Rudra's Dilemma...Heart Vs Mind - Page 4

Originally posted by: jyoti06

In today's episode we saw while talking to Aman , Rudra's heart feels Paro is innocent and thats why the natural yes comes from his mouth when Aman tells him that after sharing same roof , he should know better that Paro does look innocent and a instant "Haan" comes from Rudra's mind 😉😳 .. He looks completely lost there thinking about Paro 😳 ; But next moment his prejudiced Mind comes into action and tells Aman that Paro is definitely not innocent or else he would not hv remained mute against Tejawat and co

Aahh .. this is a typical case of dilemma between Heart and Mind 😳 .. Heart wants to believe that Paro is a innocent victim who needs love and affection 😳 while the prejudiced Mind believes that Paro is just like any other beautiful women who will use her innocence to hide secrets ... Heart wants to take care of Paro and be polite to her 😳 while the Mind is determined to make her life hell ...


Amidst this dilemma of Heart and Mind , Rudra is actually becoming over protective for Paro 😳 ; He might hv deleted that photo of Paro from Sumer's mobile for the sake of security measures but we did see how Rudra takes Paro to his room and so politely asks her whether she is fine 😳 ; Paro was confused about why Rudra is suddenly asking this question out of the blue and was like "what did u just ask" 😆 , but Rudra had no issues repeating the same thing once again about whether she is fine as he wanted to know if Sumer misbehaved with his doll errr I mean Paro baisa 😉😆😛...


Also I loved the way how Paro is so straight forward and direct with Rudra .. In fact she never hides anything from him 👍🏼 ...She directly tells Rudra about how Mohini has doubts about her being a Jaipur girl and how at times she too ends up fumbling in front of Mohini's questions , which she could hv hidden from Rudra but she says it all to him without feeling scared of his angry outburst 😳 ; Best part was Paro's surprise sorry to Rudra since she knows about his mother issue and earlier thought of using it against him but now she realises that its wrong and unfair .. woww cant believe she actually confesses it all to Rudra 👏👏👏 ... Even Rudra was shocked for a moment seeing this girl telling sorry to him even after he just ruined her whole life few weeks back .. what an irony ...


So even if his prejudiced mind keeps telling him that Paro is the culprit , but seeing these honest confessions , his heart certainly believes that she is innocent or else she would hv never done such big confessions to him even after knowing his anger .. Rudra could see that Paro never really hides anything in her heart ... If she sees something is wrong or something is unfair , she just says it loud and clears the matter .. So if she really knew anything about Tejawat's cross-border smuggling , then she will never hide it and betray her own nation since so far she has only given proofs of her loyalty towards him in this Haveli whenever she sees something is not right like how she informs Rudra today about Mohini's doubts ; If Paro wanted she could hv misused the whole scenario by telling about her real identity to Mohini thus trapping Rudra on the wrong foot but instead she remains loyal to Rudra because she has given her words to Rudra

Somewhere Paro is a total contrast to Rudra's prejudiced beliefs about women which is where his mind and heart are in dilemma regarding her 🤔 ... His mind believes beautiful women r never loyal whereas his heart could see Paro's loyalty towards him the way she says it all about Mohini's doubts to Rudra and even tells sorry to him since she came to know about his mother 👍🏼... Probably he has never come across such a woman who remains so much loyal even to her worst enemy just because she has given her words to him ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ...


No wonder we saw a rather level-headed Rudra in action today who tries to make Paro realise about how Girls going to other side of the border r forced into prostitution later reason why they never return back , so that Paro can open her eyes and see the ugly face of Tejawat ; I guess today Rudra's heart realised that Paro is someone who will never support the wrong and so if he manages to show her the truth , she might finally decide to speak up against Tejawat 🤔 .. For once I saw Rudra today listening to his heart and trying to explain Paro about cross border marriages in a matured manner without his usual shouting and screaming 👍🏼...


Coming to other parts of the episode , I see a wonderful bond developing between Paro and Maithili which is really good to watch since for once we will hv a Jethani-Devrani jodi as Sisters without any bickering or cat-fights 😃 ; Loved the way Paro teaches Maithili how to smile and find happiness in small things 😳... I see Paro eventually making Maithili strong and confident enough to stand upto Mohini 😡😡...


Coming to Precap , all I can say is "Chaantaa Lagaa" 😆😆 .. But now Rudra will definitely explode tomorrow and change the Mausam of this Haveli forever 😆😆 ... I guess Paro will get a good amount of bashing too from Rudra for poking her nose in house politics which was not needed ... But at the same time Rudra will see how Paro always plays fair and can never tolerate injustice which should give him some idea about Paro might open her mouth against Tejawat too if she is shown the truth 🤔


One positive in the precap is Rudra cannot see anyone causing harm to his doll .. he will himself take the pain but noone can dare touch his doll errr I mean Paro without his permission 😉😛... One slap would not hv killed Paro , so he cannot give the excuse of how he was protecting her since he wants her alive either 😉😆.. He took the slap because he just cannot see Paro in pain or anyone trying to harm her .. so he will always take her pain on himself 😳😳... Aahhh another dilemma of heart and mind .. Heart says all hurdles will hv to face me first before reaching to Paro 😳 but Mind says oh well me only doing charity because she is my witness 😉😆...


In this Heart and Mind's Fight , Rudra is slowly getting to discover this fearless and loyal Girl who knows how to remain faithful even with her worst enemy , something which his prejudiced mind never believed earlier about women 👍🏼

Originally posted by: skanda12

Jyoti, very nice topic - this conflict between mind and heart! I love this conflict and especially it is awesome when a man has this kind of conflict, which usually hits women more!👏

Exactly .. its always fun to watch a man go restless often 😛😆

The tussle between heartfelt attraction and chemistry and the mind saying paro is just a witness in a case ... the actors are both bringing out this conflict beautifully. he is actively feeling the conflict, she is the cause of the conflict because when he is on his own his mind takes over, but in her presence, his heart takes over!

Exactly .. he tries hard to control his mind but he has no control on his heart 😳😳

This thing I wrote about a few episodes ago that Paro may start taking this daughter-in-law's side against the Chachi has also happened!

yess she seems to hv become a guiding force for Maithili now ... I guess she feels for her because she has gone through difficult times herself ..

One other thing is yesterday's episode is that I was afraid this Sumer will himself be leching after Paro, but it was a relief to see that he was doing this camera work on his mother's bidding!

yeah But I still feel one day he will take advantage of the situation when mayb Paro will b alone in house ..something like that .. he does look like those perveted ones

I also loved the role that Aman played yesterday arguing in favour of Paro to Rudra!

he already thinks of her as sister I guess because of the common name ...

The best part of the episode for me was when Rudra asked paro if she knew what was the fate of her sister married across the border before Paro herself was married. he hinted at such girls being left to the flesh trade but did not quite go through with the whole sentence. At least that should make Paro think twice about protecting this Tejawat?

Yeah Paro should think on those lines .. why these girls never visit their maaykas after marriage .. no phone calls too .. so something got to b fishy .. though she stopped Rudra but somewhere she did look affected and could not really argue with him about the whole issue because she knows this time he does hv a point ..

The big question in my mind: when are paro and Rudra going to do some shaadi to shut the mouth of this Chachi? Even a fake shaadi is okay but I want some room sharing to happen fast!

I feel it could b coming because CVs r going all out with Chachi's regular taunts and doubts on Paro .. so a fake marriage will put few doubts to rest because once she is married then whether she is from Jaipur or Londing wont matter 😆 as now she is Rudra's wife 😛

Originally posted by: jyoti06

i think a video on location came out .. after the chaanta he drags Paro in his room and blasts her for poking her nose in house matters and also reminds her how its not her house , so she need not b the guru of everyone 😆

but one positive is he always makes sure all the blasting and screaming is done in private .. he never ridicules her in public view ...