Theres a difference between not doing smooth talk and being rude and egoist and thinking others are nothing. If I speak straight from my heart its very good but I need to have some sense of talking too when I am in midst of a group.
Today if I pick up certian foramites and speak straight from my heart that guys I hate u and behave in that way and underestimate them what will u guyz say Oh she is good its just that she spoke from her heart, u wont, it will just take seconds for everyone to bash me up.
If I am in a group I need to behave properly, its not required that i be intimate with everyone but at least be polite or else I should be called uncivilized and thats what Arpita is.