Is it necessary to humiliate Sandhya?

Sooraj at times mollycoddles Sandhya it is fine at times. But not everytime.

I still remember working with an Account Manager. He was a very tough guy. He wont praise you. Expects you to be always on your toes. I had wanted a leave for a week. So I gave him two back ups for a week as it was a very tough high risk projects. He rejected one name outright and told she cannot handle pressure. I was taken aback, so that meant he did had faith in me and he thought I could deliver under pressure. Yes that project needed that. Under extreme hostile conditions we had to meet the schedule and needed emotionally tough people.

Sandhya if you look was emotionally tough. It is her love to Sooraj that has made her emotionally week now. There was Sooraj always to mollycoddle her from Bhabo and here Roma and Rahul are molly coddling her. She needed a brutal wake up call to be emotionally strong without any external help and Roy provided it.

This is strictly my POV. You need both. There has to be a fall back option at one side and at the same time there has to be someone to open your eyes to the reality of the situation. Only then we improve.

if everyone motivates like suraj then it will be a bed of roses for sandy

she has to be shown struggling and then one fine day she will have fb and then she will go on to win

Maybe even as a manager I will tell if I get a candidate like Sandhya either wake up and smell the coffee or better just manage the home. Outside world is harsh and not a bed of roses. You cannot walk like a confused person as if someone put me here maybe it is IPS or it is Corproate house.

Problem with Sandhya is when she is under Bhabo's influence her logic seems to go somewhere and she behaves in such an irrational way that even it had tested the patience of a gentle soul like Sooraj. He became more understanding of her irrationality after he came to know more about his mother's nature.

So how do you expect hardcore perfectionists like Roy and Sirjee to be gentle with Sandhya. She was wandering like a lost soul as if someone forced her to be there. She is doing things to prove to Bhabo that she is the adarsh bahu. I didnt find anything wrong in it.