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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay, this is going to be a little rant. And it's going to be a little jumbled up. Apologies for that.

A few months ago, I read a post that said 'Shakti Mohan is back on D3', and I was curious why that got about 24k+ likes. So I asked someone. And that someone, turned out to be the biggest shipper of the couple Kriya and Reyaansh. So she spent roughly 5 hours telling me exactly what this couple was about. She made sure I knew all the nuances, all the little tidbits a D3 fan should probably know. She mentioned the wars too.


Then I watched their little dances, the cute se moments, and the IVs and I fell in love. Starting with Shaam bhi Koi, and the way they look at each other, I was hooked onto this adorable love story. A love story that was cut short midway, and now was going to be completed after two whole years. I was happy that I'd get a happy ending. I could relate to the joy the fans had. But since I hadn't been a part of this show before, I couldn't grasp the wars. But okay. I watched KriYaansh, and then came this charming little adorable sa Majnu, Swayam Shekhawat, and I fell super hard for his character. And when I heard that they broke up because Sharon blurted out that she and Swayam could never be together, I didn't want to watch the SwaRon parts because I didn't like how this amazing guy's heart was broken into bits. Don't ask me, I'm crazy like that. And I wanted to stay away from the wars.


A few days ago, one other friend just asked me HOW THE HELL could I not fall for Swayam-Sharon. And she made sure I watched all their scenes, so that I could love them too. And watching the scenes? I have to say, I've connected and fallen hard and fast. Mainly because I connect to their story in a way that's really weird but really simple and personal as well. I connect with the couple and that's it.


Now I want to pose a question. Swayam-Kriya and Sharon-Rey are the best of friends. Why can't one story contain the other couple? Are the wars that big that one can't enjoy both the couples? Why do the fans have to ruin a perfectly adorable relationship. Yes, there are major flaws that I may not understand as I haven't followed the show since the very beginning and now too, in bits and pieces. But are the wars that major that we can't enjoy a proper storyline? I get it. It hurts when some characters get sidelined but that's what happens when there are multiple characters in the show that are proclaimed as leads. It HAPPENS!


I'm not here to argue for or against any side. I'm not asking anyone to join this quest but come on. Is it really necessary to bitch about the opposite characters? Or the actors? That's what they are, actors, and what happens in their personal life, is theirs. What they did, is their issue. I get that some people LOVE the actors, and I love them too, don't get me wrong, but I choose to separate the characters from the actors and see it that way. I respect Palki Malhotra, because I've seen her previous show, Hip Hip Hurray and I'm in love with it. So no comments on her, or Ameeta Ma'am. They're doing their job. Leave them be!


I love KriYaansh, and I love SwaRon, and I love the boy-girl gang waale moments. I'm choosing to cast aside the bigger picture and focusing on the thousands of little moments. Or maybe I'm looking at the bigger picture and casting aside little facts. One thing's clear. I love this Dil, Dosti and the Dance and for me, it shall stay that way.


-Raina.
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sharif_lafungi thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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To be honest..i really dont know wat m feeling after reading ur post...m happy m confused m upset too...
Belonging to a fandom is natural...nd its the process of preferences...
Ppl here love watever couple...they all love D3 until their fav r also present...be it kriyaansh or swaron...we appreciate..bt we hv the right to criticize also...here on IF no one knows any1 personally..so nobody is gonna take any crap against them...the soul connection is of their fav dats it...talking abt complainings...rite now ss fans r nt happy with the show...nt jst 1 or 2..bt the whole fandom...if they appreciate here..they will vent out frustration too...bt its nt intentional evrytime to hurt others...
Ppl r sane enough here...
TM...gud to know ur likings towards whole d3...i hope my cmmnt didnt hurt u
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akankshaArsha

To be honest..i really dont know wat m feeling after reading ur post...m happy m confused m upset too...
Belonging to a fandom is natural...nd its the process of preferences...
Ppl here love watever couple...they all love D3 until their fav r also present...be it kriyaansh or swaron...we appreciate..bt we hv the right to criticize also...here on IF no one knows any1 personally..so nobody is gonna take any crap against them...the soul connection is of their fav dats it...talking abt complainings...rite now ss fans r nt happy with the show...nt jst 1 or 2..bt the whole fandom...if they appreciate here..they will vent out frustration too...bt its nt intentional evrytime to hurt others...
Ppl r sane enough here...
TM...gud to know ur likings towards whole d3...i hope my cmmnt didnt hurt u


I know. That's what I said. It's perfectly alright to like a couple. Hell, I've pulled out all that I've got to defend a couple. But what I don't get is, if I write a story or make a topic about SS, why can't Kriya-Reyaansh be mentioned even? That's what bothers me. Why take it all to such a big extent? Why bitch unnecessarily? I'm telling you, I love both the couples.

And I post these 'reaction' posts on FB. Even though I hadn't watched ANY SS scene before, I was extremely agitated with the fact that it was Valentine's Day and they got a song like Gandi Baat. I can see the reason for the frustration. But why not channel it in a positive way? Write stories about SS, make VMs, do everything to keep the forum a happy place? I mean, everyone knows that the SS story isn't going according to what the fans want. But maybe write a story about how you want it to go or something would be amazing?

I'm just stating what I feel is right, I am sorry if I offended you too.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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U didnt...as of gandi baat...ppl loved it...
Abt negativity...its nt evrytym...jst frustration yar...it happens...ppl hv a life outside IF too...they cant just sit nd write fictions...
Its nt a big deal..ignore it...they r hurt nd we need to understand...
On a serious note...forum dsnt allow us to discuss these matters so frankly coz of clash of thots...drop it here
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akankshaArsha

U didnt...as of gandi baat...ppl loved it...
Abt negativity...its nt evrytym...jst frustration yar...it happens...ppl hv a life outside IF too...they cant just sit nd write fictions...
Its nt a big deal..ignore it...they r hurt nd we need to understand...
On a serious note...forum dsnt allow us to discuss these matters so frankly coz of clash of thots...drop it here


I know they did. Because the dance was so brilliantly executed! What was not to love? But I know! I know! They can't, but maybe like we did on this other forum, when we didn't get scenes, we made a huge post and discussed what we'd like to see on the couple. Just a thought.

I understand! I do. I'm a fan too, remember? And that's precisely my point. Why can't we discuss it? Why can't we do it so openly and trust each other to just stay within the boundaries of our thoughts and not insult each other on a personal level? That's what I'm talking about. That's it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutielovesChocs



I know. That's what I said. It's perfectly alright to like a couple. Hell, I've pulled out all that I've got to defend a couple. But what I don't get is, if I write a story or make a topic about SS, why can't Kriya-Reyaansh be mentioned even? That's what bothers me. Why take it all to such a big extent? Why bitchunnecessarily? I'm telling you, I love both the couples.

And I post these 'reaction' posts on FB. Even though I hadn't watched ANY SS scene before, I was extremely agitated with the fact that it was Valentine's Day and they got a song like Gandi Baat. I can see the reason for the frustration. But why not channel it in a positive way? Write stories about SS, make VMs, do everything to keep the forum a happy place? I mean, everyone knows that the SS story isn't going according to what the fans want. But maybe write a story about how you want it to go or something would be amazing?

I'm just stating what I feel is right, I am sorry if I offended you too.



See your suggestion.of writing story on SS and be happy is ok, but at the end of the day you want to see your favourites on the story you imagined isn't it? Atleast I do :) And unfortunately CVS are serving us which we dont want to watch. We SwaRon fans have seen too many downs than ups, but every time we console our selves saying that maybe in next episode we might get to see our Favs but channelv doesn't want to see us happy I suppose. When palki M was there, she somehow managed to give us what we want, if not immediately atleast later we used to get! But these days we hardly see our Favs onscreen. Which leads to frustratedreaction from us :)
And why both fanbases fight is, KR dont connect to SwaRon and we SwaRon dont connect to KR, and when few get into our post and tries explaining abt our Favs, it doesn't go down with us. :) So usually we SwaRon fans don't prefer anyone else :) No offense though :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Anushka - I get what you're saying, I really do. As I said before, I was upset too, when despite not having seen much of SwaRon at all, felt offended about the choice of song. However, it was executed brilliantly, so no qualms about that.

I guess I'm able to connect with both couples since I haven't been a part of this show since it's inception. And therefore am able to see it all with a bird's eye view. When I watch 'Shaam Bhi Koi' based on KriYaansh, I get the same goofy smile on my face that I do when I watch SwaRon's 'Chai Date'. I cried when I saw the 'Alvida' dance on SS and I cried when Kriya left.

See, I'm genuinely not asking anyone to support me here cause I can't force anyone. At the end, viewers do get what they want. Exhibit A, DMG! Not the best example that I could have picked, but well, that's the only one that came to mind. I used to defend KaSh/KaJen/AR ferociously so I do know what you're talking about.

I understand about wanting to watch your favourites on screen and I'm all for that, I'm an SS fan too! I'm not fighting this from any other perspective. Right now, as we speak, I've had about 4 ideas of an OS based on SS! So I shall proceed to writing those. Hopefully, they make you all happy if you choose to read those.

It was really great knowing of your view, I respect it and agree with it. No offence intended at all.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good to see a true neutral fan in this forum...nd about choosing a favourite its a choice...as i loved dmg too...and i know dmg fandoms very well...and there also AR was my priority...rather than others...but i loved every AR jodi like kash-kasu-kajen...nd DMG forum and d3 forum is totally different cause there was only one couple story till the end...so there was no screenspace prob...storyline probs..as in noone can scrap a only lead couple story...i dont want to say anything about sid-riddhima as in i hate this track to the core...and in d3 swaron are parellel leads ...and they were made parellel leads by fans support...the channel never promote them...nd their story well...palki mam had fighted with the channel for swaron but as of now she is out of the show noone is there for swaron unlike us...and the pathetic storyline is more cause of frustration rather than screenspace in my pov...and the tragic part is that noone is there to heard our pleading so all this frustration is justified...and in this pathetic condition of swaron/vrushan and swaron/vrushan fanbase also people are making os,ss,ff also from ss fanbase ..but these things cant change the pathetic mental condition of swaron/vrushan fanbase...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The main thing is screenspace. When Palki Mam' was there, there was equal screentime to both the couples and also the characters had excellent development, along with the 'dosti' part present. Now, the storyline and character development seems all jumbled up. It's utterly shocking and ridiculous to see Swayam/Sharon get 30 seconds to 1 minute of screenspace and the main leads get almost the whole time. Swaron should've never been made leads if they were about to be so terribly sidelined. Ameeta isn't able to handle both the leads pairs properly OR there's an offscreen war going on. That too, they have broken up for a long time and these days they only talk about some random shit and Swayam is shown more with Ruhi than with Sharon. There are absolutely no monologues for Swayam and Sharon. All Sharon does these days is help Kriya. I don't mind that, I love their friendship, but that doesn't mean the CV's don't think about her feelings for Swayam. Swayam is totally out of character nowadays. A girl he loved for 5 years, even tho she was very rude to him and all, casually has chai with Ruhi on the same place they had chai. That's what we call character killing. Except the Valentines' Day episode, I haven't seen them talk properly, explore their feelings and all since Ameeta mam took over the job of Creative Head. It's high time the CV's realize that TRP's will fall terribly if they continue this utter horseshit. Desperate people will flock online and watch it there. Till TRP's fall, she won't realize the bullshit she's doing. Being so biased = losing fans. She's handling the KR story very well, making it unpredictable, while she's treating Swaron story, worse than an average kindergartner.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It would have been ok if SwaRon get sidelined in few episodes but when it keeps happening for months then one can't be ok with it, right? ? Then one can't say 'It HAPPENS! 'And the funny thing is, come what may, KR never ever get sidelined be it any track. Look at the 1st week of the village track, it was properly balanced between both the pairs. Look at the V-Day special, again balanced. So, ofcourse the cv's very well know the art of balancing and how to keep both the fandoms happy but they chose not to make it a regular habit and instead dig out ways to torture SS fans by giving then NOTHING.
P.S- You fell super-hard for Swayam right? So have you thought where is he in D3 in the past 2 weeks?? He has bare-minimum screenspace among the leads. Will you ever see Rey or Kria getting such treatment? The ans is probably no. That's unfair D3 for you.

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