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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mama1234

why does eveyrone bash Sanchi so much. We need to realize that its people around her, who are making her negative.

Sanchi was a normal girl when she was introduced. Fine she has some attitude, but she is a modern girl from rich background, but was not evil. She did not like anandi, but then no girl would ever want her only brother to marry someone who is a divorcee and from a different background.

She start liking jagya and got engaged to him. Every girl has some dreams and expectatiosn from there partners. she didnt want to live in the village, so what the big deal? alot of girls in real life do not like to live with their inlaws. Uptil that point she had not done anything negative to her inlaws, she was just acting to make them beleive that she was something that she was not, but she had no real plan of action of being mean to them and making jagya move away. That was something she would have done after marriage, and then it would have depended on how much a man jagya was, if he would have sided with his wife or his family. This is something very normal in today world. does not make any one evil.

However, we need to realize what was going on in the parallel, jagya was siltenly in love iwth ganga and just used the excuse to break off the engagement. Anandi didnot try to conivncen him otherwise. Easier way would have been to try and remove minsunderstandings other rather than targeting sanchi and breaking off the marriage just days before. Anandi and Jagya are to blame for mishandling this. Jagya ran off and married ganga within a heat beat. Sanchi has full rights to feel insulted. However, CVs have made her way too evil now. they need to show her moving on. Sure she does not need to keep the best relations with jagya and his family.

The moral of the story here is that good girls find as many rich husbands they want and bad girls can not even find one.

i am waiting for sanchi to go and get pregnant now. becasue offocurse she is so modern and educated but will not have heard of contrceptives when she will have sex with her new friend.

I partially agree with respect to Sa's character sketch.It was an air-head character but not evil. She had this silly attitude against villagers and completely disliked Anandi for being a villager and also a divorcee, while her brother was the most eligible bachelor who could have got any ultra-modern and smart girl. No harm in thinking that way. Many people think like Sa.
However, when once Shiv shut-her, she unwillingly accepted Anandi and left things at that. It was Anandi who wanted Sa to treat her like a sis, intruded in Sa's privacy and bothered Sa. To be honest Anandi didn't do much to accept any urban style living (up until now) that Sa would find her any interesting.

Initally Sa never disrespected any of Shekhars like she does now to Choti mom, Shiv after identity revelation or chote papa etc. Surely CVs have pulled this character way too far in negative light, that one can only find faults with her. I also hate Sa completely.

But I do agree with you, that a lot of what is Sa today, is also because of the people around her.

And I would mainly blame J and A for a lot that Sa did up until SaJa. And blame Shekhars for most stuff that she did post SaJa.

Why did J agree to marry her when he had completely disliked her? For family? So is it ok to marry someone for family and then not give her any love, respect and rather run to another woman for solace? How is it fair on Sa that her fiance constantly loved another woman secretly and avoided Sa as much as he could. So a guy can play with as many emotions as a he wants , because he was REDEEMING but if a female imposes her modernity on her man then she is bad and becomes a sole reason for break-up?

The fact is that J was not man enough to say NO to SaJa when he clearly, clearly, clearly disliked Sa. He always knew what Sa was like, but yet he just jumped in. And then when he got one chance he blamed it all on Sa and married G in a heart-beat.

Anandi is to blame too, because she never took any step to stop things despite knowing all.

Yes, what Sa is today , is a very hate-able character without any real reason, and yes she in NO Gauri if Cvs are trying to create one. But CVs have sketched very poor images of modern girls vs traditional girls.

Traditional girls like Ganga are still sweet even when they have double-standards, but modern girls like Sa, Gauri, Ashima etc are almost characterless or evil.

By writing this post I am not defending Sa, but I agree that the people around her were not that good to her either and are equally to be blamed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why did J agree to marry her when he had completely disliked her? For family? So is it ok to marry someone for family and then not give her any love, respect and rather run to another woman for solace? How is it fair on Sa that her fiance constantly loved another woman secretly and avoided

Traditional girls like Ganga are still sweet even when they have double-standards, but modern girls like Sa, Gauri, Ashima etc are almost characterless or evil.

By writing this post I am not defending Sa, but I agree that the people around her were not that good to her either and are equally to be blamed.

@ blue yes i agree with u jagya did wrong specially when he was not ready to marry to sanchi but agree for her mother and andi aske bcz he knew his mother never be allowed to gana . but he could handel the situation in better way by the help of anadi but not what he did for which Anadi is one who suffered alot . Her relationship could break with her in laws or with her maika etc...but what Anadi and Ganga did to save two family relationship was good , they did not stay away from truth whats r in their heart .

what jagya did for which he also got punishment but was saved for sanchi's evil plan. if sanchi could not this then may be for forever jagya could punished for his action.

@ red . i am not agree with u , cv did not do like this. Ashima is not a characterless girl but she is a cute and innocent girl. ya what happened with her that was not her intention but its a accident and she felt guilt also . that could happened with any one. cv also shows that happened with sugna and her sister in law . and also some anadi's friend they make relationship before marriage. thats is a fault of age . Ashima did not do like this but she felt bad when she attracted towards mahi bcz mahi is the brother of siva and she was love in siv . i quit impressed with ASIMA AND LIKED HER SO MUCH.

Gauri also not a evil but she is a selfish girl. she has so many good qualities but never liked jagya's parent bcz they did not accept her as daughter in law. may be for childhood bad experience she become a selfcentred girl . her poor condition in childhood become her as very selfish but she never thought bad to other like sanchi. she hates so much anadi but at least she never want to kill anadi like sanchi. As a good doctor she also helped people .


but here is only character sanchi who planned evil attaention . she is the one who always feel bad when she saw people around her was happy but be happy when they r suffered.

in pov in between sanchi and gauri ...gauri is hundread times better than sanchi. bcz incase of gauri . jagya was responsible more than the gauri. gauri was unaware when she entered in jagya's life.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: onirfans





Why did J agree to marry her when he had completely disliked her? For family? So is it ok to marry someone for family and then not give her any love, respect and rather run to another woman for solace? How is it fair on Sa that her fiance constantly loved another woman secretly and avoided

Traditional girls like Ganga are still sweet even when they have double-standards, but modern girls like Sa, Gauri, Ashima etc are almost characterless or evil.

By writing this post I am not defending Sa, but I agree that the people around her were not that good to her either and are equally to be blamed.


@ blue yes i agree with u jagya did wrong specially when he was not ready to marry to sanchi but agree for her mother and andi aske bcz he knew his mother never be allowed to gana . but he could handel the situation in better way by the help of anadi but not what he did for which Anadi is one who suffered alot . Her relationship could break with her in laws or with her maika etc...but what Anadi and Ganga did to save two family relationship was good , they did not stay away from truth whats r in their heart .

what jagya did for which he also got punishment but was saved for sanchi's evil plan. if sanchi could not this then may be for forever jagya could punished for his action.

@ red . i am not agree with u , cv did not do like this. Ashima is not a characterless girl but she is a cute and innocent girl. ya what happened with her that was not her intention but its a accident and she felt guilt also . that could happened with any one. cv also shows that happened with sugna and her sister in law . and also some anadi's friend they make relationship before marriage. thats is a fault of age . Ashima did not do like this but she felt bad when she attracted towards mahi bcz mahi is the brother of siva and she was love in siv . i quit impressed with ASIMA AND LIKED HER SO MUCH.

Gauri also not a evil but she is a selfish girl. she has so many good qualities but never liked jagya's parent bcz they did not accept her as daughter in law. may be for childhood bad experience she become a selfcentred girl . her poor condition in childhood become her as very selfish but she never thought bad to other like sanchi. she hates so much anadi but at least she never want to kill anadi like sanchi. As a good doctor she also helped people .


but here is only character sanchi who planned evil attaention . she is the one who always feel bad when she saw people around her was happy but be happy when they r suffered.

in pov in between sanchi and gauri ...gauri is hundread times better than sanchi. bcz incase of gauri . jagya was responsible more than the gauri. gauri was unaware when she entered in jagya's life.



ok i dont know much about the gauri storyline, as i started watching the show after Anandi got married to Shiv, so have not followed the show befroe that. However, my point is how is Jagya and Anandi the most loveable characters and life is perfect for them, wherewas eveyryone else is evil and suffering.

Lets look at hte situation, Anandi gives more importance to Jagya's family then Shiv's family. Even now she dresses up in the village way rather than the way Shiv's family dresses. Anandi for some reason does not have a kid of her own, but adopted a kid as she wanted to become a mother. Both Daddu and Dadisaa wanted to become great grandparents. But its seems only Dadisaa wish was importnat, as even a dying ganga got pregnant and gave birht within 2 months of her marriage and Anandi has stll no chances of getting pregnant.

Anandi does social work, but cannot build a relationship with anyone in the house. thats ridiculous.

Jagya has gotten married 3 times, but is still the ideal son and the most eligible bachelor in the world. He is looking after Mannu like his own son, but has no concern for the kid that Gauri was abt to give birth it. Technically Gauri's kid is the heuir to the family, but no one seems to be too worrried to even think abt that kid.

Sanchi is by no means the most evil character of the show. Ganga is, she manipulated her way into a committed mans life.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not think others are to blame for Sanchi becoming what she is - but still others gave some fuel to the fire of evilness burning inside her. Creatives are/were in a phase where they just cannot think anything to take the story forward. They needed an antagonist to make the story interesting - and as you said - initially it was not hard to imagine a sister-in-law hating the fact that his brother decided to marry a divorcee village girl. However, they failed to develop the character and made her bad for the sake of being bad - no justification for her thinking or action. During Sa-Ja track, her character was like Tapasya of Uttaran but while Tapasya had some justification for trying to marry Veer - Sa did not have any such thing - she did not even love J. It is difficult to imagine a girl who cannot even care for happiness for her own mother, her own family. To make the matter worse - nobody has ever seen the positive side of Sanchi so it is difficult to imagine that she became what she is because of Anandi/J/anybody else.

@bold - what J did at that time was completely wrong, and that is why I felt that his redemption is not complete [redemption does not mean that to please your own family- you can agree to marry a girl whom you dislike and do not even try to make the rishta work ( in effect what he was doing at that time was to destroy the life of a girl to please his own family), and to top it all caring for another woman whom you are just 'helping' ] and Anandi thinks about Singhs only and not about Shakhers. But still J and Anadi are not responsible for what Sanchi is today.

@blue - BV creatives always show village girls good and urban girls bad (may be that is the reason Anandi is not adopting even urban style of clothes - sarees/suits, she will wear ghaghra otherwise she cannot be said to be a village woman- and not being a village woman is bad thing in BV).

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't get the blaming on Jagya He didn't clearly clearly clearly disliked that girl she was proving herself to be changed and saying she madly loves him and knows everything about his past but does not care only cares for his present Why counting he was not man enough to say no to SaJa why not saying when a person is marrying because of his family's wish and even this Sanchi knew then whats the issue he said yes . What are arranged marriages ? Is it every person suppose to be in love with his partner in every arranged from the start ? Again forgetting 100000000000000000000000 engagements break in the world , engagement is not equal to marriage A person is just seeing his partner in that too whether he should be able to continue a marriage relationship with her or not
Completely failed to understand why it is wrong to care for a woman whom you are helping ? Where he was all caring to Ganga but whatever his care was from which it is wrong but why he is suppose to dance on Sanchi's tunes as she wished ? Wow his redemption will be counted on the Sanchi's tunes 😕Disagree completely For me he was not wrong neither i agree with all criticism on him trying to force on him he was completely wrong 🤢

Anandi suffered a lot because of her mistakes why putting blame on him ? She did most mistakes and paid for him if she would have handled everything well leave Jagya even Singhs would have said No to Sanchi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😡nop...I don't think who badlegi yaa who khud mein koi badlav laayegi. who shekhar family ka naam duba ke rahegi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

Well said Librocks !!

Sanchi is no Gauri. Atleast Gauri was a victim of her past and her parents mindset and all those misunderstandings arose from there. But Gauri by herself was a sweet, hardworking, disciplined girl who was shown to be kind and helpful and brave and very very smart.

Sanchi is just the worst kind of spoilt rich brat one can find. She has all the luxuries and freedom in the world and what does she do with it ? wear inappropriate clothes to impress her girl gang and appear cool ? seduce Jagya with a pair of exposed legs and rubbing up against him ? Insult her brother by insulting his wife ? This is not just a misunderstood girl. this is a she-devil. The kind who break up families and make life hell for those near them and am just so very glad Jagya escaped without too much damage.

She does her parents discredit by behaving this badly. Ira and Alok have been indulgent towards her but they are not bad people. They care about the feeling of all family members but Sanchi doesn't care abt anyone at all !!!

i agree hooked Gauri at least did few good works but Sachi🤢
The one who curse a pregnant lady and her unborn child they should die is a misunderstood girl 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Haha if cvs marry Saanchi with Ratan he will change her 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mama1234


@ blue yes i agree with u jagya did wrong specially when he was not ready to marry to sanchi but agree for her mother and andi aske bcz he knew his mother never be allowed to gana . but he could handel the situation in better way by the help of anadi but not what he did for which Anadi is one who suffered alot . Her relationship could break with her in laws or with her maika etc...but what Anadi and Ganga did to save two family relationship was good , they did not stay away from truth whats r in their heart .

what jagya did for which he also got punishment but was saved for sanchi's evil plan. if sanchi could not this then may be for forever jagya could punished for his action.

@ red . i am not agree with u , cv did not do like this. Ashima is not a characterless girl but she is a cute and innocent girl. ya what happened with her that was not her intention but its a accident and she felt guilt also . that could happened with any one. cv also shows that happened with sugna and her sister in law . and also some anadi's friend they make relationship before marriage. thats is a fault of age . Ashima did not do like this but she felt bad when she attracted towards mahi bcz mahi is the brother of siva and she was love in siv . i quit impressed with ASIMA AND LIKED HER SO MUCH.

Gauri also not a evil but she is a selfish girl. she has so many good qualities but never liked jagya's parent bcz they did not accept her as daughter in law. may be for childhood bad experience she become a selfcentred girl . her poor condition in childhood become her as very selfish but she never thought bad to other like sanchi. she hates so much anadi but at least she never want to kill anadi like sanchi. As a good doctor she also helped people .


but here is only character sanchi who planned evil attaention . she is the one who always feel bad when she saw people around her was happy but be happy when they r suffered.

in pov in between sanchi and gauri ...gauri is hundread times better than sanchi. bcz incase of gauri . jagya was responsible more than the gauri. gauri was unaware when she entered in jagya's life.



ok i dont know much about the gauri storyline, as i started watching the show after Anandi got married to Shiv, so have not followed the show befroe that. However, my point is how is Jagya and Anandi the most loveable characters and life is perfect for them, wherewas eveyryone else is evil and suffering.

Lets look at hte situation, Anandi gives more importance to Jagya's family then Shiv's family. Even now she dresses up in the village way rather than the way Shiv's family dresses. Anandi for some reason does not have a kid of her own, but adopted a kid as she wanted to become a mother. Both Daddu and Dadisaa wanted to become great grandparents. But its seems only Dadisaa wish was importnat, as even a dying ganga got pregnant and gave birht within 2 months of her marriage and Anandi has stll no chances of getting pregnant.

Anandi does social work, but cannot build a relationship with anyone in the house. thats ridiculous.

Jagya has gotten married 3 times, but is still the ideal son and the most eligible bachelor in the world. He is looking after Mannu like his own son, but has no concern for the kid that Gauri was abt to give birth it. Technically Gauri's kid is the heuir to the family, but no one seems to be too worrried to even think abt that kid.

Sanchi is by no means the most evil character of the show. Ganga is, she manipulated her way into a committed mans life.

You points are valid but there are still few corrections@pink
Dadisa wanted Jagya's child while Daddu wanted just a child...he didn't particularly wished to see Dhiv's own child...he just wanted to become a great-grandfather even if by an adopted child

Singh actually don't know baout Gauri's second pregnancy...Gauri herself was told about her pregnancy when Jagya left and she herself refused to let anyone of that pregnancy...actually as far as i remember Gauri had actually wanted an abortion and she may have even done that

@red
I agree with you speically points about Anandi

@blue
Actually Ganga did not manipulate with singhs in anyway...it's CVs habit to show super mahaan devis perfect wives and mothers and rest who are real women are made negative characters and Saanchi is evil
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mama1234

why does eveyrone bash Sanchi so much. We need to realize that its people around her, who are making her negative.

Sanchi was a normal girl when she was introduced. Fine she has some attitude, but she is a modern girl from rich background, but was not evil. She did not like anandi, but then no girl would ever want her only brother to marry someone who is a divorcee and from a different background.

She start liking jagya and got engaged to him. Every girl has some dreams and expectatiosn from there partners. she didnt want to live in the village, so what the big deal? alot of girls in real life do not like to live with their inlaws. Uptil that point she had not done anything negative to her inlaws, she was just acting to make them beleive that she was something that she was not, but she had no real plan of action of being mean to them and making jagya move away. That was something she would have done after marriage, and then it would have depended on how much a man jagya was, if he would have sided with his wife or his family. This is something very normal in today world. does not make any one evil.

However, we need to realize what was going on in the parallel, jagya was siltenly in love iwth ganga and just used the excuse to break off the engagement. Anandi didnot try to conivncen him otherwise. Easier way would have been to try and remove minsunderstandings other rather than targeting sanchi and breaking off the marriage just days before. Anandi and Jagya are to blame for mishandling this. Jagya ran off and married ganga within a heat beat. Sanchi has full rights to feel insulted. However, CVs have made her way too evil now. they need to show her moving on. Sure she does not need to keep the best relations with jagya and his family.

The moral of the story here is that good girls find as many rich husbands they want and bad girls can not even find one.

i am waiting for sanchi to go and get pregnant now. becasue offocurse she is so modern and educated but will not have heard of contrceptives when she will have sex with her new friend.


very well said.. sanchi is insecure and humilated regarding jagya. but not evil

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