Gurmeet & Debina v The Rest.. *DT Note P8*

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really feel sorry for all the other couples on the show, it seems like they are of no importance and that Gurmeet and Debina are the only ones who have struggled in their life, and are the only ones who work hard.

To Gurmeet and Debina fans..
Many of you are stating that people are just jealous of GurBina, and that's why they're complaining about the video shown on Gurmeet. But let me ask you this, if the show decided to show a video on any other couple, that quite clearly aimed to gain your sympathy, would you not think it was unfair on the other couples? Would you not think that couple is being favoured? Wouldn't you question why they didn't show such a video for your favourite?😕
Please be honest.
It is unfair, and it is making it seem like the show is rigged and the channel has decided who they want to win. And I'm sure if this happened with another couple other than GurBina, then many of you would have thought the same.


From the start I realised the show seemed to favour GurBina. You can see this due to Sajid's comments and his insults of other contestants, and his unending praising and begging of votes for GurBina. Also when the judges are talking to another couple, the camera almost always focuses on GurBina at some point, why? Are they meant to be the stars of the show? Even when another couple is on stage why is it necessary to show GurBina? Why not show the reactions of any other couple?🥱

And what's up with Debina saying she danced a straining routine with fractured ribs?😲
I'm sorry but I don't think she fractured her ribs at all. How many here have watched cricket? When a cricketer fractures even one finger, it swells up, and they never ever play with a fracture, because the pain is too much to bare, and yet here we are meant to believe Debina danced for weeks with fractured ribs?🥱 A cricketer can't even hold a bat properly because of the pain, but Debina was fine with Gurmeet holding her in that area and lifting her and doing flips? Do you guys seriously believe that's possible?

I don't know about other people, but the way the show is going it makes me doubt it's integrity, and I feel like it is rigged. I feel like the winners have been chosen and that no amount of votes can change that.

I liked Gurmeet after Punar Vivah but I have to say after this show, I feel like he has lost a lot of people's respect.


I congratulate all the other couples for being so gracious and working so hard, and not complaining and sympathy-seeking, even when on occasions they have been ignored and insulted.


Edit..
1) Some of you are saying that there were videos of all the other couples on the first episode and GurBina were the only ones who didn't have a video. This is not true, not all the couples had a video on the first episode.
2) When the other couples did have videos, it was almost always about their love story (I haven't seen all of them), not about how they come from a poor area and how hard they have struggled, how they starved etc. Why was it only GurBina who had a sympathy-seeking video? Why didn't they have videos of all the couples' struggles?
3) Why are GurBina so special that their emotional video is shown so close to the final? Clearly this is unfair to all the other contestants. If the other contestants had such videos near the final then I'm sure GurBina fans would have complained, as obviously such videos would impact the votes.
4) Gurmeet was not brought up in a poor village, that is not true, he has himself stated many times that he lived in different cities and is educated and they had enough money, so much so that his parents shifted to Mumbai for him the moment he moved, does that sound poor to you?His struggles are the same as many other actors/actresses, here's one link where he himself states he lived in various places: http://gurmeetdebina.india-forums.com/2010/01/287-my-struggle-so-far-gurmeet-chaudhary.htm
5) My main point is that I feel the truth about Gurmeet's upbringing is being twisted to gain sympathy, just like Debina's injury seems to have been exaggerated.
6) And please don't say I just hate GurBina, I'm not someone who has such a sad life that I would hate an actor that I don't even know personally. I'm looking at it objectively. Gurmeet was one of the people I actually liked because I thought he was down to earth, but after this show I have to say I feel like he's let down a lot of people.
7) And lastly thank you to the GurBina fans who are being understanding and accepting that what is happening is unfair. It takes a lot of honesty to accept that what your favourites are doing is wrong.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yup.gc alrdy lost d respect dat fans usd to hold fr him...biscuit,marriage at 19,live togethr,fake ribs,charity,pda,sajid ka shit nd d list goes on...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah I agree with every word of yours. Sajid is the one to blame for all the biasness in the show. Declaring winners in first episode was cheap of him! 🥱 Then we have Gurmina being the only ones on the show who get the most importance. It's like nobody else has fans! The whole season was based on them and their stories. Kabhi fracture kabhi stories and what not?! 🥱
Yeah. I used to like Gurmeet long time ago but now after seeing him in this season his lost the respect. Not only from me but from many fans. Sad but true.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@TM,
To be honest, I was wondering when there would be a video about Gurmeet, because there was a video on Ripu-Shivangi (especially Shivangi), Vinod (where his parents talked about his handicap and his struggle with it), Raqesh-Riddhi (where it talked about their love story) and even Rithvik-Asha. In fact, in the first episode there was a video after everyone couple's introduction except for Gurmeet and Debina, so if we are enjoying a video on them where his parents got to give him some encouragement, what's wrong with it? Last week, Rithvik also talked about his struggle and how he came from a poor family, but it's wrong if Gurmeet does so? What's with the double standard?

Personally, I enjoyed hearing about the struggles and life history of every couple on this show. It helped me get to know them all better in a much more personal life, but I find it unfair how Gurmeet and Debina are the only couple being targeted for having a video, when every other fan group enjoys have special mentions and videos on their respective couple.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And for everyone's information, Gurmeet was 19 and Debina 19-20 when they got married. Gurmeet & Debina got married in 2004, when the legal age of consent for both males and females was 18, so they did not have a child marriage. The child marriage act of 2006 increased male consent to 21, but it does not apply to couples who are already married by then, so people can relax and not have a panic attack at the thought of Gurbina having a child marriage. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yest performance judges said they did not see that type dance sry gc chreographer alwys copy other relity show.yest performance i rem dd performance in jdj semifinal like tht from abcd song ganpati bap moyeya..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It's absolutely fair for Gurmeet and Debina to have a video on them like every other couple or almost every other couple had about them and I don't think that's the problem. The issue is that Gurmeet and Debina's video is airing in the semi-finals which is leaving a bad impression in many viewers minds because at this stage of the competition everything should be on a even footing and that does not appear to be the case. Especially since Sajid Khan's mantra is also repeated practically every week - do you think that is fair to the other contestants - I don't think so. What's fair is fair!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

@TM,

To be honest, I was wondering when there would be a video about Gurmeet, because there was a video on Ripu-Shivangi (especially Shivangi), Vinod (where his parents talked about his handicap and his struggle with it), Raqesh-Riddhi (where it talked about their love story) and even Rithvik-Asha. In fact, in the first episode there was a video after everyone couple's introduction except for Gurmeet and Debina, so if we are enjoying a video on them where his parents got to give him some encouragement, what's wrong with it? Last week, Rithvik also talked about his struggle and how he came from a poor family, but it's wrong if Gurmeet does so? What's with the double standard?

Personally, I enjoyed hearing about the struggles and life history of every couple on this show. It helped me get to know them all better in a much more personal life, but I find it unfair how Gurmeet and Debina are the only couple being targeted for having a video, when every other fan group enjoys have special mentions and videos on their respective couple.



Janaki.. Completely agree with u..
Even I was thinking the same.. Every couple had some kind of video in different episodes.. Then why is Gurbina targetted for having a video of guru's journey in today's episode..
Have nothing against any other performers coz every contestant is really good.. And their life story too.. But targetting a couple only because they were the ones whose videos were shown is unfair...
Every couple in some or the other way have shared their journey... If they share their story/journey its good. and if gurbina is sharing their journey, its a trick.
I really dont get this double standards




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

And for everyone's information, Gurmeet was 19 and Debina 19-20 when they got married. Gurmeet & Debina got married in 2004, when the legal age of consent for both males and females was 18, so they did not have a child marriage. The child marriage act of 2006 increased male consent to 21, but it does not apply to couples who are already married by then, so people can relax and not have a panic attack at the thought of Gurbina having a child marriage.😆

shame on u that u don't even know the real age of ur fav actress she is 34 :P remeber in 1999 she was 20 where she took participation in some miss show where no one was under 20 :P uff go do ur homework then peeche pls thank u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princess121993




Janaki.. Completely agree with u..
Even I was thinking the same.. Every couple had some kind of video in different episodes.. Then why is Gurbina targetted for having a video of guru's journey in today's episode..
Have nothing against any other performers coz every contestant is really good.. And their life story too.. But targetting a couple only because they were the ones whose videos were shown is unfair...
Every couple in some or the other way have shared their journey... If they share their story/journey its good. and if gurbina is sharing their journey, its a trick.
I really dont get this double standards




Yess it is fair to have their video also but why at the end only is it quite obvious people gonna be talking about it how they feel I'm feeling it too that video was saved for end by Shamir DiMagg so they can have sympathy but sorry to say seen a lot o u Guys saying oh it was emotional brought tears in every viewers didn't see anyone crying over it neither did I no I'm not heartless but I'm one of those who cry if some get a small cut on finger I cry n I cry when I see such lovely couples so in love but here I felt like I'm watching some show were they r showing the hero where he grown up from like sometime of movie like slumdog million air but all thinking is different n uguys will never think negative or wrong or find any faults in ur god so keep doing them he is going nowhere he may win but he lost respect from his many fans to random people

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