The first Person who needs a Good whacking is Pankhuri.

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rajla

@rajla

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hey guys I am once again butting into the forum with my 2nd Post other than sharing links and stuff😊

Honestly I feel that the first person who needs a good whack is Pankhuri...I get that she was brought up in a very warm, cultured, traditional environment and so it's always her first and immediate instinct to try and be Mahaan. It's not something one can change immediately but one can definitely evolve right?

Sometimes it's a must that you stand-up for yourself, your husband and family. Today the whole Avantika-Sheela face-off could have been avoided had Pankhuri spoken up. Sheela always had this inferiority complex when it comes to the daughters of the house aka Avantika and Preeti, so Pakhuri should do everything to not fuel it...Not that it would matter much considering Sheela is a blockhead but I have always noticed that nobody tries to make Sheela understand things in a much more effective way. They Ignore her, sometimes feeds her ego and that's it...beyond that point nobody does anything.

I know I am ranting but it's something I feel should be done...hence shared😊

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Dreamygal301

@Dreamygal301

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Posted: 11 years ago

If the characters actually behaved like real people then the show would have ended a long time ago.

I agree, had done a post before saying by now really everyone should know who is like what. If they want to live as happy families they should treat each other with respect, listen to them and etc.

This current mess started with Pankhu hiding a big truth from Sheila about her son, then gradually everyone supported Pankhu and Sheila was once again ignored and disrespected to the point she became a non-entity. Her crying in the dark and then calling her brother, I found that so heartbreaking. Where was the Diwan family then?

So really it is the writers to be blamed, they are dragging a certain point and then hammering another point - all ad nauseous by now!!!😡

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_Nish_

@_Nish_

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Posted: 11 years ago

Reasonable post. I agree that by leaving Sheila out of many things and not showing their care for her and supporting her, helping her understand things just makes it worse and feeds her ego. it wont make Sheila understand anything or change.

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shilub

@shilub

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Posted: 11 years ago

Good Post!

all you have to remember that Sheila is never in agreement with anything that is not profitable to her.

She always cries and creates chaos that is why no one wants to confide in her.

This was the same woman who was forgiven by everyone for almost killing Pankhuri

One thing I agree with this post is Adi and Pankhuri need to stop being Mahaan.

They are always the ones who are giving in... they are the youngest member of the family. The theme is that Pankhuri is keeping " nanaji's " dream alive but...

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PIERRE katy-kéna

@katy kay

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agreed with you that girl need to stop being mahaan, its like she love to get insulted and humiliated
Stand up for yourself and. Close family
Stop interfered in others business leave them to deal with it on their own just give them advice she was absolutely wrong in payal case
Understood Sheila for that case.
Love avantika she's my fav character even with her flaws
She's straight forward speak her mind don't let nobody trample on her
You rarely find a female in serial like Her especially MIL that stand up and protect her DIL that's why ill miss her today she said to Sheila that she always Want power but not the responsibility. That's true concerning Sheila always looking for ways to obtain power but never took responsibility for those

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chorabali

@YeojaNextDoor

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Posted: 11 years ago

Agree with you...its high tym pankhuri stops acting like mahaan...she was a bit strong during that nana-nani track but after that she returned to what she was...🤢

I think Adi is much better...what he is doing is not for being mahaan, but as a good human being...and a caring brother..👍🏼😊

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Laugh.Out.Loud

@Laugh.Out.Loud

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree! She should have long-stopped trying to solve other's problems! It's time for her to start speaking up!

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Sonia

@Bobbi.

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Posted: 11 years ago

No you're not ranting! You're actually saying the truth, and I totally agree with your stance. Pankhuri has a habit of interferring in other people's lives too much. Yes, I totally know that she does it in good will, respect her for that, but then everything has it's limit! Some family members do not like someone else butting in to their lives, and Pankhuri needs to understand that as well.

Good post, and keep posting!

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rajla

@rajla

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
If the characters actually behaved like real people then the show would have ended a long time ago.

Not necessarily...There is a very think like between adapting real in reel if one can bring that out it would only enhance the quality ...Like for instance Harish, Anuj, Avantika, Adi, Rubel, Kaira etc are way real even if REEL 😊

I agree, had done a post before saying by now really everyone should know who is like what. If they want to live as happy families they should treat each other with respect, listen to them and etc.

This current mess started with Pankhu hiding a big truth from Sheila about her son, then gradually everyone supported Pankhu and Sheila was once again ignored and disrespected to the point she became a non-entity. Her crying in the dark and then calling her brother, I found that so heartbreaking. Where was the Diwan family then?

This is so damn true...What Pakhuri did was wrong something this huge shouldn't have come out the way it did, knowing Sheela Mami and how protective she is about Rubel, Pankhuri should have put an end to it immediately 😡

So really it is the writers to be blamed, they are dragging a certain point and then hammering another point - all ad nauseous by now!!!😡

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rajla

@rajla

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: NISHADEEP
Reasonable post. I agree that by leaving Sheila out of many things and not showing their care for her and supporting her, helping her understand things just makes it worse and feeds her ego. it wont make Sheila understand anything or change.

Totally...A technique that may work on Avantika may not work on Sheela to infuse sense into her head the Diwans may have to use a different approach but instead they give some stupid excuse and sideline her ...That does not help...and it got extended to a point where she had to confine in her family who came over to add fuel to the already burning fire😡

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