She is only against ahem marrying Radha because she hates Radha.
Rashi need not hate Radha that much. Because of Radha, now Rashi is the queen of modi bhavan.
Rashi is a confused soul. Unfortunately she has got a mother who will misguide her always.
As for Gopi, what she said was rather significant. One can love others even if they dont love us. It is very difficult to do so and yet it is worth trying.
I feel sad for ahem because he is surrounded by scheming women. He has become a puppet.
Sometimes I think that if Rashi had married ahem(the very first episodes where they go to see rashi for ahem), and Jigar married Gopi...😉😉😉