To get married again a question - Page 2

Originally posted by: suk19

my hubby says he can barely cope with one let alone two, but our daughters keep him on his toes 😉 us women are hard work lol

Originally posted by: suk19

my hubby says he can barely cope with one let alone two, but our daughters keep him on his toes 😉 us women are hard work lol

@Suk19 and @Ummesulaiman

I know yaar.

Women are sometimes hard to handle especially when it comes to jealousy. Women, by nature, are jealous creatures. Just by her man looking at another women, she'll get jealous. So, why would you marry another women to make her feel more jealous and insecure ? Any women that says she's ok with her husband having a 2nd wife, is LYING to herself, because look, no man/women in this world would love to watch their wife/husband touch and love another man/women. Anyone women who says she's ok with her husband having a 2nd wife, then she's prolly in love with his beauty/wealth. Not him. When a husband tells his wife that he wants to have a 2nd wife, it makes his first wife feel like she's lacking something. Or else why would a 2nd marriage even cross his mind ?

Prophet Muhammad said,

"This world is nothing but temporary conveniences, and the greatest joy in this world is a righteous woman."

"Whoever marries a woman solely for her power and position, God will only increase him in humiliation. Whoever marries a woman solely for her wealth, God will only increase him in poverty. Whoever marries a woman because of her beauty, God will only increase him in ugliness. But whoever marries a woman in order that he may restrain his eyes, observe cautiousness, and treat his relations kindly, Allah puts a blessing in her for him and in him for her."

The hadith clearly tells us that marrying a women for her wealth/beauty is very wrong.

& honestly, a lot of men don't even like the idea of having 2 to 4 wives.

Nowadays, there is no reason to have a 2nd wife. If you're not happy with your first wife, then divorce her. What makes the husband think that his first wife will enjoy the sight of her husband loving/touching another women ?

& I haven't come across such people who would marry someone who's disabled. So all these reasons of getting married again are irrelevant. Back then women couldn't support themselves, but now they can.

Where I'm from, a lot of men lie when they get married. They'll tell you they are single, but secretly, they are married to someone else. They leave both of their wives hanging in darkness.

Hope you understand my view. 😆