive thinking dear👍🏼i think there'll be a beautiful out come at the end of this painful track😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have to say this: I didn't expect everything to be hunky-dory from day one after the marriage but really, Ishita and Raman's relationship is deteriorating into actual hatred from the point of no return and this abuse on the child thing is really, really spoiling Raman's character so was it necessary to introduce it?
That said, it is probably being spoiled for others. I am unable to hate Raman because the pain he is going through right now I understand what it must be like. Its not an excuse to push a child but Raman's demons are so big right now the Shakti to judge what is right and wrong has gone from him.
When the CVs finally do decide to make IshRa fall in love, will they be able to justify it after their hatred forming to this point?
I am pretty peeved with Ishita. It might be too soon but she is not seeing that she is married at all. She likes Mr Bhalla and Ruhi and that is it. She is not living in that house as the bahu at all and it seems like she doesn't want to have anything to do with the family that's not about Ruhi. Didn't like the way she was talking in front of them today and I also liked Mrs Bhalla. If Ishita thinks she knows everything about Ruhi then Mrs Bhalla has lived 30+ years and not three months with her son and has actually seen up close the trauma he's been through. It broke my heart to see Ruhi say that about Raman but you're right about kids - they forgive and forget very easily. I always felt Ishita has been pampering Ruhi way too much she needs to teach her to do stuff herself as well.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved our analysis!!

At this point raman is a weakened soul, and this Devil of an ashok knows where to hit the target!! I wish raman had atleast an ounce of emotional strength to overcome this thing that's haunting him!!

Ishita was once again the usual, perfect ma and the not so perfect wife at the moment. She doesn't have the power to look through his eyes and read them like how she can read ruhi!!

Shagun seems to be getting annoyed with ashok's crap. I have a feeling she'll come out in the open and protect her identity as well as ruhi's.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...RamonaG...

yes it was a good episode ..regarding Raman ..he had a wife who cheated on him thru n thru n he was betrayed in the worst possible way ,,and so his reaction ..his doubt is not misplaced ..and as for DNA test well ..he cant be expected to jump and immediately order one ..its normal to be in a bit of a dilemma for a while ..he is just human after all isnt he 🤔 ..his pain & love for ruhi was very evident i thought & it was his frustration that led to him pushing her away though its not the right thing to do ..to err is human too after all isnt it😕
yes Mrs Bhalla is the typical mother that was very well shown & enacted ..and Mr Bhalla's reaction was good too
waiting for the track to unfold ..and ..its obviously leading to disclosure of Ramans past to Ishita .cant wait for that to happen 😊



Exactly Ramo!! We can easily judge him because we are NOT in his position!! To the viewers, it may be hard to accept but that is how it is...I find his character to be realistic!! As said, I cant wait for that track...Ishita gonna be heart broken as well!!Those days gonna be absolute treat to watch!!

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