Originally posted by: Angels11
But Dear sometimes parents fail even though they try their best. My sis has a teenage son. She became uncomfy the way he was staring at SI & aft that she stopped watching the show. Since then it seems he asked her y she is not tuning in. Wat can she do. If she pretends tat everything is fine he ll continue 2 ogle. If she is honest & tells him its not age appropriate she ll pique his curiosity & he ll watch secretly. Some ppl might argue y my sister watched in the 1st place since she knew it was a love story. But they air promos also rt? Similarly the vulgarity shown in the movies is even worse. Western societies ve reached a maturity level where they dont judge a girl by her clothes. But sadly in our patriarchal society girls in skimpy dresses r assumed 2 b easy with loose morals. How do v chg such mindset 😕
So at the end of the day my take is tat TV is a powerful medium so yes as a mother i w'd defo expect the makers & the actors to show some restraint. Having said tat its a democracy & i cant question if some1 does something which is not 2 my liking.
Reg rapes & molestation its a v sensitive topic. I know i may get abused for this but i feel tat clothes do play a role. In the sense a worker goes 2 the movie hall & sees those skimpy dresses in Ram leela or any other movie. He gets sex starved but the actual object of his fantasy is out of his reach & he vents out his psychotic filthy fantasy on the weakest victim available. It c'd b his own wife, daughter or an innocent kid in the neighborhood. Wat do v do with such animals. How many can b kill or imprison. Some dont even get caught. The prob is the taboo attitude towards sex in this country. ppl frown on premarital sex & extramarital affairs. And with the skewed male-female ratio in the north they r not able 2 even find brides.
And no i am not saying all this 2 justify these animals. I am just trying 2 explain their filthy mentality. Again i know this is controversial but u ll find less rape incidents in the more educated & more advanced South India where the male-female ratio is healthy & there is less obsession with sex. I am ashamed 2 think of incidents like the rape of tat tribal girl in WB coz she fell in love with another caste guy. Worse was women in tat village supporting openly the rape on TV 🤢 So unless there is a major upheaval in the society & ppl change their mindset towards women these issues ll persist. All i can say is as mothers lets try to teach these values to our kids & hopefully the future is better for women in this country.
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