DOTW: Arasi

So Hello every Arasi lovers,
First lets get the bussiness going...........😉
Happy New Year/ Putthu Varuda NalValzthukal👏

So let's talk about Arasi.............This week is a very eventful week.....
First Arasi and Karthigyan(KK)....are emotinally divorced...this is very hard thing..as i see it...because if you are divorce then you move out of eac other's life but if you live in the same house and never speak to each other then it feels like living in sudukadu....
1)Do you think KK's decision is justified? is he overreacting? because past is past no matter what...you can't change it but punishing her for something that she did during her teengae..is it fair for Arasi?
2)do you think if Arasi were to tell him earlier they would have had happy life?
3) If your Arasi what will you do?(meli this is your question..now I am asking you all)
The second thing taht happened is Arasi taking over GJ's case...well this is expected....and Nallthambi's dialogue says it all how GJ's life will be affected" oru selviyae ungalalae thanga mudiyalae ennoruthi vanthitta enna seiyaporinga"😆
4) Do you think Arasi will suceed right away? or she will lose everything and then suceed?
Everything that is happening here is setting a stage for Arasi's downfall...beacuse eventually Arasi will lose everything and Selvi will come to her rescue.....(Selvi's word not mine) we will wait and see😉
Ganga is after Arase...sending her brother after Kalai...what are your speculation regarding that?
My take on is that Kalai will fall for him but there will be no marriage

So every one Have Happy New Year👏

I will come back with my answers 😉

1)Do you think KK's decision is justified? is he overreacting? because past is past no matter what...you can't change it but punishing her for something that she did during her teengae..is it fair for Arasi? KK decision is not justified, he was too hard against her. People do mistakes during their teenage and Arase was not a exception even it was a big matter she got pregnant as she would never have married him if she known her kid was alive in the first place. His feelings are understandable and he is very hurt, as he is a straight forwarded man. His trust to her is broken now and he cant forgive her as he wouldn't be able forget it. In just one second, the 25 years he has spent with her were vanished from his heart, that is so cruel. He should just forgive her

2)do you think if Arasi were to tell him earlier they would have had happy life? that's is very difficulty to predict. If she had told him before their marriage, and he accepted her after knowing the whole story, their life could been happily yes. I remember he said something like "not all of the men are the same, they would have understand it, if just you have told it before" when Selvarani - Udhay fight with each other.

But if she said that after their marriage, I don't know. If he is the perfect gentlemen then it wouldn't be a problem, he could also feel cheated and had a miserable life.

3) If your Arasi what will you do? Well , if was her, then I would have told my husband everything before the marriage as I believe it shouldn't be any secret between hsuband and wife, esp matters than can come back later on your life to hunt u. "what goes around, comes around".

And if I was in her situation right now where everything is messed up, I would have given my hubby a space. The best thing I can do is just trying to make him understand the story from my side, its up to him to decide what he will do. Life goes on and I believe one day he will understand me and come to me. I would have concentred on my work and kids and trying to reconcile with my long lost daughter. 😆

4) Do you think Arasi will suceed right away? or she will lose everything and then suceed? I don't think she will get succeed right away as she has many black sheeps on her team. She have already failed on her first step, choosing her team…so she has to fall down before she will "get" up…NT seems to have all of her moment on his fingertips, so I guess the serial will drag with this track for another 200 episodes. You know what, I think this case will be her dowmfall and only Selvi will able to solves this and this will lead her to accept Selvi and be proud of her as herself couldn't do it. Selvi will win her challnge. 😉

5) about Gangs ugly brother🤢, I think Kalai will fall for that fellow and even run away or something like that. I really hope a nice guy will show up not this yerke😡…..yuke…🤢

Here is my answer....I agree with Meli on most of the anwer....excpet for Arasi part 😆
I will do exactly as my iron lady did 😉

Thanks Loka for posting all those questions...!! 👏

I find this KK fellow very possessive and being Judge he has not been fair in passing judgement to his wife. She has given him honest answers to his questions. She was young, naive and made a terrible mistake - which often youngsters do without realising the after effect of it - which usually arises later part of their lives. The thought of his wife having shared her bed with someone else before him is what he can't accept...just too bad KK.!! 😛

If Arase had told him earlier he would have reacted even worst off....he would have asked her to pack the very minute he knows and send her back to her parents. If at this age (59yrs) he is not able to rationalise things how could he have done it 25 odd years ago when he was young too??

However, Arase could have told him the truth instead of hiding this incident. If she had fallen in love and broken off with her boyfriend then its a different story but here she become pregnant and delivered a child - whether the baby is dead or alive is immaterial. KK must have expected to marry a virgin but sadly he married a woman who has experienced motherhood. Nevertheless, it could have been out of fright and insecured feelings that has prevented her from revealing her past - she loves KK too much and didn't want to lose him or breakup her family....which is the main reason why she didn't want Selvi to cross her path.

On whether Arase would succeed in nabbing NT/Rudra - its obvious its going to take place - whether with or without Selvi's assistance - coz its Radhikaa's Radaan that is behind this whole serial and she has always portrayed herself as the winner..!! 😉

Thanks Sue and Meli😃
you are right about KK...he is not able to rationalize it even now so 25 years before that it will be worst...
With her situation...I have a feeling same thing will happen to Kalai...Ganga's bro will have his way with her before dumbing her and Kalai will be in the same position as Selvi..may be then KK will understand why they hid it from him....will have to wait and see
Thanks for answering the question Meli and Sue

Loka, I too think Kalai will to through what her mother also did and then finally a handsome guy will accept her I hope, not that ugly what-ever-his-name was 😡 😡

Originally posted by: meli

Loka, I too think Kalai will to through what her mother also did and then finally a handsome guy will accept her I hope, not that ugly what-ever-his-name was 😡 😡

I hope so too...........I don't want Ganga's brother tp marry her...I hate that guy man he is U.G.L.Y😡😡

Oh dear, I hope it is not history repeats itself.

Bring something new please. Like maybe Kalai is as strong as Arase inspite of her medical problems that she could resists the guy. Or she has a good mind discussing this with her family, seeing that they have good rapport.

In KK position, if it was me, I don't think I could forgive Arase easily. KK thinks the life he lived her is a lie. He was emotional, and boy he was. Okay, she could not tell about her past during her marriage, but once Selvi appeared, she told her family a story, and what is their opinion. KK said that he would see the situation. He also asked her what was wrong. She should have told him the truth. Like this is not my friend but me. She chose to keep quiet. Yes, it is hard, but then, she should know the problem won't go away, esp KK is staying in Chennai for the investigation.

He is also angry with her because Arase denied Selvi's existence. Her reason. She does not want to loose her family. Either way she will and she did loose her husband. She is brave woman, so she should have thought rationally and told the truth.

I would have been hurt just like KK. Anyway, this is all until KK hurts goes away and Arase is fair to everyone esp to Selvi. By calling in Mahi, she is pushing KK and Selvi further. I won't be surprised if KK and Selvi forms an alliance, which may end up Arase being jealous.

Selvi's acting??? Nothing to write home about.