what the heck im confused

i live in us so im far far behind thanks 2 chets the gr8 that we know whats gona happen and we can keep our cool and our bp low chets yu r gr8.

anyway im lost pl help here is why im lost:

ok when rimjim came 2 SSS she was 21 then all th drama and she got married then all the drama avi kill nikita brother lost malini in malini love avi avi back 2 SSS with that garbage malini rimjim pregnant so i belive she was 22 when she got prego 10 months in2 pregnancy she is 23 when megha born and om was a 2 yr baby at that time and they show that megha 1st birthday and yashoda pregnant with soham but then later on when all are in jail and megha is 7 yrs so rimjim is 30 soham is still 8 month baby even after 6 yrs lol anyway at time om should be 9 he was 2 yrs older 2 megha and then they show tanya rohini step daughter she was 20 as they said once she is 21 they will turn her the property at time when av gets his senses back kaveri son is 5 months so now after then rimjim goes 2 jail for 14 yrs so now the synopsis should be:

rimjim is 30+ 14 = 44yrs

megha is 7+14 =21 yrs

om 9+ 14= 23yrs

soham should be =14yrs ( i mean really should be 14+ 6=20) but

and then as when rimjim went 2 jail kaveris on was 5 months so 14ys and 5 months.

now how can tanya be om wife when om was 9 she was 21 now she is his wife when she is 12 yrs older 2 him i mean im driving myself nuts what is all this.

o ya whats up with this esha was 10 when megha was not born so when megha born she should be 12 and then megha is 8 yrs older 2 vicki so 12+8 = 20 yrs + 14 of rimjim jail o mmy GOD esha is 34 and getting married 2 14 yrs old vicki.